People who lack love always like to do things alone, and their personality is relatively withdrawn. In love, such people are always worried about the consequences of their investment, but once they invest, they always give everything they think is good to each other and hope others will do the same to him.
It is a common phenomenon that children or orphans in single-parent families generally lack love. Even people who lack love as children will feel worthless and unworthy of love, and will have the idea of "non-existence" and may exaggerate the idea of suicide. Society should give more care and love to these people and let them feel the temperature of society.
I have such a friend around me. Since his parents divorced, he has lived with his grandmother, and his parents seldom come to see him. I haven't heard him talk about his parents since he and I became roommates. He is a boy, but his character is a little feminine and withdrawn, commonly known as a little girl. He always likes to be with girls, which is more emotional. This happened in high school. He has a very good relationship with a female classmate. Always have classes and eat together every day. Good relationship, good for women. If his character is not a little sissy, we all think they are in love. At that time, everyone was in adolescence, and it was normal for boys and girls to fall in love. In this way, his very good female classmate fell in love with a male classmate in the class. Everyone in high school is curious and gossipy about dating. After lunch, they will gossip in the dormitory. On this day, we were lying in bed talking about this female classmate's love affair. As a result, he heard it, saw his face turn black, and went straight out of the dormitory. We were all speculating about finding that lesbian to study, and sure enough, they fell out completely because of this. Maybe he doesn't want her to be with someone else's boyfriend. Maybe he thinks that this girl may not be as good as him after falling in love. He may feel that he will lose this good friend, feel insecure and be afraid of losing this friendship. Everything will gradually become a thing of the past with time, and no amount of pain will gradually disappear at any time. He is still so withdrawn and unwilling to communicate with others. Now, everyone has grown up and taken part in social work. He is an accountant now. Now he is more independent and has become a ruthless leader.
Occasionally, he will remember the birthdays of classmates in our dormitory and call me every birthday. I think he is still afraid of losing it. I still don't like making friends. I've never seen his circle of friends full of work, still as lonely. Lack of love from childhood will make people more eager to love and be loved, but they are afraid of harm, so they always wrap themselves tightly.