Knowledge about sexual activity is called sexual knowledge. 1963 premier Zhou pointed out: "we should popularize sexual knowledge and carry out sex education." Premier Zhou attaches importance to sex education because whether sexual activities are normal or not is of great significance to whether doctors can have a normal and happy sex life. So, why should sex education start with children?
⑴ Clinical data show that many sexual activity problems and sexual activity obstacles in adulthood are related to children's early unhealthy ideas. Such as young men 1. When I was a child, my mother often said, "penis is something to hide." This wrong sexual concept made him shy since childhood. When he was in junior high school, he was always worried that others would see his genitals and didn't dare to take a bath in the bathroom, knowing that this was a groundless worry, but he couldn't control this strong idea. Seriously, I dare not stand in front of anyone, especially the opposite sex. He was diagnosed with obsessive-compulsive disorder by the doctor.
(2) At present, the phenomenon of early puberty has appeared all over the world. According to some data, the average menstrual period of women in China has been advanced to about 12~ 13 years old; The average age of male first nocturnal emission is 13~ 14 years old. 12~ 14 boys and girls are still simple, with limited knowledge, and their ability to analyze and judge things and rational activities is still relatively poor. Children of this age are very curious about new things. If they don't get sex education in childhood and know nothing about sex, they will feel panic, confusion and have some psychological obstacles. Or, they will be curious to explore practice, have puppy love, premature sexual experience and so on. This is extremely unfavorable to children's psychological development. Therefore, we should popularize sexual knowledge to every child in pre-adolescent childhood, so that they can have enough sexual knowledge and psychological preparation before sexual development.
(3) The lack of sexual knowledge leads to serious sexual problems among adolescents. It is reported that in Brno, Czech Republic, among the expert on-duty telephone hotline "Lifeline" opened to prevent suicide, only in 1, 967, 1 year, in this city with a population of only 300,000, more than 1 10,000 people turned to the "Lifeline" for help because of sexual problems. There are similar data in China, such as psychological barriers caused by adolescent masturbation, anxiety, pain and psychological troubles caused by problems in adolescent love. Most of these people did not receive sex education in their childhood.
Modern medicine believes that the human body will also have some sexual impulses, such as boys playing with genitals, girls touching external genitals and so on. Therefore, while educating children about sex, parents and adults need to understand sexual knowledge and jointly educate children to treat sex correctly, so that children should neither make a fuss about sex nor form bad sexual behavior.
To sum up, it is extremely necessary to carry out early sex education for children, because the age of children is mainly borne by parents and kindergarten teachers.
At what age does sex education for children begin? What is included?
Sexual psychologists believe that children's sex education, like other education, should start from the age of 0. The American Committee on Sex Information and Sex Education pointed out that Dr. Mary Carr Delong believed that sex education was particularly important and effective before the age of five. Why sex education should start at the age of 0 is because the wrong sexual concept in childhood will lead to sexual physiological or psychological obstacles in adulthood, thus ruining a beautiful sexual life. Children's sex education has the following contents:
⑴ Verbal or nonverbal psychological enlightenment education: From the birth of a baby, we should always pay attention to cultivating and educating children's correct sexual concepts through subtle ways such as verbal and nonverbal ways. The initial content is to help children correctly and appropriately establish gender identity (sexual self-recognition) consciousness as soon as possible and know their own gender roles. Specifically, if the newborn baby is a boy, it is necessary to give him a name with male characteristics and dress him in boy clothes; If you are a girl, you should take a girl's name and dress her in girl's clothes. 1 ~ 2 years old, as soon as you learn to speak, you should always remind your child: "You are a boy" or "You are a girl". This can help children to establish and form a sense of sexual self-acceptance as soon as possible, which belongs to gender identity education.
⑵ Teach children to determine their own gender roles: Due to physical and psychological characteristics, there are obvious gender differences between women and men in social roles. For example, one of the important social functions of women is to have children, be a mother and give children unlimited maternal love; Men are mostly engaged in heavy physical labor and other occupations in society. When choosing toys in infancy, we should pay attention to the differences of gender roles. When organizing children's game activities, we should also pay attention to determining gender-related themes and consciously practicing gender roles during the game, which are important contents of early childhood sex education.
⑶ Correct understanding of sexual organs and their functions to prevent the formation of sexual depression: Some experts have observed that babies often have sexual impulses, such as playing with genitals and touching vulva. When infants and young children have these sexual impulses, don't blame them, let alone beat and scold them, but guide them skillfully and divert their attention. Some parents still have some wrong ideas such as "genital organs, shame" in their ideas. Their words and deeds will affect children's sexual concept, and will make children bury "genitals are dirty and it is shameful to talk about sexual issues" from their young minds. When children grow up, it is easy to form sexual depression and even lead to sexual psychological disorders.
