The girl is young. She gets good grades in our class and has many friends around her, but she always finds herself going to the library and restaurants alone. She has many friends around her. Why not go to the library and restaurant together? This question has been puzzling for a long time. By chance, I asked her such a question. She replied with a smile, I like to do what I want, so I can save time and not wait for others. Don't you think it's cool to be alone? After listening to her answer, I suddenly realized.
In fact, it is unnecessary for college students to fit in. If they don't belong to that group, no matter how hard they try, they can't integrate into that group. When you meet like-minded people, you will naturally blend in. Therefore, you don't have to deliberately integrate into the group, and you can become a group by being yourself.