There was once a rich marriage, which was originally crazy about love, which hurt health and eventually went to ruin.
She is Wu Zhiheng, from a Hong Kong supermodel to a rich ex-wife. Eight years of rich marriage, why is it called the worst rich ex-wife in history?
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Wu Zhiheng was born in Hong Kong from 65438 to 0978. As a medical family, Wu Zhiheng grew up in a well-off family, received a good education and was excellent himself. With outstanding beauty and figure, 16-year-old Wu Zhiheng walked on the road, was discovered by scouts and became a model, which attracted widespread attention. Young and beautiful, treated as a star, many suitors.
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Guo Yongchun is one of Wu Zhiheng's many suitors and the prince of Hong Kong Yongan Group. They soon fell in love with each other and established a relationship. Wu Zhiheng, who was in his early twenties, fell into the whirlpool of love and gave up the admission notice of Oxford University. Boyfriend Guo Yongchun carefully arranged the marriage proposal scene in order to keep his girlfriend. Wu Zhiheng, who was carried away by love, agreed to Guo Yongchun's proposal. In 2000, the two ended their six-year long-distance love run and entered the marriage hall happily.
After marriage, Wu Zhiheng became a housewife and lived a carefree life. But gradually, the body gradually became fat, the delicate face became round, and the figure and appearance quietly changed. Once when they were eating, Guo Yongchun casually told her that you were fat. This careless remark made Wu Zhiheng, who was not confident, feel anxious. Guo Yongchun's abnormal behavior made her realize that her husband was slowly abandoning himself, making up his mind to lose weight crazily and taking all kinds of diet pills, which had side effects, not only suffering from anxiety, but also suffering from more serious anorexia.
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At first, Guo Yongchun knew about this and would seek medical advice for her. After a long time, the old feelings faded. Guo Yongchun no longer cares about her health, and this marriage is in jeopardy. Wu Zhiheng has undergone more than a dozen operations, removed his stomach, and can only rely on nutrient solution to maintain his body function. Although he saved his life, he became weak and could only walk with crutches.
At this time, the husband secretly moved out of the house and cut off all contact with her. I haven't heard anything for two years.
In 2008, Guo Yongchun filed a divorce with Wu Zhiheng on the grounds that he had been separated for two years, and an eight-year marriage of a rich family ended.
After the divorce, Guo Yongchun soon married her new lover, Yang Aijin. Wu Zhiheng, who knew the truth, was vulnerable, so he suddenly lost 44 pounds and was skinny, which made people scream terror.
Because Guo Yongchun is a hollow rich young master, he has no property under his name and his parents support him, so Wu Zhiheng has not got any divorce property, and the monthly alimony is only about 20,000 yuan, which is far from enough. Wu Zhiheng's parents can only take out all the pension money to treat her.
Under the care of his parents, Wu Zhiheng cheered up and gradually got out of the pain of divorce. She knows that everything is a foregone conclusion, and no matter what happened in the past, she can't go back. This marriage is destined to be borne by itself. At the beginning, it was such a fate. Instead of blaming others for changing their minds, it is better to let go, forgive each other and let yourself go.
No one is right or wrong in feelings. Everything is just your wish. At the beginning, Wu Zhiheng gave up his future for love and wanted to be with Guo Yongchun. He lowered himself too low. Just saying "you are fat" makes Wu Zhiheng lose weight desperately, which is too humble. He gradually became an accessory of Guo Yongchun, losing his pride and glory. So don't rely too much on each other in marriage, because over time, the mutual attraction between two people will be diluted and eventually separated.
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Look at Guo Yongchun's wife now. She is young and beautiful. She is somewhat similar to Wu Zhiheng when she debuted. She has the same figure and temperament. Maybe Guo Yongchun has a single taste and just likes this kind of beauty.
Yang Aijin is the idol of the band that debuted in 2002. At that time, the development of the group in Hong Kong was the unparalleled "Hong Kong Second Women's Group" except Twins.
How did Yang Aijin consolidate his marriage? What's the difference with Wu Zhiheng?
First, body management, Guo Yongchun likes slim and energetic women. Even after giving birth, Yang Aijin's weight immediately returned to the pre-pregnancy level. After several years of marriage, Yang Aijin has always been slim, and Guo Yongchun has never told her that you are fat.
Second, the independence of values. After Wu Zhiheng married Guo Yongchun, he became a rich woman with peace of mind and served at home wholeheartedly. Over time, she will inevitably think. Besides, she doesn't know the outside world and is out of touch with society, which is also the disadvantage of her unfortunate marriage.
After Yang Aijin got married, she didn't choose to quit. She is still active in front of the screen, developing her own career. She didn't want to raise her husband. In her view, women should strive to show their value so as not to be discarded and lost at will.
Third, having children, Yang Aijin gave birth to a son and a daughter for Guo Yongchun, and made up a good word. Yang Aijin has her favorite career, her children are perfect, her husband has no other problems, and finally she becomes a happy woman.
To sum up, women should not lose their values. Although modern society advocates the concept of equality between men and women, they often retain the examination and criticism of women in their bones. In the relationship between men and women, it is only a matter of time before giving in and blindly bowing.
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Several families are happy and several are sad. Now Guo Yongchun has two children, and his wife Yang Aijin is very sweet, while Wu Zhiheng, who is miserable, can only be ill in bed and live a humble life. Two different life situations have made countless people sigh.
If he returns to 1999, Wu Zhiheng chooses to go to Oxford University for further study. She didn't marry into a rich family, nor was she crazy enough to hurt her health for love. Maybe she will have a different life.
Therefore, no matter how beautiful love is, don't lower yourself in love, and don't be desperate for love. There are better things in life than love.
A good marriage means that you give me enough security and I give you a sense of belonging. You are good, but I am not bad.