Yao Yao accidentally lost her eraser, and some of her handwriting was not very nice. I asked her to borrow an eraser from her sister's house next door and buy a new one tomorrow.

Yao Yao went to my sister's house next door and didn't come back for a while, so I took Xiao Kangkang to find her.

It turned out that the aunt next door played a joke on her. The aunt said, "Don't lend the eraser to cry baby."

Yao Yao stamped her feet angrily at her aunt's house and snorted.

Grandma next door gave her her sister's eraser. She was so angry that she threw it back on the table and refused to borrow it.

When I went there, Yao Yao was still angry with her aunt.

Aunt said, "I don't like people who cry the most."

Yao Yao groaned again and stamped his feet heavily.

When I passed by, I saw the stubbornness in her little eyes and some tears in her eyes. So, I'm a little soft-hearted I didn't scold her, but smiled and coaxed her into telling her that her aunt was teasing her. Don't be angry. Anger is not a good boy.

When I was coaxing, my aunt said, "Xiao Fei (Yao's father) has such a good temper, how can he have such a bad daughter?"

Yao Yao snorted, and I coaxed her into borrowing an eraser. Looking at her angry little appearance, I am a little worried: that arrogant attitude is really like my mother, and her emotional intelligence and IQ are very low!

I tell you the truth, if my daughter is really like me, there will be too many obstacles in her future interpersonal communication and life!

2、

Some of my own problems, I am very clear. For example: I don't know how to communicate with people, I don't know how to read, I'm too honest and frank, I don't know how to be flexible, and so on.

I know all the mistakes in my heart, but I know it's one thing, and it's another to want to change but can't.

I found many excuses for myself, such as low emotional intelligence, such as myopia and inability to see other people's micro-expressions (I don't know how to read), such as interpersonal barriers (the kind of role that can kill people).

But excuses are always just excuses, just explaining and covering up my problems, and the rest are useless.

I have also read some books to improve emotional intelligence, trying to integrate myself into the crowd and listen to other people's voices with the rule that silence is golden.

However, these modest efforts cannot change the deep-rooted internal problems.

It is because I know my shortcomings and the impact of those shortcomings on my life that I really don't want my daughter to follow my personality.

But what should we do?

I'm too worried to show it!

3、

How to cultivate children's temper?

As a mother, although I know that some children behave badly, I will guide them in the direction I think is right.

However, more often, I still feel very confused and confused, and I don't know how to educate my children.

Sometimes, I will comfort myself: everyone has their own way to go, and children are no exception. I have no ability to control their lives.

Sometimes, I feel anxious about what my children's future will be like. I don't believe that people have different lives at all, because in my opinion, there is no one at all, just as there are no two identical leaves in the world, and there are no two identical people in this world.

More often, when I am busy, I can only take care of what is in front of me, whether it is children or other things. I can only put all this behind me and think to myself: time will always leave a mark on her, and the growth of age will always teach her what growth is.

4、

I think: As a mother, I am ignorant.

Ignorant and anxious, I believe that as a mother, I am unqualified.

So far, I don't know what I should do to be a qualified mother.

No matter whether my wandering personality is good or not, I think what I can do for the time being is to spend more time with my daughter for the growth opportunity given by time!