Learn to refuse, don't waste too much energy on meaningless things, or you will always be a good man and an overtime dog.
3. Learn to save money, saving money is far more important than open source. Look around you, people who have waves may not feel safe, but those who have plans, thrift and impulsiveness must live a down-to-earth life.
Rational investment
4. Chasing girls, don't lick dogs, don't kidnap a spiritual substance, which makes her uncomfortable and stressful. Sunny, clean, progressive, be yourself. It is the most important thing to make her relaxed and happy when she is together, and leave the rest to her feelings.
5. Don't stop studying. He who does not advance loses ground. The ancients did not deceive me. Compared with those who play cards, fish and games every day, even if there are mines at home, you can crush them mentally.
6. Reject Tik Tok, Atto Faster and other spiritual opium. These are useless except to raise your threshold of excitement. We live in the best times, because you can beat 70% of your peers by rejecting these "tits".
7. Choose a major to learn thoroughly. Cross-major is a very anxious thing. Young people will only change jobs when they enter the system halfway, otherwise others will only be ahead of you for more than 200 years at the starting line.
8. learn eloquence. Bragging is not eloquence. Expressing your ideas effectively can reduce misunderstandings and expand your achievements. TED's books and videos are very different from those explosive eloquence books.
9. Learn time management and energy management, and your work and study efficiency will be much better than others.
10. When getting along with colleagues in the workplace, personal affairs are more important than business. When the business is done, others think you are not bad; Personal matters are solved by others, and others may thank you for a lifetime.
Before college, IQ was more important than EQ. From university to society, EQ is much more important than IQ.
12. Deal with people who are better than yourself, aim at them, learn, imitate and catch up, because they are also noble people in your life.
Beautiful scenery/landscape
13. As we all know, the key is difficult implementation, and the quality of self-control is above everything else.
14. Let the superiors and elders fully realize that you need two qualities: politeness and Excellence.
15. The right thing, not the person. Just tell everyone about your achievements or mistakes in your work, and don't attack others with subjective emotions, otherwise your interpersonal relationship will only get worse and worse.
16. learn to be lonely. People who fool around with a group of people can't become a climate, and they can learn, think and even change qualitatively when they are alone.
17. No matter how sad that moment is, stick to it and time will dilute everything.
18. Read less chicken soup. Reading an article is a good medicine to heal the soul; Too much, just killing my time.
19. Thinking more about "why" and "how to do it" will get twice the result with half the effort when dealing with specific problems.
20. Be yourself and don't be anxious. Excellent people are angular people. Don't be afraid. Three people say you are not good, and three people say hello.