I am also a frustrated girl, but now I have found someone who wants to marry, and both families agree. If you want to find someone who loves you and can live with you, I have some suggestions. I wonder if I can help you.

1. First of all, both sides pay relatively equal, which can be the same or complementary.

2. Mutual respect, tolerance and trust.

3. It is safest to have a sufficient transition period, that is, to have in-depth communication after getting familiar with it. The communication between people needs running-in. At least two people's personalities and outlook on life and values should be similar or complementary. With such a premise, the quality of two people together can be guaranteed.

There are some important factors that I hope you can pay attention to, that is, whether the man you want more is more inclined to fall in love or the one you can live with in the future. If you decide, the focus of mate selection will become somewhat different.

Don't have too many illusions when choosing a spouse, you must proceed from reality. The person you love most, except love, may not get along with you in all aspects; And people who often get along with each other, you may not love him the most. But the reality tells me that it is impossible to live together for life just by love, and few people can live without cracks. If two people only have love, they are out of step in many other aspects, including living habits, attitudes and norms. , a series of viewpoints and essential problems. Then more and more small frictions will eventually become indelible cracks, and we can only say goodbye. I think love has a shelf life, and it will expire after a long time. The so-called forever together, I think, is that when your love has not faded, you add the elements of affection and friendship, so that no one can live without anyone. I think this is the king! ~

I sincerely hope that you can find someone who can accompany you for a lifetime! ~^ ^~