Should we choose strict love or gentle love when educating children? What kind of education is conducive to growth? In family education, parents do great harm to children, and their words and deeds will become role models for children. Personally, I think that fair love, grateful love and selfless love in family education are conducive to the healthy development of children. Educating children, the most important thing is not exam results, but being a person, which will play a very important role in children's life and benefit them all their lives.

First, fair love Now many families will have more than one child, and parents must be fair and just when facing their children. Some concepts of axial force will cause incorrect ideas in children's minds and even resentment towards their parents. Every child deserves fair love, and there is nothing that should and should not be. Only in this way can a child grow into a fair and just person with a strong heart.

Second, grateful love needs grateful love. In family education, children can see everything parents say and do to their parents. Only by being grateful, children will know how to be grateful. Children must learn to be grateful to the people around them and to others for their care and care. People should be grateful.

Third, selfless love Parents' love for their children is selfless, regardless of gains and losses, but don't always express your own efforts. In fact, after children are obedient, they can understand the hard work of their parents. If parents always refer to the investment in their children as "contribution", it is likely to produce more losses than gains. A child needs selfless love, so that he can learn to love others selflessly.

There is no uniform way to educate children, but a way that is more suitable for your children is a good way. It is the wish of every parent to let their children grow up healthily physically and mentally. At the same time, parents should pay attention to their manners, don't be eager for quick success, and accept that their children may be ordinary people.