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Although my parents objected to marrying far away, what my mother-in-law said at dinner still made me burst into tears! Why?
My name is Xia Zi, and I am the only child in our family. Although our family is not rich or expensive, I have been to the county seat. I left home to work in a big city and went back so many times a year. I usually rely on the telephone. I won't go back until after the long vacation.

Some time ago, a new employee came to our company. This man is my husband because he just gave me a belt. During this period, our feelings quickly warmed up. Then he confessed, I accepted, he proposed, I accepted.

My parents were really happy when I took him home. However, my parents hesitated when I learned that his home was so far away from mine. Later, they immediately told me that they didn't agree that my husband and I were together, and the home was too far away. I think my parents just can't bear to part with me and comfort them that they will often come back after marriage to reassure them, so they didn't take it to heart.

After a while, I want my husband to come and hire me. By the way, I discussed the wedding date with my parents, and my parents are still like that. They don't want me to get married anyway. They also said that if I married my husband, I would disown my daughter. I was angry, too. I don't know why my parents can't be reasonable, so I ran back to my room in a sulk.

A few days after this incident, my parents basically watched me every day, refused to let me go out and didn't talk to me until my husband came to the door and knelt at the door, saying that he would be good to me and reassure my parents. My parents were still unwilling and refused to open the door. My husband knelt at the door all day, and my mother couldn't bear it. Finally, she gritted her teeth and agreed. My father shook his head and said that women are kind, so my mother gave me to my husband.

On my wedding day, my father stayed in his room and didn't come out. No matter how my mother and I shout, I can't leave the room. Finally, I got on the wedding car and didn't see my dad. I think dad is really angry. Later, I heard from my mother that my father smoked a lot in the room alone. After the wedding car left, he stood on the balcony and looked at the direction of the wedding car for a long time.

Shortly after my marriage, I got pregnant, resigned and lived with my mother-in-law. I always feel that there will be conflicts at any time. Later, I gave birth to a daughter, and my mother-in-law was unhappy every day, and her attitude towards me was even worse. I saw all this in my eyes, but I kept it in my heart.

On my father-in-law's birthday, I was busy all day and cooked a good table. Before dinner, a guest came to my house. It was my husband's childhood friend. My mother-in-law was smiling at her from the moment she walked in the door. This attitude is unprecedented. From the conversation between my mother-in-law and her, I learned that my mother-in-law just disliked that I didn't have a son, and her words were ironic. What's more, she even mentioned that she wanted me and her husband.

I really can't stand hearing this. I immediately put down my chopsticks and entered the room. My husband followed me in and asked me what was wrong. I said I couldn't stand what my mother-in-law said. My husband even said that my mother-in-law was right. I am cold to my husband. It turned out that he always cared that I had a daughter. I asked him loudly what he meant. He pointed at me and said that's what he meant. If he passes, he will get a divorce. Then he left the room.

I closed the door at once and wanted to call my parents. Since I got married, everything here is strange. I have no friends or relatives. My mother-in-law is not good to herself, and she feels wronged and doesn't know who to talk to. It's especially sad to think about it. I took out my mobile phone to call my parents, but I was afraid I would cry. At this time, my mother called me, but my trembling hand, which suppressed crying, didn't press the answer key. I'm afraid my mother will hear me crying, and I really regret not listening to my parents. Since I got married, I can't go home immediately if I want to. No matter how much injustice, you can only swallow it yourself. Now my husband does this to me. Should I stay in this marriage?