1, you can't be indifferent or care about everything.

Don't think that children will be liberated if they live in school and entrust all their education to schools and teachers. No one's education can replace parents' education. Parents should often call and chat to understand what happens in their children's study and life, and give encouragement and guidance in time.

2. Treat the children who come home on weekends, and don't give them whatever they want just because they are happy.

"Distance produces beauty" is also true between parents and children. It is often a long-awaited thing for parents for their children to go home on weekends. Parents must feel this way. They want to cook a good meal and chat with their children. They think they can't kiss each other. At this time, parents often agree with their children's demands, even if they are unreasonable. Afterwards, I regretted the impulse at that time. So remind parents, don't be happy for a while, and promise their children's unreasonable demands.

For children who become introverted in adolescence, parents should pay more attention to prevent children from alienating their parents and creating barriers.

Many children are introverted because their parents are not around because of boarding, and it is easy to alienate their parents and have nothing to say. At this time, parents must not worry. They should always share things at home with their children, even such as house decoration, furniture purchase and salary expenses. Keep the topic between parents and children, attract children's attention and encourage children to talk about school at the same time.

Parents should not make a fuss about their children's complaints and dissatisfaction.

As soon as many parents receive a phone call from their children and say that they have been wronged, they are on tenterhooks and can't wait to go to school at once. In fact, whether you are treated unfairly by the teacher or have a dispute with your classmates, you should know the situation before making a judgment. Teacher Qi Dahui said that parents should trust their children, tell them their opinions for reference only, and let them make their own decisions. Don't go to school as soon as you hear your child's grievances. In that case, the child will never grow up.

Don't let the children who work hard at school become "little emperors" or "little princesses" as soon as they come home.

Boarding students can generally cultivate good self-care ability at school, such as washing clothes and tidying desks. But many times, children who are already very diligent may go into a state of straining their clothes and eating their mouths when they get home. Parents mistakenly think that children should relax and rest when they go home, as if this can reflect their love and the warmth of home. In fact, the more children are not allowed to do it, the less they participate in family life, and they are easy to be self-centered and form selfish shortcomings.