After graduating from college for many years, students have experienced all kinds of beatings in society and realized the complexity of social people. At this time, they always think of the happy time in college and the simple and sincere feelings between classmates who are with college students. However, not everyone is willing to attend the reunion. They have various reasons not to attend the party. To sum up, there are three main reasons. First of all, they think they are not doing well. Second, I didn't have much contact with my classmates at first, and I didn't establish deep feelings. Third, they are afraid of the competition at the reunion.

After graduating for many years, I didn't break out of a world, and I was ashamed to see my elders in Jiangdong. I think at the beginning, all the students were similar. A few years after graduation, some of my classmates have got along well. On the other hand, after so many years, I'm still just an ordinary employee, with a meager salary, which is far from those managers who are already high-paid. Considering this, many people are reluctant to go to class reunion.

I don't communicate much with my classmates in class, and I don't have deep feelings with them. In the class, there are always some people who don't like to associate with other students because of their personality or other reasons. After a few years in college, he was a loner and had little contact with his classmates after graduation. Of course, they don't want to attend the class reunion.

Students will go bad and keep up with the joneses. The purpose of class reunion is to connect the feelings between classmates, and everyone sits together to recall interesting past events. However, classmates are still classmates, but everyone is no longer the ignorant teenager. After staying in society for so long, everyone will have some social habits more or less. Gay men learn to compare their positions and incomes consciously or unconsciously, and female students may also compare whose husbands make more money, which makes the stale classmates unattractive.

In a word, we don't have to criticize those who don't want to attend the reunion. Maybe they have their own difficulties. At the same time, everyone's reunion should be based on contact feelings, not too utilitarian.