Why are children from poor families maintaining the status quo or getting poorer, while children from rich families are getting richer? Because they grew up in different environments?

Of course, it is not entirely because of this reason, but more because of their poor thinking.

Because parents' bad thinking has been influencing them subtly, although they want to escape from this idea, there is nowhere to escape, and eventually they will have bad thinking.

Parents of rich people attach importance to their children's education since childhood. They cultivate their children's hobbies from an early age, and let them turn learning into interest, not just boring mechanical learning.

They respect their children's choices and don't impose their ideas on them. They are more willing to listen to their own ideas than preach, so that they can have more independent rights and cultivate their children into thoughtful and knowledgeable people.

They will also spend time with their children and let them grow up in a family full of love and companionship, which is conducive to their mental health development.

In the process of children's growth, parents who want to be rich have been learning. They firmly believe that only by constantly learning can children be influenced and learn together.

But poor-minded parents are not like this. People with poor thinking always say to their children:

"You have to work harder and be sensible early. Only in this way can you get rid of the identity of the poor and lead the whole family to live a good life. "

Parents who think of the poor always let their children work hard first, instead of asking them what kind of life they want, what grievances they have encountered in their struggle, and whether life is happy.

This makes children feel lonely, just a tool person, and can't feel the love from their parents, which will not be conducive to their mental health development and future career development.

In the process of children's education, once children fail to meet their parents' expectations, parents with poor thinking will complain and criticize their children and tell them how difficult it is to make them feel guilty from an early age.

Their original intention is to let children understand their difficulties, share their worries for their families, study hard and get ahead in the future.

But what they don't know is that grades are not the only thing, nor can they get ahead as long as they study hard. Learning well is only the foundation, and successful people should achieve all-round development.