First, the marriage problems faced by military marriage
1. Separate from each other
Although China has a good military marriage protection policy, many family members choose to join the army, but some soldiers have to face the distress of separation for various reasons. In fact, even the family members of the army, soldiers have little time to spend with their families. Those couples who are separated from each other need to suffer from lovesickness, and because of the long separation, there are many difficulties and loneliness that need to be borne by one person.
2. Soldiers are not good at dealing with family problems.
As soldiers, the army is their other home, and the time spent in the army is far more than that at home. I know nothing about family problems, let alone dealing with them.
3. Lack of running-in communication between soldiers and their families
There is also a phenomenon that a soldier's marriage can be maintained during his service, but as soon as a soldier leaves the army or changes jobs, the problem of divorce appears. This is because soldiers and their families don't have time to run in and communicate, so they meet occasionally in the army and think that parting is better than getting married, but when they return to their families, they find that their concepts and ideas are different, which eventually leads to divorce.
4. The foundation of military marriage is not firm
Soldiers don't have time for love. I usually get married after several introductions at home, and my personality and living habits cannot be communicated and adjusted. Yes, they are married, and they don't have time to be together. Over time, it is easy to have problems. A large number of people are willing to marry soldiers because they have a feeling of admiration for soldiers, but they don't understand the difficulties that soldiers will face in marriage. After marriage, I found various problems and began to regret them.
Second, how to deal with the military marriage crisis?
1. Families of separated soldiers visit soldiers more often.
Family members who are not with the army must often visit the soldiers, because the soldiers can't arrange their own holidays or even go home because of temporary tasks. Therefore, military families should take more time to visit soldiers and give them some care. At the same time, soldiers should pay more attention to their families because they are not at home for a long time.
Soldiers should learn to deal with family problems.
Although the army is very hard, you should know that your family is happy and you have no worries at work. Therefore, even if you are tired, you should learn to deal with family problems, learn to put yourself in the other's shoes, and you can't handle family affairs the way the army handles things.
Let me sum up: the above are the articles I shared with you today, the marriage problems that military marriage will face, and how to deal with the crisis of military marriage. As soldiers and their families, they not only have an honor, but also should work together to maintain good family relations.