The dormitory is not a place for her alone. Everyone's living habits and schedules are different, so we can't let others indulge her just because she is alone. If she goes to bed at an inappropriate time, will others waste time doing nothing until she wakes up? It is normal to have a little friction in collective life, but as long as everyone puts themselves in others' shoes, I believe that the dormitory life will be very happy in the future. First, try to synchronize your sleep time with others. When sleeping, some small sounds will be infinitely amplified, even making it difficult for people to fall asleep. Then this person's mood will become extremely bad and his attitude towards his roommate will be very bad. Second, in the dormitory, everyone's living habits are different, so some people may like quiet.
Some people like to be active, but so many people in the dormitory should accommodate each other, care about each other, learn to take care of each other's feelings, let everyone grow together in a better environment, and make us more United and harmonious.
Third, when a person wants to sleep, he wants the dormitory to be quiet. In fact, his suggestion is correct, because many people sleep at this time. Then everyone can take a lunch break together and be quiet when sleeping, which will not only help them to stay in the state between classes, but also help them to cheer up, increase their physical strength and create a better environment for their tense study atmosphere. 1. Learn to be tolerant and communicate sincerely with roommates.
Most dormitory contradictions can be attributed to the collision of different concepts. People may have conflicts because of different views, or they may be estranged because of the gap between the rich and the poor, and they don't like each other's way of life.
When there is a contradiction, we must first accept the differences between people.
Seeking common ground while reserving differences is the normal state of life. You can gently persuade them to make appropriate changes, but you can't laugh at or satirize them. Learn to use euphemism and kindly remind. Under normal circumstances, in friendly and inclusive communication, the friction between roommates will not be further upgraded and intensified.
2. Learn to put yourself in others' shoes and fully consider others' feelings.
The fuse of interpersonal disharmony in dormitory may also be personal bad living habits. In dormitories where people live in groups, poor personal hygiene not only affects the sanitary conditions of dormitories, but also greatly reduces the happiness of life.
Dormitory space is usually very small, and one person's untidiness often affects the whole dormitory. At the same time, different work and rest habits will also produce friction. Some people are used to going to bed early, while others can stay up until after midnight, disturbing the people.
In a collective environment like dormitory, it should be the basic principle of collective life not to act according to one's own preferences and not to let one's actions affect others. Do as you would be done by. To create a harmonious dormitory atmosphere, it is better to put yourself in others' shoes. Change your behavior, requirements and expectations, and maybe the other person will realize his own shortcomings because of your change.
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