Parent-child reading experience: I read with my children (1). The busy life reminds me of the time when I seriously settled down to read. This time, the school personally carried out reading activities, which made me understand the importance of reading. It not only builds a bridge of communication between me and my children, but also allows us to learn, grow and communicate.
My children are usually obsessed with computers. Every day when she comes home, she holds the computer and starts her animation process for one night. However, since she entered the first grade of primary school, the teacher found that she was more active in class, not very focused and not very literate. The teacher suggested reading picture books or books with pinyin spelling with her at home to cultivate her quiet self-control ability. On weekends, I take her to the library. Let the child find some books that she likes to read. I noticed that every time she took a book, she just flipped through it quickly, and even some of them were put aside without reading at all. I hurried over to ask her if she understood. She shook her head, then picked up a book and asked, what book is this? Why are there so many kinds of small fish in it? I said you know these words yourself. Look carefully at what book it is. She reads word by word. I quickly replied, yes, in fact, you are smart but impatient. You can read this book called 100,000 Why. Do you know what this means? There are many things we don't know, such as why there are stars in the sky, why there are days and nights, why there is the sun, why the wheels are round, why pencils can write, why there are people on the earth, and why the sea is bitter and salty.
Every story in this book will tell us a little scientific truth. The child can't wait to ask his mother why the sea is bitter and salty. We went to Zhoushan, and the sea was a little salty and not bitter. What happened? I turned the page and explained to my children that seawater is the hometown of salt. Seawater contains all kinds of salts, 90% of which contain sodium chloride, which is the salt we eat. There are also magnesium chloride, magnesium carbonate and salts containing elements such as potassium, iodine, sodium and bromine. Magnesium chloride is the main component of brine used in tofu, and its taste is bitter. Therefore, seawater with a large proportion of salt tastes salty and bitter. The child suddenly realized, and said happily and excitedly, Mom, I finally know why the sea water is bitter.
Soon the child raised new questions, mom, so how can we have day and night? Is it because we sleep at night and the sun sleeps with us? I quickly answered, of course not, because we humans live on the earth, and the earth is a member of the solar system. The sun is the center of the solar system. It is a huge fireball, emitting amazing light and heat all the time. On which planet the sun shines, the place where the planet is irradiated becomes bright. We call it daytime, and the place where there is no light is night. Like other planets, the earth keeps spinning. When the place where we live turns to the side facing the sun, it is daytime; When you turn to the side facing away from the sun, it is night. Because the earth always turns in the same direction, just once every 24 hours, and day and night will come to us alternately. After listening, the child looked at me with a questioning and surprised look and said, Mom, there are so many secrets and knowledge in this book that I don't know.
Through this parent-child reading, the children enriched their knowledge, broadened their horizons and stimulated their interest in reading. At the same time, they also know how to guide their children as parents. In the future, I will spare as much time as possible to accompany my child to study, so that she can find happiness in reading.
Parent-child reading experience: I read with my children (2) Life is alive, and personality is not innate. Must be cultivated from an early age. I think that the books a child reads in childhood will internalize into the characteristics of her life, and even affect her life, so the sooner she develops good character and good habits, the better.
I remember the first book I read with my daughter's parents was Disciples Rules. By reading this classic enlightenment book, children have developed good habits. When the book mentioned the phrase "Brothers are friends, brothers respect each other, brothers are in harmony, and filial piety is in the middle", it told the children the story of "Kong Rong makes pears". Since the child heard this story, until now, every time there is delicious food at home, he will think of giving it to his parents first. Speaking of "warm in winter and sleepy in summer, sleepy in the morning", tell the children the story of "Huang Xiang's warm banquet". After listening to it, the children will learn from Huang Xiang, enlighten us in winter and bring us coolness in summer. When telling the story "What you say is the first, what you believe is the first, and what you cheat and make mistakes is the first, how can you be ridiculous" and telling children the story "Ceng Zi killed a pig", children can basically keep their mouths shut. Sima Guang mentioned in "Learning from Your Own Experience": "Virtue is a saint, virtue is a fool, virtue is a gentleman and virtue is a villain." It means that if a person wants to develop in an all-round way, a person with bad moral character is very dangerous, because he may hurt you at some point, which highlights the importance of virtue to a person's cultivation. As a mother, I also put the moral education of children in the first place. By reading famous books and interspersed with some short stories, children unconsciously like reading. Sometimes parents' advice is not as useful as a short story. Children learn the truth of being a man in reading, which is the most gratifying thing for our parents.
When my daughter was about four years old, I peeled potatoes in the kitchen and accidentally cut them into my nails. No bleeding, just a little skin injury. I cried at that time, but I didn't expect the little guy to come out and get me a napkin without saying anything. A warm current suddenly came to my mind, because I found that the little guy also learned to express his love with actions.
