Shen replied seriously, "Because he was the first person to peel shrimp shells for me."
In her love affair with Du Haitao, Shen always takes the initiative.
But after nine years of long-distance love, she failed to get the promise of marriage.
Shen also easily accompanied Du Haitao.
Sure enough, when it came to proposing marriage, she accepted it even though she was told that there would be no wedding.
Even for Du Haitao's explanation.
Self-confident, brave and even shrewd in the eyes of the public,
Why are you so accommodating when facing love?
Her love for Du Haitao is like an unprincipled "dedication".
Looking back on her experience, we can find that this may really not be her fault.
1989, Chen Mengchen was born in Jishou City, Hunan Province.
As a Tujia girl, Shen can speak fluent hometown dialect since she was a child.
As she grows older, she shows more and more potential as a beauty blank.
Her exquisite appearance and cheerful and optimistic personality make her loved by many people around her.
Shen is the only daughter in the family and the apple of her parents' eye.
But at the same time, she has high hopes and is strictly disciplined by her parents.
Whether it's lifestyle or study habits,
Shen is required to strictly abide by the standards set by his parents.
Shen must be as quiet and polite as a girl in life.
You can't play with other children after school.
Every time I pass by a friend who plays with me,
She could only sneak a few glances with eager eyes,
Look at what games they are playing and imagine what they will look like after joining.
In her studies, she was disciplined more severely.
Because both parents are highly educated, they also have high hopes for their daughters.
In particular, my father Shen advocated the "strict father" education model.
When Shen can't do a math problem, he will severely criticize and even teach him a lesson.
Under such high pressure, Shen's math scores are worse than before.
Directly from the middle level to failure.
This situation always accompanied Shen until she grew up.
"Now I'm still scared when it comes to math. I began to get confused when I counted more than two digits. "
Although my childhood study and life were very stressful,
But at that time, Shenyang's economic conditions were still well-off.
In terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation, Shen also has many choices.
But when she was in fifth and sixth grade,
Father Shen was suddenly squeezed out by some "little people" around him.
In the company, because of the rejection of opinions and opinions, everyone began to deliberately "trip" him.
And this experience also spread to young dreams.
Once, Shen went to the company where his father worked.
At lunch, she took a lunch box to the canteen to cook.
Obviously, this is the food one chooses. Shen politely told her aunt in the canteen that she wanted a meat and a dish.
But the aunt who cooked in the canteen could not hide her disgust and said, "Why do you need so much?" Can you eat? "
In desperation, she had to ask her aunt to pour the leftovers of a vegetarian dish into her lunch box.
Just as she left sadly, the daughter of a company leader also came to cook.
The aunt who just bossed around suddenly changed her face.
She smiled and brought some dishes to the little girl.
Mix the meat and vegetables together and pile up the lunch boxes.
Shen looked down at some cold leftovers in his bowl.
Then I looked up at the food that was about to overflow in the girl's hand.
At that moment, she made up her mind,
I must get ahead in the future and make my parents live a good life by my own efforts.
From then on, Shen began to pursue the road to success.
But at this time, she is just a child who has not graduated from primary school.
She doesn't quite understand the definition of success and how to achieve it.
Until she entered high school,
At that time, Shen's father had resigned from the company with "malice".
I work as a teacher in an economic school.
Shen never told his parents about the bowl of leftovers.
She buried it deeply in her heart, like a weapon to motivate herself.
In order to achieve faster success, Shen, still a high school student, signed up for the "New Silk Road" draft competition.
But she just turned 16 and still doesn't understand the gist of this draft.
Among elegant beauties,
Only she is a naive look,
The face is painted with makeup that does not meet the age and temperament.
The clothes on your body have nothing to do with "beauty" or "sexiness".
In the eyes of the judges, Shen at that time may be an ugly duckling mixed in a swan.
In the end, she was defeated. Although Shen, who failed in his first attempt, was unwilling, he could only accept the result and went home.
This was her first failure on the road to success, and Shen suddenly understood.
Now she still lacks ability, and she needs to make herself better and more impeccable.
In order to stand on a higher jumping point, Shen forced himself to study hard.
Even mathematics, a subject with psychological shadow since childhood, has been working hard.
In the college entrance examination, Shen successfully entered the performance department of Hunan University.
Here, she made a new plan for herself.
As soon as he entered the university, Shen "raced to the top".
In addition to completing school courses, she will spend more time looking for opportunities for "success".
When performing in groups and making advertisements, Shen was "reborn" through repeated practice.
She is no longer the high school student who doesn't know how to dress up.
She is a real white swan now.
In 2008, Shen, a sophomore, participated in the "Star Sister Election of the Year" competition of Hunan Entertainment Channel.
This time, she didn't come back in vain, but won the best photogenic award.
On the stage, she is full of youth, confident and generous.
