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What should parents do if a good boy suddenly plays truant?
Introduction of adolescent psychological counseling: Due to the expansion of adolescent children's self-awareness, truancy often happens to them. Adolescent psychologists believe that when children play truant, schools and parents should make a concrete analysis and don't use violence against them.

Psychological cases of teenagers

Min Min, male, age 10, a fourth-grade primary school student. Min Min's mother called an adolescent counselor to make an appointment because her child suddenly skipped school. Chief complaint: Min Min is the pride of the whole family: obedient and good grades. Half a month ago, the teacher received a note from her classmates saying that her mother was ill and needed to be accompanied. The teacher specially called Xiaoshan this evening. The next day, the teacher was not at ease, so she contacted Min Min's mother directly and said that she should be careful not to delay the children's homework. Min Min's mother said that she was not sick, and Min Min went to school with a schoolbag on her back every day. Teachers and parents found Min Min playing truant! This surprised parents. How do children play truant? If you don't know anything, you can ask a teenage psychologist for help.

Psychologists interpret adolescent psychological counseling in Beijing psychological counseling institutions;

The essence of truancy is that children vent their emotions and escape from reality, which is a unique way for them to communicate with society. Another behavior problem similar to truancy is running away from home. Such problems have brought great troubles to the education of teachers and parents.

Adolescent psychologists believe that the main reasons for children to play truant are family and school. The specific analysis is as follows:

First, schools. For example, teachers' teaching is boring and students are rejected by their peers; The study pressure is too great, so we can avoid it by playing truant; School violence; The relationship between children and teachers is not harmonious and so on.

Second, family factors. Family is not harmonious, parents are too strict or too indulgent, and lack family warmth.

3. Seduction and incitement by some undesirable elements in society. Children who have just entered primary school have poor ability to distinguish right from wrong, and children who lack self-control are easily tempted and lost themselves.

Fourth, the child's personal factors. Some children are introverted and will choose to play truant or run away from home to vent their dissatisfaction.

Adolescent psychologists believe that truancy or running away from home is most likely to happen to teenagers in the "rebellious period", during which their self-awareness is inflated and they are eager to control their own lives. Teachers and parents should give them some autonomy. Therefore, to solve the problem of children skipping classes, teachers should first improve the school environment and meet the reasonable requirements of children as much as possible. Schools should improve teaching methods and evaluation systems to stimulate children's interest in learning. Secondly, parents should also create a democratic family atmosphere for their children, communicate with them more, and give them some freedom while controlling their children. Secondly, teachers and parents should always keep in touch, always pay attention to children's psychological dynamics, strengthen the education of risk prevention awareness, put an end to the temptation of the outside world, educate children to study with peace of mind and actively participate in colorful school life. Finally, teachers and parents should enhance children's sense of responsibility, emphasize children's role in class and family, and make children aware of their own values and responsibilities.

In short, adolescent psychologists remind parents not to scold their children in a hurry and angrily after discovering that they have truant problems. This method can not fundamentally solve the problem of children playing truant, but it is easy to push children into the abyss of depravity. Teachers and parents should analyze children's truancy in detail, find out the reasons and maintain them in time. Some parents should not be afraid to avoid seeking medical treatment. When their children are found to be truant, parents can first go to teenagers' psychological counseling experts for psychological counseling and realize the relationship between themselves and their children's truancy.

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