Only a few decades ago, the first person to mention the topic of sex to children was probably their parents. Parents can also explain these things to their children step by step according to their age and needs.

Now, everything is different. The book review of Lolita Effect (English) points out: "Children are getting younger and younger when they are exposed to pornographic information, and there are more and more pornographic elements in children's programs." Is this new trend helping children or hurting them?

What parents should know;

Explicit content is everywhere, and the promotion methods of merchants are hard to blame. It is not enough to just provide information.

Remember: you must help your child train "understanding" and let him "distinguish right from wrong". Today, parents need to do this more than ever.

What parents can do;

Don't stand by: no matter how uncomfortable you are, talk to your children about sex. This is your unshirkable responsibility.

Don't be wordy: it is unwise to spend a long time seriously discussing sex-related topics with children. You can make full use of your spare time.

Teach children by age: For children, you can tell them the correct names of sexual organs and teach them how to protect themselves from sexual abuse. With the growth of children's age, it can help children to further understand the basic common sense of fertility.

Help children establish correct values: when they are young, they should be taught what is honesty, justice and respect. In this way, when you really discuss the topic of sex with your children in the future, you will have a good foundation.

Lead by example: act according to the values of your professor. For example, do you laugh when others tell dirty jokes? Are you dressed sexy and revealing? Do you flirt with people casually? Say one thing and do another, and it will be difficult for children to establish correct moral values according to your teaching.