During the liberation period, poor middle peasant families were too hungry to study. What's more, there are many brothers and sisters, and my father came out to work after only three years of primary school. Perhaps it should be proved that a poor man is not poor, or where there is a will, there is a way. My father was admitted to a medical unit by himself. His original intention was to save lives. At least, his family has a little problem, and he can take care of himself and save money. This idea is both simple and practical. Because my father studied Chinese medicine, he always thought that Chinese medicine was extensive and profound, with no toxic side effects and no serious social and environmental pollution, so few people went to see western medicine at once. So, there is a big box of medical books at home. Every winter and summer vacation, he always lets me teach myself medicine. If I don't understand, ask him People, every time they do something, have a premise reason, so I asked him: I don't practice medicine, why study medicine? However, his answer really benefited me for life: studying medicine, saving people in many ways and making great contributions. Small medical skills are also useful knowledge and skills to make a living. If you have a cold and fever in the future, you can treat yourself if you live alone. Furthermore, as a man, it is your responsibility to get married and take care of your wife and children in the future. If you learn it, you can bring convenience to your life and your family. At the same time, you can use medical knowledge to find your illness in time and give your family a well-being. In particular, children can cope with accidents that happen in the middle of the night. So you should learn some knowledge and usage of toilet drugs. So naturally, I shook hands with Li Shizhen and Hua Tuo seriously outside the door. What "Chaige Decoction, Jiuwei Jiang Huo Decoction, Su Xing Powder, Chen Xia Liu Jun, Bamboo Leaf Gypsum Decoction ...", a unique Chinese medicine prescription in China, has magical and unique effects.
"No matter how hard it is, you have to endure. Life is to be managed. Nothing is difficult in the world, I am afraid that there is a will. " This is always on my father's lips in difficult times. Even if it is simple, he can cook a good dish. Some vegetables, a few mushrooms, a plate of spicy tofu and a bowl of fried rice with eggs and chopped green onion can make you have a good meal. Childhood earthen stoves need firewood for cooking, cooking, chopping wood, making a fire and burning stoves, which has become a must-do job in childhood. When my father used to cook, he always called me to his side and asked me to learn while teaching. He said: Cooking is also a science. When you grow up, you can learn what you like, so you can do it yourself in another way, which is convenient and economical. Moreover, if we have a family in the future, our wives and children will also have luck to eat. It's not easy for women to take care of children. We men should do more housework. It is a man's responsibility to earn money to support his family outside, and it is also necessary to do housework inside. Home is built by two people, and it has never been male chauvinism. Being able to enjoy happiness for his wife and children's parents is a man's greatest achievement. At first, it was still fresh in my memory. When my living conditions improved and I was sometimes sick, my father personally made a bowl of rock sugar tremella, a bowl of stewed chicken soup and a bowl of fresh fish soup. They used to be delicious, and the timeless taste is hard to find back now. At that time, the naive idea was that if you get sick a few more times, you will have more food and more love from your parents. The funniest thing is that while his father was out making his own bread, he actually used glutinous rice flour as flour and burned half a stove of firewood, but he was not familiar with it. Another morning, I cooked porridge in a pressure cooker. In order to get sleepy, I covered the pressure cooker with a wet Puckilo and finally got a frying pan. The porridge was all over the roof, so my father had to climb the ladder to clean it up. However, instead of losing his temper, he pointed out what was wrong with you and asked you to correct it. He said: you need to treat life with your heart, otherwise sometimes small things will become big things. Later, when I was young, my father left the daily life of my family to me. He said: men need to take responsibility and do their duty. Family development and daily expenses and plans need to be carefully arranged. So, you must study. Now every year during the Spring Festival, I personally cook a few side dishes for my parents to taste, and my father always gives me some advice from time to time. The essence of life, there is not much poetry, and living every day well is pragmatic, responsible, diligent and struggling. It's really "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you". Your life experience, your father's words and deeds will benefit in this life.