Shen, who won the finals, signed a contract with Hunan Satellite TV.
After entering Taiwan Province, my first job was as a host in the program Good Woman.
Although she has never studied broadcast hosting systematically, she quickly adapted to this job with her outstanding talent and performance experience.
During that time, Shen regarded himself as a machine, spinning between school and TV station.
In order to get closer to success, she shuttled back and forth between TV programs.
Like a kitten curled up in the most inconspicuous corner,
Observe how the hosts of other programs behave and absorb what she thinks is good for her.
Mr. Shen said that he was "self-taught".
That's because she is not from a regular class, and even the way of hosting is to learn from other excellent hosts.
So after she became famous, the new interns in Taiwan Province always liked to ask him for advice.
Shen will wave bitterly because she has no confidence in herself.
As an intern, Shen likes to partner with famous hosts such as He Jiong and Wang Han.
Because around them, you can relax a little. Although there are some small mistakes in the process of hosting, the seniors can try their best to help her "round" the past.
But on the stage, Shen was always scolded by the director.
In order not to hold everyone back, she practiced harder and was more open on the stage than before.
Even she gave her the main performance,
Vividly perform various roles on the stage, some funny, some funny.
It was from then on that Shen learned a skill of "self-blackening".
After a long time, under such repeated tempering, she gradually gained more people's recognition.
There are also more opportunities.
On 20 13, Shen ushered in a turning point in his career-Hunan Satellite TV variety show "Singer".
Hunan Satellite TV's variety show "Singer" provided an opportunity at the beginning of its creation.
Give new people in Taiwan Province a platform to show themselves,
When the plan was sent to the desk of Zhang Huali, the deputy director,
He suddenly thought of Shen, a little girl who won the final of "Star Sister Election of the Year".
At that time, he was only the producer of Hunan Satellite TV, but Shen showed profound cultivation everywhere in the competition.
Be polite to everyone on the spot,
So he went to the director and offered to give the girl a chance.
In this way, with your support, Shen joined the ranks of singers and became the "music partner" in the first season.
In the program, she partnered with singer Terry Lin.
But the music partners were surprised to find that their temper and personality were very similar under the stage.
Love to laugh, can joke, and like the same type of music.
In order to help Terry Lin gain more support,
It is also to better perform the duties of the host and bring traffic to the program.
Shen danced with in the program.
But what followed was also the public's questioning and speculation about Shen's behavior.
At that time, there was a storm on the Internet.
Everyone is speculating whether there is a hidden love affair between Shen and him.
In this storm of public opinion, Shen kept his mouth shut.
On the other hand, publicly clarify that she is another person, not Shen who knows her way.
Seeing this explanation, everyone's guns were focused on Shen.
I'm going crazy and by hook or by crook. ...
All kinds of remarks swept towards her, but Shen didn't say a word from beginning to end.
It was not until many years later that she talked about her feelings at that time: "If success is measured by popularity, I have already succeeded at 13."
Shen, who was at the center of the storm, didn't say much, because the accusations from netizens were all nonsense to her.
Because at that point in time, she already has someone she likes very much.
She just took the initiative, but she didn't get a response from the other side at that time.
She has her own likes, just as she once had a dream of success.
Carefully waiting for the man's response.
On 20 13, Shen officially announced her love affair, and the person she liked very much finally became her boyfriend.
He is-Du Haitao.
Compared with Shen's slightly sad childhood,
Du Haitao is a child who grew up in a rich and warm family.
1987, from Shenyang, Liaoning. Similarly, he is an only child.
But Du Haitao's father is a successful businessman.
But he was glad that he was not planned for the future.
He has absolute freedom of choice and can decide his future career.
As a result, Du Haitao, who liked music and movies since childhood, was admitted to Hunan Vocational and Technical College of Mass Media.
He hopes to stay in the entertainment circle and work hard in the future.
In 2005, he signed up for Hunan Satellite TV's talent show "Shining New Anchor".
As soon as he appeared on the stage, he burst into laughter.
The audience was particularly curious about why this boy with a small round face and squinting stood among a group of handsome men and beautiful women.
But the facts that followed made those who questioned him "slap in the face" one after another.
Du Haitao won the championship with his excellent professional level and humorous hosting features.
Standing side by side with him is Orfila who won the second place.
At the end of the program, Du Haitao and Orfila were signed by Hunan Satellite TV as champions and runners-up.
In 2006, they began to form a "happy family" with He Jiong, Nana and Vega.
Hosted the Hunan Satellite TV program Happy Camp.
Shen had seen Du Haitao on TV before he entered Hunan Satellite TV.
But once, she also had the same idea-what skill does this fat man have to be a host in provincial Taiwan?
By chance,
Shen, who worked as an intern at Hunan Taiwan, met Du Haitao, whom he had never met before, during a location shooting.
