How to carry out family education?
1. Realize the importance of family education.
School education is only some stages of life, while family education runs through life! It doesn't mean that everything will be fine as soon as it is sent to school.
If you don't understand, you can learn about family education. Don't be born without raising or raising without teaching. Now we should also pay attention to the parent-child relationship.
2. Family atmosphere is very important
Obviously, as we all know, no one wants to stay in a noisy home all day.
A warm family gives children full sense of security, support and help, so that children can grow up healthily and happily, and cultivate their sound personality and positive and optimistic attitude towards life.
Academician Zhong Nanshan lived in an enlightened, warm and loving environment since childhood.
His mother is always smiling and gentle. Most importantly, she can listen to children patiently and respect them like adults.
Although his father is strict father, as a doctor, he finished his work in the hospital and didn't forget to help his children with their homework when he got home. His words are few, but they carry a lot of weight.
Academician Zhong Nanshan recalled that when he was a child, he hid his parents' meals (for school), bought snacks for himself and cheated his parents. Later, when things were revealed and he thought he was bound to be beaten, his father only asked: Nanshan, do you think about it? Is this honest? Only this sentence gave Zhong Nanshan a spiritual shock. Since then, he has been telling himself to tell the truth and be an honest man.
In addition, the more you love children, the better, especially doting. Spoiling children will often indulge them, and their own abilities will be weakened, which is not conducive to future development.
3. Life education
Educator Tao Xingzhi once said: Life is education.
I understand it this way: I take everyday things as learning materials and study with my children.
For example, it is now advocated to save food. You can take your children to walk in the fields, experience rural life, see how food is obtained, and even do it yourself.
lead by example
When you ask your child to meet certain standards, please let yourself meet such standards first.
The standard here should be the level of spirit and behavior habits.
For example, have you asked your children not to play with mobile phones? Asking children to go to bed early and get up early, did you do it yourself? Let the children speak calmly. Have you ever done it yourself? Require children to develop morally, intellectually, physically and artistically. Have you ever done it yourself?
Of course, no matter how busy you are, you should stay with your children.
In fact, family education is an education that runs through a child's life.
Let children have the awareness of learning, being good at learning, living, living, getting along and being good at getting along, and be willing to practice and explore.
In addition, good family education not only provides spiritual support for children, but also provides high-quality social resources for children. To tell the truth, it's hard to do this, at least I haven't done it yet. Work hard slowly.