So, what kind of things and changes have caused serious physical problems for healthy babies? Next, I will tell you a story about the unfortunate mother and son.
First, domestic violence makes children seriously hurt when they are too young.
The mother in the story is also full of joy when her son is born. What's wrong with telling the truth about her child? It's too late to hurt. But how can a healthy baby become a child with bruises, serious trauma and illness?
It started when it happened. The baby was seriously injured by his biological father's serious domestic violence. The injured baby experienced a terrible beating four years ago, and the perpetrator was his biological father.
It turned out that the child's mother and father came to Beijing from their hometown to work. Later, the mother was pregnant with a child, and was born a lively and lovely baby boy who likes to laugh. However, the father who is a baby boy doesn't like this child very much. Besides being too cold, he often loses his temper. Sometimes when a child cries, eats milk and doesn't like drinking, his father is very impatient. Sometimes he is angered by the child's crying, and he will exert violence on the child and pat the child's body.
This happened after the baby was born. The most serious one was that the father's violent behavior four years ago caused the child's limbs to be stiff, the whole body was injured, intracranial hemorrhage was accompanied by a large amount of water, and he entered a coma. It was this father's beating that disabled a boy who was only 2 years old. This family accident caused his father to be charged with imprisonment. The mother stayed with her son for four years and finally hoped for a "mother".
It's really satisfying to see the badly injured child getting better. Mothers also expect their children to call themselves mothers. I also hope that the strength and optimism of mother and son can bring better recovery news.
Second, domestic violence is a cancer in children's growth.
We all know that violence against children has little effect, and it can only be said that it hurts loveless behavior. But in life, some families still treat their children in this way. Many children have to give in to domestic violence because they have no resistance.
This result will be immediate in a short time, and the child will be honest and obedient immediately. However, these are superficial, and the psychological harm to children is enormous. Growing children need to make a lot of efforts to heal themselves, or they may be lifelong injuries.
If you really love your children, I hope you treat them in the right way. Don't think that children are very young, that is, they are disobedient, which is difficult for adults to accept. Don't compare yourself with today's children, because you were smart when you were young. These are incomparable.
In the way of parenting, every child is an independent individual, or teaching students in accordance with their actual situation.
Key tip: children grow up only once, or try to accompany their children. In this case, we will encounter unsatisfactory things, so let us grow up with our children and face them together.