College students are in adolescence and their reproductive system is mature. Sex hormone secretion affects physiological balance and is particularly sensitive to the opposite sex. At the same time, college students are in the mature stage of youth development, with enhanced sexual awareness, extremely impetuous psychology, eager to make friends with the opposite sex and strong sense of love.

2, their own psychological needs:

Lack of security, imperfect self-awareness, eager for others' affirmation, easy to produce conformity and comparison psychology. After studying hard for ten years at the cold window, college students struggle.

Psychological barriers caused by college love;

1, unrequited love and love illusion

Secret love and illusion of love are both cognitive and emotional errors in love psychology. Unrequited love makes some college students fall into a painful state, and they are in emptiness, irritability and even despair. If it is not handled well, it will affect their study and life, and even have a negative impact on their future love and marriage.

2. Polygamy love

Polygamy is one of the important reasons for the entanglement of love, which is actually more complicated and serious than unrequited love.