I thought it was just an ordinary cooperation.
But Shen was surprised to find that this seemingly "little fat man" has five big and three thick faces.
There is a careful and gentle "little warm man" in my heart.
Throughout the process, he took care of the feelings of people around him.
Especially for female friends in the same trade, he is more considerate.
The most exciting thing for Shen is to have dinner together after work.
At the dinner table, Du Haitao saw that Shen's clothes were clean and tight, and it was inconvenient to peel shrimps.
He stood up voluntarily and put some shrimp in a clean bowl.
Peel off all the skins and put them back in front of Shen.
This scene made Shen feel a quiver.
Because she grew up in a strict family education,
The first thing her parents taught her was to be independent.
Cook whatever you want, and try to buy whatever you want.
Even take care of the feelings of people around you all the time.
In the long run, she gradually forgot that she could rely on others.
When independence becomes a habit,
When you get a little favor from others, that kind of touch will be infinitely gathered and amplified.
It was through this contact that Shen discovered the goodness in him, and then began to actively pursue Du Haitao.
But in fact, Du Haitao's warm concern for others also stems from the cultivation of family education.
In his own view, this is an ordinary move, but in Shen's eyes, it has become an earth-shattering "gift."
So when he heard this confession, he subconsciously rejected Shen.
The reason is also very simple.
At this time, Du Haitao also has a favorite person in his heart.
20 12 10 the creators of the TV series "Sister Stand at Attention and Walk Forward" came to Happy Camp to promote the new drama.
While Ruby Lin, Jiro Wang, Kenny Lin, Zhang Lunshuo and others are playing games and doing interviews happily,
Du Haitao suddenly confessed to Orfila on the same stage without warning.
This change made everyone present "afraid to breathe".
A month later, at the recording scene of Happy Camp,
When everyone celebrated Du Haitao's 25th birthday, they made it clear to Wu Xin.
20/KLOC-On the recording scene of the variety show "Time Show" in June/March, Du Haitao shouted to Orfila for the third time, saying that he had always liked her.
At this time, Shen can only look at the person he is pursuing at one end of the screen.
Try to show your love to another girl,
At that moment, she suddenly felt that she and Du Haitao were equal.
Because they are all the same "no courtship".
But Shen knows that he can't give up this feeling easily.
She treats others according to her own standards, thinking that Du Haitao should not give up her love easily.
But the fact is unexpected,
On April 20 15, Shen and Du Haitao were photographed by the media to travel abroad together.
20 16 Shen generously admitted his love affair with Du Haitao in the program.
A person you love, a person who loves you, how should you choose?
Du Haitao finally chose Shen, no longer obsessed with the existence of love, and seized the happiness within reach.
With Du Haitao, Shen not only got the dream girl,
She also ushered in a new peak in her career.
20 15, as the host of Hunan satellite TV singing reality show "I am a singer 20 15 summit".
From the "infield partner" who guarantees disputes to the veritable woman who controls the field,
Shen's popularity has reached a new level.
Later, together with Yang Mi and Zhang, she participated in Hunan Satellite TV's national defense education special program "Real Man Season 2".
But in this program, Shen tried to "protect" his opponent from being eliminated.
In the competition, she tried her best to stop her teammates, which led to the final failure of her team.
The audience said that Shen was "careless" and "confused about priorities".
But that's what she is,
Because a shrimp fell in love with a man without hesitation,
I also made myself the goal of helping my friends win the game.
Her career is booming, but her feelings are always tepid.
"Du Haitao, when will you marry Chen Meng?"
This has led many people to label Shen as "hate marriage" and "forced marriage".
This happened because in 20 19,
Shen and Du Haitao participated in Hunan Satellite TV's variety show Daughter in Love.
In the program, Shen said: "The biggest wish is to change your identity. In 2020, I will change from' Du Haitao girlfriend' to' Du Haitao wife'. "
On February 7th, 2022, Shen and Du Haitao officially announced their marriage.
All fans sincerely sighed: "I finally look forward to this wedding."
But before long, I personally announced to you:
She and Du Haitao won't have a wedding,
"I have been looking forward to having a dream wedding, but it was postponed because of the epidemic. Now my age has passed the age of yearning for fairy tales, so this wedding is really dispensable for me, and there is not much expectation. "
Whether it is career or love, Shen always gives people a feeling of hard work and struggle.
Like an indomitable child, always looking for opportunities on the road of struggle.
But in the face of others' ridicule, she seems careless.
She is like dancing on the piano, stepping on her own chords, and will not change easily.
Now she finally married her lover of nine years.
She also created her own glory in her career.
Now Shen finally said: I succeeded and finally became the pride of my parents.
I wish her to get rid of her childhood troubles as soon as possible and spend the rest of her life happily.