When I was admitted to the university, the county rewarded the poor students who were above the second year of high school and gave 2000 yuan to raise money for the family in disguise. My relatives asked me to handle wine, which cost more than 1000 and received a gift of 5000 yuan. Then after the college entrance examination, I went to work in the county town for two months, with 2000 yuan and tuition of 4600 yuan.
When I left, I took my money with me and my family's money with me. Basically, I don't have to worry about my freshman semester. And I applied for a grant during my college years, with an annual subsidy of 3000 yuan.
Then I will work part-time in a restaurant near the school. I only pack meals for a few hours a day, and there are basically four or five hundred yuan a month. Then I will do part-time jobs in winter and summer vacations, and I can earn three or four thousand yuan at the end of each job. Almost every year, except for tuition, there is almost no money at home.
Then my brother was admitted to the university in the second year, similar to me. The only difference is that his tuition is a loan. Then my brother and I just finished college.
I don't know about your family's situation, but I think it's difficult for the time being, as long as your children can earn their own living expenses in college, it won't be so difficult. Bite your teeth and it will pass.
Netizen 2:
As a college student from the countryside, I can tell you directly that as long as I can afford it, it is ok for rural children to read one good book and two. At least, they will have more choices in the future and will not be so passive.
For most rural children and families, knowledge changes their distant lives, which is the most appropriate sentence. It is more reliable to change your destiny through knowledge than going out to work hard and working day and night.
For a long time, there has been a voice in society that it is difficult for poor families to give birth to expensive children. I have never opposed this sentence, because it has been a fact since ancient times. In ancient times, this situation was very serious. In modern times, this situation has obviously improved, but it still exists.
The chances of Henan and Sichuan candidates being admitted to famous universities are much lower than those of Beijing and Tianjin candidates, which reflects the uneven development and uneven distribution of educational resources in China, and we can't change this. But for their own personnel, at least in the college entrance examination, everyone has equal opportunities.
It is not terrible that rural children can get two ordinary books. They still have the opportunity to be admitted to a prestigious graduate school to change their destiny.
As for children who have no money to study, it is really not a big problem now. Tuition can be solved by student loans or scholarships, and living expenses can be solved by grants or part-time jobs.
If you are admitted to the university, you must study, and you can't let money be the reason why children can't afford to read books, so you will regret it all your life.
Netizen 3:
Let me give you an example of this situation for your reference.
In 2003, there were m-girls, one in Zhenjiang, Nanjing, Jiangsu, one in Yantai, Shandong and one in Yichun, Jiangxi. They lived in the same dormitory for four years.
After graduation, in the system of Nanjing, because both parents are institutions. The other three went to private enterprises, and the best Zhenjiang one went to Huawei. Two years later, the one in Shandong resigned and started a business. Jiangxi jumped from administration to another private enterprise to sales. Well done this 10 year.
In addition to Nanjing, the RV that entered the institution was bought by parents. The other three are self-reliant and have cars and houses. Now the annual income is between 200,000 and 300,000.
Why did I make it so clear? Because one of m-girls is my daughter, and m-girls has known each other like sisters since she entered the university.
I also have a daughter who graduated from junior high school and only attended a technical secondary school. Now her annual income is about 40,000. The daughter who graduated from two universities now earns 300,000 yuan a year. Company 14 is listed in Shenzhen, with a small number of shares.
My two daughters are one year apart in age. What's the difference between the income of those who went to college and those who didn't?
I suggest you let your child go to college, as long as he wants to study, take out a loan or borrow money, and don't listen to the myth that reading is useless.
Netizen 4:
Should I scold you for asking such a question, or should I scold you or should I scold you? Other people can't get into two books, they have to get into three books, and they have to get into a college. It's very kind of you to let your children drop out of school without giving them any money. What a confused parent.
Needless to say, not going to college has much impact on children's lives. The key is to go to college now, and money is really not a problem. At present, the state's financial support for college students is very strong.
At present, the national financial aid system for college students can be divided into five parts: loan, help, supplement, exemption and award.
Loan: It's a student loan.
The student loan will not be repaid until three years after graduation, which has little pressure on students and families, and the state will also give full preferential treatment during school. The application is very convenient.
Help: namely grants and work-study programs.
Scholarships are grants to ensure that students from poor families can afford to go to school, and no one will drop out of school because of financial difficulties. As long as the family has financial difficulties, they can apply, and there are no other restrictions.
The school will also provide more work-study positions, and help the school to work after school hours, which will probably earn 1000 to 2,000 yuan a semester.
Supplement: Temporary hardship allowance
It is a temporary subsidy for students due to irresistible accidents such as major natural disasters and accidents in their families. This subsidy is not much, generally 1000 to 2000 yuan.
Free: free of tuition
Generally speaking, orphans go to college free of charge.
Awards: namely scholarships.
I don't need to talk about scholarships. If you get good grades, you will get a scholarship.
There are several work-study programs in my office, and they can basically pay their own living expenses. Some students also use their spare time to work outside school, which costs 1000 yuan a month. One of my students not only doesn't have to pay the tuition and living expenses at home, but also gives her a red envelope during the Chinese New Year.
Netizen 5:
I remember that in the past, when there were few college students, being admitted to a university meant saying goodbye to poverty and entering Gao Fushuai. At that time, many people were looking forward to going to college by themselves. However, until today, as our higher education gradually moves from elite education to popularization, we find that college students are worthless.
Not to mention a handful, the wage income may not be as much as the money earned by working on the construction site. For a time, the theory of reading uselessness began to spread in the hearts of parents.
Undeniably, according to the current economic situation, if two children don't go to school, they may go out to work to subsidize their families. If they go to school, it is difficult to find a good job without a good major.
But what I want to say is, let the children go to bed.
Compared with earning money to support the family, college education is the soil that nourishes the hearts of young people. Here, young people will have many similar ideas together, which will make them have more experiences and feelings on the road of growth, and of course they can learn the ability to make money. If you can't go to school, you may leave a psychological shadow.
In addition, the university also offers various scholarships and opportunities for work-study programs. Now that the national policy is good, college students can start their own businesses or go out to work. Therefore, these four years, which seem to cost money, are actually four years of young people's contact with society. I believe that after four years in college, there will be refreshing gains.
On the other hand, if you don't go to college and earn tens of thousands of dollars more, it is of little use to pay tens of thousands of bride price and build hundreds of thousands of houses in the countryside now.
Netizen 6:
Of course, if you don't seize such a good opportunity, you will regret it in the future, unless of course you have an adventure.
Although going to college may not be very successful, at least success will be relatively easy.
As for tuition fees, the state now has a green channel for poor college students. Don't worry too much about tuition, you can let your children go after graduation.
Needless to say, the learning environment doesn't matter, and it can make up for it. Studying hard for the postgraduate entrance examination can also be admitted to a good school. College students naturally have certain advantages when they come out to find jobs.
Now universities generally have student loans, which can help poor students to provide interest-free tuition for two years after graduation. Of course, it also depends on whether the standards of different schools are the same. Moreover, when you go to college, the school can provide scholarships to students with family difficulties, ranging from several thousand a year.
If you get good grades, you can also get a scholarship. Some schools will have many kinds and amounts of scholarships, and the living expenses will basically not be borne by your family.
Moreover, you can also work and study at school. There are many part-time jobs at school. As long as you are willing to endure hardships, you should not worry about living expenses.
Of course, if you are really not in the mood to study, there is no need to waste time. There are also many students who play games during college and neglect their studies. If they don't do business at school, it's better to enter the society early to reduce the burden on their families.