You might as well look at the world with wisdom. Everyone was silent, neither crying nor laughing, nor feeling sad. That's why I sat next to this man for the first time. There is nothing extraordinary about this person, but this person emits a magnetic field and is healthy and upright. The oppressed people are out of breath, and only by taking the lead in breaking the atmosphere can they be solved. Who is this? It must be a collection of "Confucianism, benevolence, propriety, wisdom, holiness, sincerity in China, appearance outside, self-cultivation inside and outside".
In the original "University", there is a passage that says, "It is not good for a villain to be idle", which means that a villain usually likes to do bad things, but when he meets a cautious person, he tries his best to disguise himself, "covering up his bad things and doing good things." But people's heart and appearance are often the same, and bad ideas can always be expressed in behavior. "People regard themselves as lung and liver", which cannot be concealed by force. Only when they are as sincere as prudent people, they are "external", and "sincerity in China and external" is a main meaning of cautious independence.
The Confucian interpretation of cautious independence is: "Being able to be one, many words can be one; People who take many as one can say that five can be one. " "Be cautious, be cautious. You have one person and then one, one is one, five is one, and then you get it. " "Benevolence, righteousness, propriety and wisdom" is the most important in Confucian style, commonly known as "Five Elements of Confucian Style".
According to the provisions of the Scholars, there are five kinds of "moral trips" and "inner forms". Benevolence, righteousness, propriety and wisdom are "formed from the inside" and formed in the heart, but they are still suspected of "pluralism" and have not really been unified in the heart. Therefore, we should abandon the external differences in the form of benevolence, righteousness, courtesy and wisdom, and regard them as an organic whole, which is truly unified in the heart. Therefore, it is said that "one is also, and five husbands are also one." Therefore, being cautious here actually refers to inner concentration and singleness, specifically, it refers to the state of inner concentration on five "moral journeys" of benevolence, righteousness, propriety and wisdom.
Cautious independence is a feeling; Cautious independence is a kind of cultivation; Cautious independence is a kind of self-discipline; Cautious independence is a kind of magnanimity. The so-called "cautious independence" means that people act according to certain moral norms with a high degree of consciousness when they are alone and unsupervised. University education, moral education first, conscious, cautious and independent, is helpful for college students to educate and grow up healthily!
To be prudent, we need to consider the following aspects:
First, establish and strengthen consciousness norms. In the real university campus, there are still "subconscious" behaviors. For example, on the way to class, students bypass the curved cement road and cut across the lawn. Even if there is no one around, XX students are used to "walking" from the edge of the grass! China taught students to care for flowers and plants since childhood, and warm slogans such as "Grass also has life" have been engraved in the psychology of contemporary college students. Maybe XX students think everyone does. Am I not in line with the "main theme" by doing so? What is the "main melody"? Is "following the crowd" the correct part of values? Therefore, in view of similar "private behaviors", it is really necessary for contemporary college students to truly match their words and deeds in public and private occasions.
Second, students should adapt to being alone. Contemporary college students, especially freshmen, obviously have lonely groups, because it is difficult to adapt to the new natural and humanistic environment for a while. In this case, when appropriate, we should take the necessary ideological intervention education, on the one hand, correctly guide them to adapt to the new learning methods and interpersonal relationships in the university hall, on the other hand, guide them to endure the time of being alone and be true to themselves.
Third, one can't avoid loneliness, but it is a good opportunity to calm down and reflect on the gains and losses of the past week or so. Summarizing the past is a necessary condition for grasping the present and planning the future. In an unsupervised and undisturbed environment, everyone can be their true self. Let the true self be slowly cultivated to conform to the moral code of conduct!
A gentleman is cautious and independent. I think it means there is nothing wrong with his words and deeds, but from the perspective of life, it has another meaning. "Being cautious and independent" means that when a person is alone, he should be cautious, do not have evil thoughts in his mind, and do not relax mentally. There are many temptations in the life of 2 1 century, and most of these temptations are more magical when they are "independent". Imagine if you sometimes want to be alone, or for the convenience of some evil thoughts? The answer is yes. Therefore, the gentleman is cautious and tells us not to release our desires or evil thoughts unscrupulously when we are alone. Remember these four words: a gentleman is cautious and independent. Meditate when you are alone, especially when you have many hobbies.