⑷ Cultivate children's good sexual psychological quality and good sexual psychological morality: From infancy to adolescence, it is an important period for the formation and development of psychological quality and psychological morality, and it is also a period for the formation and development of sexual psychological quality and psychological morality. During this period, parents and teachers should always pay attention to cultivating children's good sexual psychological quality and moral quality. For example, to cultivate the masculine appearance, behavior and psychological state of men and children; Cultivate women's psychological qualities such as quietness, delicacy, patience and gentleness. In this way, when children grow up, they will have a strong ability to deal with love, marriage, family and other issues.
Some parents neglected sex education in childhood, and even intentionally or unintentionally reversed their children's gender roles. For example, some parents like boys but give birth to girls, so they raise girls as boys; If you like girls, raise boys as girls. As a result, children's normal sexual psychological development will be affected, and some will lead to sexual psychopathy, such as homosexuality, which is a kind of sexual psychopathy, manifested in the distortion of their gender roles. In psychiatry, homosexuality belongs to sexual psychological disorder. People with this kind of psychosexual disorder can't adapt to social life well, and can't have a normal and satisfactory sex life.
How to educate children about sex morality? What is included?
Sexual moral education mainly includes the following contents:
(1) sexual morality education, which is one of the important contents of sexual morality. Children's sexual moral education should start with newborn babies. For example, parents should raise newborn boys according to male characteristics; Baby girls should be raised according to the characteristics of women. As children grow up day by day, parents should give their children subtle sexual moral education and influence in the choice of clothes, language expression, movements and behaviors. For example, the mutual respect and love between parents, the harmonious atmosphere of the family, how the father plays the role of a family man who loves his wife, children and the elderly, and how the mother respects her in-laws, cares for her husband, takes care of her children and tries to do housework, all of which will have a good influence on children, so that they will gradually have the sexual and moral characteristics that male or female citizens should have in line with social norms. These sexual moral education belong to children's early sexual moral education, which is extremely important for children to form good sexual moral concepts and behaviors from an early age.
⑵ Sexual intelligence education: Sexual intelligence education refers to sexual knowledge education, such as letting children know the shape of male and female reproductive organs from an early age, and sexual activity is an integral part of the physiological activities of human organs. The purpose of early sexual intelligence education for children is to let them know the anatomy and physiological phenomena of male and female reproductive organs before sexual development. It is not surprising that male and female reproductive organs are different at an early age. In this way, with the increase of children's contact with heterosexual partners, children's mystery about sex can be eliminated, and they will not have the desire to experience sex prematurely because of curiosity, which plays an important role in preventing puppy love and juvenile sexual crimes.
⑶ Sex sports: refers to the physical beauty that can make men and women get the healthiest physical development. For example, it is necessary to guide and encourage male children to do more physical exercise and develop muscles after exercise; Girls should adapt their physical development to the characteristics of female figure through aerobics and physical exercise. This awareness of cultivation and training should start from early childhood. Parents should always say: a child with a good figure and muscular arms will surely grow into a great young man in the future; So-and-so girl is taking part in bodybuilding class training, and her figure is really beautiful. We should also arrange proper sports, aerobics and other exercises for our boys or girls. You can also ask your child directly: "You are a boy, you should exercise regularly to make yourself muscular and look like a man in the future"; You are a girl, you should take part in some bodybuilding exercises to make your chest and waist meet the requirements of a woman's figure, and then you can grow into a beautiful girl in the future. In a word, sex physical education can make children exercise according to their own gender and make their bodies meet the aesthetic requirements of society. This is very beneficial for you to choose the ideal spouse in your life and have a happy sex life.
⑷ Sexual aesthetic education: refers to the education on how to shape male beauty or female beauty from an early age. Beauty is not only external, but also internal and spiritual. Plato, an ancient Greek philosopher, pointed out: "You should learn to pay attention to the beauty of the mind, not the beauty of the body." Lessing, a famous German thinker and dramatist, said: "A beautiful soul can give an ugly body a sense of beauty, just as an ugly soul will leave a special brand on a very beautiful body that makes people feel disgusted." Because of gender differences, both men and women have their own unique sexual beauty. Sexual beauty is not only manifested in the beauty of body, face and skin, but also in the beauty of appearance, body, personality and soul that reflects the inner beauty. In these beautiful expressions, there are distinct differences and characteristics between male beauty and female beauty, which is the so-called sexual aesthetic education and one of the important contents of sexual morality.
Sexual moral education, intellectual education, physical education and aesthetic education have different contents at different ages. Parents should guide their children to pay attention to the cultivation of sexual morality from an early age, so that it can be beautified in line with their own gender characteristics. Sometimes they can also cultivate sexual morality with the help of parents, such as combing a beautiful hairstyle for girls and teaching her the feminine charm of treating people. Boys should show men's handsomeness in clothes and manners, and show men's demeanor everywhere. Hello, parents should find out the problems of their children in time, but parents are the best teachers for their children. If they want their children to do well, they should set an example first. Of course, there are still some problems that parents cannot solve. You can search for "I love baby early education center" in Baidu. There are many parenting tips here that can help you solve your child's problems.
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