If you are poor, you will change your mind. As parents, you always have an endless heart and real experience for your children. Maybe we should wait until everyone is married before we have a deep understanding. When studying, my father often said: "Books have their own golden houses, read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road"; When starting a business, my father often said, "Look before you leap, be honest, be down-to-earth, be cautious, be diligent and hard-working. If you don't lie, you won't harm others. If you are owed money, you can sleep." In dealing with people, my father often said, "All my life is good, and all evils are not close. Be kind to others, and good will be rewarded." ; When I was an adult, my father often said, "People with families should understand the concept of financial management." It's hard to make up for the beautiful weather, but it's hard to be a man. "Grandma left dad a few words of teaching, now also often talk about teaching us. Remember that "filial piety is a man's duty, and it is a man's duty to support his family." Making money is only a man's good skill, and it is a man's good character to devote himself wholeheartedly to his wife and children. "At the end of the day, he wants his son to live like a man, a man with a conscience and dare to take responsibility.
It is true that children are the lifeblood of parents. Being pregnant in October is full of hardships. Raising a successful person, establishing a family, working hard and having children are the greatest hopes and efforts of parents in their lives. Marrying a wife and having children, successors, stable life and healthy family are what my father most wants to see. He often teaches that when people bring up their daughters and marry you, they give you the happiness of their lives. You should love your wife and children wholeheartedly. It doesn't matter if a man wears simple clothes outside, it's good to be clean, mainly because his wife and children are well dressed and well fed. If you only take care of yourself, your family will still lose face outside, and others will kill you behind your back. Sometimes when I buy something for my old father, he will always nag: Give it to my wife and children, and I will be relieved that your family is well managed. Even if you buy them something more expensive, you will be angry when you know that you have more money. If you don't eat, you will lose your temper. Sometimes you can only tell a white lie to your parents. In my father's eyes, money is hard to earn, as long as it is cheap and durable. After marriage, the old man still misses how his children are doing. Sometimes, he brings some vegetables, meat and so on early in the morning. His father said: no, not even after death. It's not important to save money to raise children and prevent old age. Educating children to be human is the first priority. Whether children will be unfilial to you in the future depends on the education and training of parents. There is not a parent in the world who doesn't care about their children and doesn't think about them. I gave you everything in my life. How do you treat your parents and take care of your heart? I just hope you want your son to be a man.
I feel that the older generation in the old society are hardworking, thrifty and upright. Although life is hard, they have a tough will and a timeless spirit. They all have a sense of responsibility and will fight for the happy future of their families. This admirable spirit is worth learning from our younger generation. Another big difference is that once the social economy was backward, the poverty of every household became the norm, and their pressure came from the basics of food and clothing. Reform and opening up, economic take-off and improvement of life. All kinds of consumption and expenses have become the reverse order of housing, transportation, clothing and food. Therefore, people's pressure has shifted from the external pressure of life to the pressure of thought and heart, which leads to the improvement of life and the decline of happiness, and people lose the real communication between happiness and nature. Being a masked person is mercenary and cheating, which sometimes makes people yearn for the bitter but simple living environment in the past, especially now that children have lost the natural and comfortable childlike interest in the past, which reminds me of my golden childhood from time to time. Now, as a father, I used to make a small white lantern, pick lychees, mangoes and bayberries, tie a toy gun with wire, paste a kite in the newspaper, and bake some corn and sweet potatoes in a pit, which can make children ecstatic now.
When you are young, everyone will have a short period of rebellion. Some people say that a father is the enemy of his son's life. When your stubborn eyes meet him, he has a cool and patient look. Those eyes that you can't guess can always convince you to bow your head under his educational method. The reason why people cry in the end is because how much you hate your father, how much he loves you. Finally, I found that I used to regard my father as an imaginary enemy, holding back a wave of courage, and I have been trying to make him see that he is better than others and want to beat him. Moreover, father has been using his own strength to help you overcome yourself. However, when I realized that everything was so silly and naive, it turned out that my father's tolerance and fatherly love influenced my stubborn son. Once upon a time, finally, when the child was at a loss, it was a beacon of father's love, pointing out that the long journey of life should go on and make him a real man.
Years, from shallow to precipitation, from timid, vulgar, immature, frustrated to habit, responsibility and maturity. "A loving mother has lost many children, but the children don't teach, and the father is wrong, and the father is indispensable." Along the way, my father's strict teaching and exhortation were revealed. He worked hard to find today's children and grandchildren, his home and everything. During this period, the cultivation and efforts of character can't be done in a day or two. "It is difficult for parents to raise their children", and the father has devoted great efforts to the cultivation of children, precisely because his hope lies in his family and his hope lies in his children. Father, the great creator of my life. My father taught, sheltered from the wind and rain, and endured hardships, which was great. I can't thank you enough, son. I love you, my father. (Original: Xia Yuting)