First of all, as a parent, you can accept an imperfect baby. Although China's parents' problem is that they want their children to become successful people, as long as they are honest, they are at a relatively perfect stage of thinking. Everyone knows that there is no such thing as perfection in this world. The same object, in the eyes of different people, will present completely different or even completely opposite scenery. As a mother, I never expect my baby to be the ultimate. To encourage children, my consistent idea is to give my daughter enough space to measure, but never allow her to release the pressure of study.

As long as the child is reasonable, measured, has a dream, does not slack off, has a moral bottom line and is sincere, such a child is the best child. Don't expect the ultimate. Children are just ordinary people. As long as they are ordinary people, they will have defects. Parents don't have to care too much! When children understand that people are not saints, they will reconcile with themselves, which many adults can't do. After understanding the truth, it is not easy to have a hard time with yourself, and it is not easy to be too self-reliant. After that, satisfaction will be higher.

Every child is born with individual differences in songs. There is no need to make every child a "sensible child" in the eyes of parents. I don't agree that parents are too picky or even demanding under purposeful or subconscious circumstances, and accept their children's shortcomings. Gentle encouragement is far more effective than severe reprimand. It is far more effective to communicate with your baby every once in a while than to mutter about your child's problems many times a day. Every child is the most important gift in parents' life. Parents' genetic inheritance is accumulated in children. What parents can think of is, if your child is defective, will everyone be fine? We have our own shortcomings, why should we require children to be extreme? Don't worry about being true to children in some small key points in life, and gradually learn to grow up in problems. This is a necessary experience for every child to grow up. When children think we can accept their shortcomings,

They are usually more willing to do things well. It is normal to expect the baby to have a psychological state, and moderate psychological expectations can also restrict the baby. However, if there are too many provisions for children's predictions, it will also enhance their work pressure and sense of loss, and even become more and more worried about exams and refuse to undertake unsuccessful things. When the child is frustrated, parents can't solve the child with negative forms such as blindly blaming, frowning and punishing. Some parents think that they will not make progress without blaming their children, but in fact, children who are not afraid of doing wrong and imperfect are generally more innovative and mainly perform better. In addition to not having too high psychological expectations for the baby, parents should not explicitly set too high rules for people around them. Parents will lead by example and tolerate others, which will make children understand the truth of understanding others and not pursuing others.