Sometimes friends may really forget, because of work or family reasons, they don't remember for a while, so they frankly tell their friends that they are short of money and ask him to pay back the money as soon as possible!
I also borrowed money from my friends, but I borrowed it from my good friends, and I usually don't let my friends ask me. If so, I will never have the face to be friends with her again!
Euphemistically asked him to pay back the money.
My good friend did meet her once. My high school classmate borrowed 100 yuan from her when she was in college. Actually, there is not much money, but my good friend's family condition is really poor. During college, she relied on her friends in her hometown to help her with her living expenses. So this 100 yuan can really maintain her living expenses for at least half a month at that time!
At that time, after a friend borrowed money, he promised to pay it back to her within a week. The result dragged on for a long time. At first, he was explicitly told to pay back the money. My friend said, "money is tight, in a few days." Later, I told him euphemistically several times, and I didn't see any results! If I was politely told to pay back the money, I would already feel embarrassed. If I want this friendship to continue, I will definitely pay back the money immediately.
Hint that the other party will pay back the money
Generally speaking, people urge their friends to pay back the money. Because China people are embarrassed by their courtesy and face, it is also feasible to "hint at the other party to pay back the money"!
Since you are your friend and you know him well, both sides still attach great importance to this friendship. If you are not really nervous, your friend will definitely pay back the money in time!
Find a middleman to remind him.
My friend is not so lucky. Later, he asked me to be a "middleman" to talk to him. He called several times and finally got the money back. Although the friend who borrowed money didn't pay it back in time, it was really unintentional, so my good friend forgave him!
Knowing that the other party is short of money, don't do it for the time being.
If your life is not so tense and you don't need money so badly, then you will have more time to know that the other person is short of money. Sometimes, I borrow money from my friends, and my friends will never ask me for it!
Because I know who I am, I know who I am, and I can't turn against my friends because of this little money!
A friend who once paid thousands of dollars for seeing a doctor promised to pay her back when she was paid next month. As a result, it happened to be the Chinese New Year, so I told her to "return it to him after the New Year"! Without any objection, the friend said, "No problem. If you are short of money, don't pay it back for the time being. I'm in no hurry to use it. Anyway, in the bank. "
Someone said, "If you can borrow 50,000 yuan at a time and your friend doesn't even hesitate, then she is your true friend. My friend is like this, so we have been married since high school and have been good friends since we gave birth to the child! Of course, if the date of your repayment changes, you must inform the other party in time to show your sincerity!
Sue him and take legal action.
No one will think of taking this step until it is absolutely necessary, or when there is not much money to borrow, because once they resort to the law, they will be torn to pieces (and China people are particularly concerned about this "face" issue).
Therefore, it is really prudent to resort to the law to recover the debts of friends!
If you don't borrow money from your friends, then resorting to law is indeed a reliable and feasible way!
I believe my friend will take the initiative to pay back the money.
If I borrow money, I will definitely believe in my friend's character and his integrity, so I will only lend money to my friend, and I will be confident that my friend will take the initiative to pay back the money and will not default!
Friendship is better than money, and helping friends is a pleasure to help others.
A classmate in college is always short of money, and our friends always lend him money, not so much to lend her money, but to help her, because none of the money lent has been repaid to me. But I always don't care, because it's only tens of dollars at a time, so it's a treat!
Of course, a lot of money is impossible!
When borrowing money, you should carefully consider how much money you need, otherwise, you may lose two talents (friends and money).
If you need to lend money to a friend, but you are not very good friends, and the money borrowed at one time is not too big but not too small, which will affect your life, then I must think it over, so that both friends and money are taking risks. Generally speaking, I won't borrow money.