A year later, just a few days ago, when I was cooking in the kitchen, I was distracted by cutting vegetables myself. I'm not as lucky as last time. My fingers are bleeding and I'm worried about what to do with the dishes. In the evening, I told my daughter about my hand injury. Unexpectedly, my daughter asked for help. For several days in a row, she stood on the chair to help wash the dishes, and boasted, "Mom, when your hands are washed, I will help you wash them." Although I know what she said may be broken this time, I still feel very happy. If I am old, she will be as usual, and we will be satisfied as parents in this life!
The process of reading is actually a cognitive process, which will exert a subtle influence on oneself. For example, we have studied Disciples Rules for more than two years. I think it's easy for children to recite. We educate them to read some good books. To put it bluntly, it is to cultivate their good qualities of kindness, humility, tolerance, openness, optimism and responsibility. I believe that parent-child reading is not a form. Parents need to do it with heart and practice it with heart. Every time they participate with their heart, they will feel the bright spot in their children! I will feel the charm of parent-child reading!
Parent-child reading experience: I read with my children (3) Back in time, I went back to my childhood. I like listening to stories. I like vivid stories, which often attract me to listen carefully. At night, sitting in bed, listening to my mother patiently reading to me, that feeling, crisp and warm, can not help but make me fall asleep. Because of my love for stories, my little brain also wants to brew some short stories, but because of the lack of content, it sometimes makes it difficult for me to sleep. Therefore, I am eager to read, eager to read my favorite books.
After learning Pinyin, I began to read the first book I owned-Andersen's fairy tales. That day, my mother came back from work and said she would give me a book. When I heard that it was for me, I rushed over like a hungry wolf, as if there was a pile of delicious bread in front of me. Open the book, turn over a page ... I stopped. Why do I love books like this? Learn the text and read pinyin? Cheating thing. I put it aside and insulted my "Sister Nancy" angrily. I hate books!
Mother smiled when she saw this scene. She strengthened my pinyin and taught me many words. Every little makes a mickle, and my knowledge is enriched day by day ... A few months later, my mother asked me to try to pick up that book again. I hesitated, but I listened to my mother. This book seems to have changed. Become interesting, vivid and wonderful. I am wandering in the ocean of books, enjoying this delicious "gluttonous feast" and unwilling to stop for a long time.
From then on, I fell in love with books. Every time I finish reading a book, it seems that there are many topics worth discussing, trying to escape from my mouth. Father became the object of my discussion. "Four Great Classical Novels", "Five Thousand Years Up and Down" and "Those things in the Ming Dynasty" are all commonplace topics. I will always ask my father what he doesn't understand in the book, so I have gained more knowledge.
I love reading, so my composition level has gradually improved, and I am often praised by teachers. Reading has many benefits. Books are the ladder of human progress, and I also believe that books are condiments to enhance the feelings between my parents and me. I love books, and I love my parents more!
Parent-child reading experience: I read with my children (4) Children's world is full of innocence and happiness. We should go into the children's world and get in touch with them at zero distance. Parent-child reading is a happy experience again and again. I deeply understand that reading is an entertainment that can bring infinite fun to children, and it is also a learning method for them to acquire knowledge and broaden their horizons. As parents, in the process of reading, we also recall the happiness of childhood, and at the same time, we can appreciate the ups and downs of children. In order to let children get in touch with books as much as possible, expand her knowledge and create a family atmosphere for reading, under the initiative of "parent-child reading" by schools and teachers, I deliberately squeezed out time to accompany my son to read after busy working hours.
In my opinion, reading with children should conform to children's psychological characteristics, and choose books that children like to read, so that children have a good impression on books. It is inappropriate to control children's reading too much. At the same time, we should also exchange reading methods and experiences with children, encourage children to tell stories or specific contents in the book, express their own views and opinions, and then analyze and discuss them together. If you do this often, your child's interest in reading may become stronger and your child's reading level will gradually improve. This is a good way for him to learn to observe and imagine, then tell him what he saw and thought, and guide him to learn to see and think for himself in the future. In this reading process, we unconsciously revel in the world of books with our children and enjoy the happiness and happiness brought by reading together. Over time, children will fall in love with reading and become close to their parents. We also enrich ourselves and enrich ourselves while accompanying our children to study.
Through parent-child reading, parents and children learn and grow together, creating opportunities for parents to communicate with their children and sharing the fun of reading. Reading with children will make our family less smoky, more bookish, less impetuous and more scholarly, and set a good example for children to study.
I recommend it carefully.