Why do children give up their life like flowers so casually? The deep-seated reasons for the high incidence of crisis events are complicated, even if there are shortcomings in the education system, parents' high-handed policies and the influence of social garbage culture and art (for example, some online games give "players" several opportunities to come back to life, making children mistakenly think that reincarnation is like the completion of an online game, starting from scratch), but this is an external reason after all, and what really plays a decisive role is the internal reason, that is, children's indifference to life and the popularization of life safety education for children.
How to educate them about life safety? Parents must read.
Life safety education should start from the details.
What is life safety education? Life education is to let you know life, protect life, cherish life, appreciate life, explore the meaning of life and complete life meaning activities. All life is worthy of respect, whether it is your own or others', whether it is good or evil, whether it is success or failure.
In our long-term educational philosophy, life safety education is usually ignored or even alienated. Without talking about life safety education, moral education will naturally become empty. To improve moral education, life safety education is a major aspect. For children's life safety education, we must start from the nuances and penetrate into the children's growth bit by bit.
1. Educate children to cherish life, and gradually change from respecting a flower and a grass, a bird and a worm.
In the eyes of young children, the whole world is a toy, and they will treat everything they can see and find as small toys, and they will wantonly mess around or spoil them. For them, there is only the difference between interesting and boring. They have no concept of "life". It is futile to convey to them the truth that "life is precious, love life and cherish life". For young children, why not guide students to respect the surrounding plants, trees, birds and insects, and gradually start life safety education.
A small flower, a grass, a bird and a bug are all life and have their own joys and sorrows. You see, the flower is awake, and it is smiling; The green grass cries because someone hurts it; All the friends of the bird flew away, so sad; The caterpillar climbs to the fallen leaves to bask in the sun ... even if it is life, we should take good care of it, don't hurt them, and want them to live well.
There is no distinction between high and low life, but every life has the right to be respected and maintained. As long as the method is proper, two-year-old children can understand the truth. Naturally, parents must educate their children. It is not easy for pregnant mothers to take care of their children, so that children can understand that life is hard to come by and learn to enjoy life and enjoy people and things around them from an early age.
How to educate them about life safety? Parents must read.
2. Teach children to know death
Seeing a loved one leave or the hero of a film and television work die, children will strangely ask their parents, "What is the cause of death?" Many parents worry that their children will be afraid, and generally avoid answering, or deceive their children that "he is asleep" or "he has traveled far away". This is an escape from life safety education.
In fact, after the death of a loved one, children suffer no less than adults, but adults can clearly recognize death and treat it rationally. However, because children can't understand it, they can't accept this reality for a while or even for a long time, which will do great harm to children and make them misunderstand life. For example, after death, he may be in another place, or he may come home later.
When death is pointed out in movies or TV works, you can discuss it with your baby. For example, ask children: What do you think of death? Can life be repeated? According to the discussion, educating children about life is limited and irreversible. When a family member dies, it is best to let the children attend the farewell ceremony or farewell ceremony. Through this ceremony, let the children know that death is an important thing in life, understand that human life ends after that, and let the children have the opportunity to bid farewell to this family emotionally.
3. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility
According to a survey, 78% of adults have thought about committing a crime, but 99.9% of them have not put it into practice, mainly thinking about laws, regulations and responsibilities. We all know that this is legal and we must take responsibility. Obligations force them to pay attention to their manners.
It is also necessary to cultivate your child's sense of mission and let him know that you need to take responsibility for your life choices and behaviors. If you choose to go to the park, you must support the scorching sun; If you choose to play bungee jumping, you must try to get rid of your timidity; If you miss a puppy, you need to take care of it as much as possible; If you make a mistake, you must bear the responsibility; You need to apologize and compensate for breaking the laminated glass of your neighbor next door; You should be punished for forgetting to do your homework.
4. broaden your horizons and let children taste more happiness in life.
Besides studying, there are also some interesting things in daily life; Besides school and home, there are some other spaces in daily life; In daily life, in addition to teachers, classmates and parents, there are some people worthy of communication. This is a very superficial truth, but those children who choose despair usually don't understand this. They are trapped in a narrow dead end, thinking that the troubles in front of them are great things, which can cover all their daily lives, all their future, and even all their lives.
Parents should teach their children to broaden their horizons, expand their lives and homes, and let them experience more happiness in life. For example, climbing mountains, going for a spring outing with children, let him experience the magic and beauty of nature; Walk into the welfare home with him to offer love, and let him feel the pleasure of "I am for everyone, my hands are fragrant"; Let him gallop freely on the football field and let him experience the happiness of unity, cooperation and competition.
Daily life is definitely not just as big as a wellbore. If you jump out of the well, you will find that daily life is an endless ocean, and your troubles are just a drop of water, which can be easily dealt with or even ignored.
How to educate them about life safety? Parents must read.
5. Moderate frustration education
Frustration education is an important part of life safety education. No one's life is smooth sailing. After all, it is life, and it must have the color of life. Parents can start with small things and teach their children to treat setbacks correctly. When a child falls, parents can educate the child: "It's okay, anyone who walks may fall." You need to learn a lesson and be careful. Let's go back. "
When a child is late for school, the tutor will punish him for cleaning. Parents can educate their children: "You made a mistake and it is right to accept punishment. No one can blame. If you don't want to be punished every day, don't be late from tomorrow. " Children's tough, cheerful and open-minded personality is not innate, not the result of teachers and parents blindly persuading education, but the energy gained through their own little experiences.