First, learning delay. Many people subjectively think that love and study do not conflict. The survey results show that most students can correctly view the relationship between learning and love, and agree that learning should be the main stage in college and love should be subordinate to learning. At the same time, I am eager to love my studies and think that I have the ability to handle the relationship between them.

However, from case analysis and interviews, it can be found that this is only the subjective desire of students, and there are not many things that can really be done. There is a saying that "love makes people stupid", especially those students in "Seeds of Love" are easily carried away by strong emotions, and the balance between emotion and reason can not help but tilt.

Secondly, we only have 24 hours a day. In fact, we are spending our previous time studying, living and socializing in love. Love plays an increasingly important role in life. Is it really worthwhile to face the high failure rate of college love? And most people bear almost all the expenses at home during their college years. It can be said that the chic and romance of college students in love is based on the hard work of their parents, which inadvertently adds more burden to their parents.

Third, college students in love have a strong tendency in interpersonal communication. Because of love, they broke away from the collective, imprisoned both sides in the world of two people, alienated their original friends, and even broke away from the collective. Their sense of collective responsibility has also been replaced by men and women. This is not only detrimental to the shaping and growth of individual roles, but also hinders their all-round development and progress.

Fourth, most college students emphasize following their feelings when they are in love. In the process of falling in love, there will be contradictions and setbacks, and it is often difficult to grasp the accurate moderation and easy to get emotional. Once the feelings fluctuate greatly, if you can't get reasonable emotional guidance, the consequences will be unimaginable.

Fifth, according to the survey, the failure rate of college love is 90%. Many college students have struggled for four years. After graduation, they went their separate ways and had no career foundation. Most of them were separated by Lao Yan and died without a disease. How many of them can bear the blow of failure and cheer up at once? I think it's more of a downturn.