1. The results of exam-oriented education are becoming more and more important.
Although the college entrance examination under film and television education is cruel and competitive, it is the fairest exam. Parents who have experienced life training know that life is far more bitter than learning.
Therefore, many parents will choose good advanced education to prevent their children's education from losing at the starting line.
2. Parents are dissatisfied with themselves
Teenagers only know how to play, but don't know how to study hard. When they are old, they regret why they didn't know how to study hard when they were young. Many parents failed to enter their favorite universities and realize their dreams for various reasons when they were young. Working hard in the workplace, life is still a stagnant pool.
They pin their hopes on their children, hoping that they can help them fulfill their dreams that they failed to realize as children. They don't allow their children to fall behind. Under the control of their parents, they endure the transitional expectations given by their parents and strive to grow up.
3. Social anxiety
In this era of "information explosion", the whole society is selling anxiety. Parents are trapped by information and easily anxious, which leads to the heart of comparison.
Parents are scrambling to enroll their children in various remedial classes. Children should not only learn cultural knowledge well, but also parents will give their children some calligraphy classes, dance classes, sketch classes and so on.
It used to be fun for children to go to kindergarten, but now many parents attach great importance to their children's education and force them to learn knowledge. Under the pressure of parents, children gradually lost their "childhood".
The education department has a clear attitude towards the phenomenon of "advanced education": preschool children are prohibited from receiving preschool education. Although many children have achieved good results of effective convergence in the new semester of senior one, they have disadvantages, which will break out in the second grade.
First, it affects children's enthusiasm for learning.
Students are always longing for the unknown knowledge, but what they learn in grade one will overlap with what they learn in kindergarten. Affect children's enthusiasm for accepting new knowledge and are not interested in the content of the teacher's lecture.
Second, there is too much knowledge by rote.
Students will improve their grades by learning knowledge repeatedly. Getting the approval of parents and parents will cause a misunderstanding for children, and learning can be a backrest. Students are not interested in knowledge, they will learn repeatedly like robots and will not use it flexibly.
First of all, according to the actual situation of children, give them appropriate educational methods. As the saying goes: what suits you is the best. The same goes for children's education. Many parents envy other people's children's Excellence and impose other people's parents' education methods on their children.
There are individual differences in children's development, so we can't generalize. It is necessary for parents to find out the advantages and disadvantages of their children. Help children correct their shortcomings, give full play to their advantages, and give different educational methods according to their own situation.
Secondly, cultivate children's psychological construction. Young convergence is not only the change of knowledge environment, but also the change of students' psychology. Many children will feel uncomfortable because they have entered a strange environment, new teachers and classmates.
Inner exclusion will slow down their ability to accept new knowledge. Parents should help their children do a good job in psychological construction, and they can take him to visit the primary school in advance, so that their children have no resistance to changes in the new environment.
Finally, parents need to change the "ingrained" concept of advanced education. Nowadays, parents always learn more from their children, and their knowledge will certainly improve. However, parents didn't consider that children's learning over and over again would make them tired of knowledge.
Parents' deep-rooted concept of advanced education makes children miserable. Children want to regain their childhood and grow up healthily. Parents need to change this concept and help their children learn instead of forcing them to learn.
Author's message: Although the earlier children master knowledge, the better, but after the second grade, the disadvantage will break out in an all-round way. Students' advanced education is not necessarily beneficial to students. Parents need to understand that students are willing to learn.