Love before and after college should not be treated differently, because love should be treated with a unified attitude at all times. At the university, both parties should be adults. Since you are an adult, you should treat your feelings correctly, don't procrastinate casually, and don't do anything that goes against social morality. So we should face it with the right attitude and deal with it with the right attitude. Only in this way can we communicate with each other better.

Change Some people fall in love in college just to avoid being too lonely during college, and also to feel what kind of state love is at this time, but this kind of love is doomed not to last long. Because these people never think about the future, if they never think about the future in the process of falling in love, then two people will never have a future. Some people are still simple when they fall in love in college, but they may have various changes after entering the society.

Don't treat it differently. For example, some girls will become more realistic after entering the society. After falling in love, they will ask each other to buy all kinds of things for themselves. There are also some men who pay attention to all kinds of romance when they fall in love among students. However, after entering the society, except for some fixed festivals, others are not particularly concerned, so these are very intuitive changes.

But if you are really serious about your feelings, this change will not happen, because both boys and girls are treated differently before and after college. As long as you are an adult, you should treat your feelings as adults, not as students and social people. This kind of differential treatment is totally undesirable and meaningless.