First of all, we should understand the characteristics of strong girls: hard mouth, loud voice, sometimes suppressing others' words, pursuing control over everything, not taking the initiative to do housework, and being more self-centered.
We should educate them with a gentle, firm and respectful attitude.
1. Stand firm: As parents, we should guide our children with a rational and firm attitude. When they want to do something, we can communicate with them, but don't be scared by their tone. We should express our views and opinions to them in a mutually equal way. Treat them rationally and firmly, and let them know that our decision is for their own good, and their actions will have an impact on others. So they will understand that we care about them and realize their mistakes.
2. Respect their decisions: We can let girls decide their own affairs. For example, housework, we can ask them what they want to do, and then give them some freedom, but at the same time, we should urge them to complete the necessary tasks. This method can not only cultivate children's ability, but also make them understand the importance of responsibility and better understand and master their own lives.
3. Encourage them to communicate more: Strong girls sometimes express themselves and it is not easy to communicate with people around them. At this time, we should guide them patiently and help them develop good communication skills. Let them find that being able to communicate with others is a good advantage, which is equally important in school and workplace. At the same time, we should encourage and reward them in time to make them more confident and powerful in their future development.
4. Give appropriate constraints: Parents must have appropriate control and can't just let their children toss around. Sometimes, we need to express our position and give our children a certain degree of restraint and guidance. However, when giving constraints, we should give specific reasons, let children understand our intentions, pay attention to ways and means, and adhere to the principles of equality and respect.
In family education, especially for strong girls, we should pay attention to methods and skills and avoid using tough methods to deal with problems. Through communication and interaction with children, let children know their own advantages and disadvantages, realize their own shortcomings, and let children grow up healthily. Finally, we should educate them well and become good young people in the new era with both internal and external studies, distinctive personality and good moral quality.