Some people ask why families with children are so popular. This is because the family style and communication style it conveys are so enviable, because people who read it can find his father Xia Donghai's waiting, caring and concern for his three children from his words and deeds. As netizens said, education is an eternal topic discussion, and there is no correct answer, but perhaps Xia Donghai's method can give parents an answer.
Parents are the best teachers for children. A netizen saw such an intimate scene in Changsha subway station: while waiting for the subway station, a baby asked him what the footprints on his feet were for. His parents also had grandmothers, and patiently told them that there was a long queue, and they lined up neatly for the baby to see.
On a street corner in Shijiazhuang, a woman led a little girl across the street and saw a car coming. They couldn't help stopping to pay back the money. However, the car stopped at the crosswalk and the mother and daughter passed the main road. Under the reminder of her mother, the girl still thanked the car for giving way and waved to the driver, which made people feel warm.
Thousands of parents expect to send their children to the best college, receive a good education and try their best to create a good educational natural environment for their children, but they usually ignore that parents are the best teachers for their children. For children, a good education is a role model for parents. In "Family with Children", there is an episode in which the filmmakers specially contacted the TV station for an interview in order to make a better TV series and earn a lot of money.
When helping Xia Donghai to prepare the difficult problem in advance, he exaggerated his experience as a film director in the United States and pretended that he had turned down an invitation from Hollywood before. Many children were around at that time, and now his practice is very important. Is it to earn such unconscionable money, or to set an example for children? He chose the latter without hesitation and firmly refused the interview with the TV station.
Home is the school where children begin to develop, and parents are the best teachers for children. Although you can't say which parents you have, you will definitely teach which children. However, there is no doubt that parents' life values, values and outlook on life are harmful or greater to their children's future development and harmful to their future progress. Children are like sponges, the good and the bad are digested and absorbed.
Adults smoke, children follow suit; Adults throw rubbish everywhere, and children follow suit; Adults curse on the road, and children also curse; Adults destroy public property and children follow suit; Husband's domestic violence, marital disputes, children's study, etc. Leading by example is better than teaching by example. Everyone teaches children to be "kind and smart", so if you want to be an adult, check your personal behavior first. Don't always say one thing and do another. Because of your every move, your child is learning.
It is really important to pay attention to children. Xia Donghai has always trusted and cared for every child. Xia Xue is a girl who has been in an ordinary high school. While helping Xiaoxue clean up the room, Liu Mei accidentally turned over photos and birthday cards from Xiaoxue's chest of drawers, mistakenly thinking that Xiaoxue's students were in love. Xia Donghai immediately discouraged this person's behavior after learning: "Every child has his own little secret.
Sometimes, she doesn't want to be known. If a child is not respected, how can she respect others? Indeed, children are also an independent individual with their own personality traits; Everyone should pay attention to their own ideas, intentions and choices, instead of imposing everyone's ideas on their children. Otherwise, it will not only stimulate their self-esteem, but also continue to make them suffer obvious exclusion.
Another episode of Family with Children is about Xia Donghai rushing home to read an article. Just then, Liu Xing and Xiao Yu were a little unhappy when they robbed the bathroom. Xiaoyu spilled urine on Liu Xing's sheets angrily, which brought trouble to his father Xia Donghai. Xia Donghai, who was worried about her work, took all her anger out on Xiaoyu and asked Xiaoyu to do the laundry.
It is likely that this matter will come to an end in ordinary families, but Xia Donghai also has the second half of the upgraded version. After Xia Donghai finished his work, he felt that there was something wrong with Liu Xingyu's solution, so he made a decision to apologize to the children. Put on the sheets washed by light rain, put a wreath on your head, express your anger with your heart, don't shirk your responsibility, and sincerely apologize to your child.
Parenting education, parenting yourself first. Cultural education for children is actually the process of parents' own growth. Saying "I'm sorry" is not much easier than loving children and devoting your life to them. In fact, it is not a TV series, and there is no "family reunion" where the director is brilliant. Many times, everyone has to learn how to be a parent, and the road to culture and education is long, so we should gradually explore and learn scientifically. No parents are perfect, just as no children are appropriate.
The most important thing for honest parents is to learn to respect their children. Parents' attention gives children self-esteem and self-confidence; Parents cherish, so that children know how to cherish themselves. Clear rewards and punishments, fairness and justice, not one-sided, not shielding. The most important thing is to accept every child from the heart: kneel down and listen to the children, and you will see an innocent and perfect world. what do you think? Welcome to leave a comment and tell me your unique opinion.