In our daily life, we often say that there is no such thing as a free lunch. Many children have some psychological distortions when they are young, because their family environment is not good, their family circumstances are not good, or their parents have problems with their education methods, and they especially like to take advantage of petty gains. No matter whether their family environment is good or not, they all like to take advantage of small things. People who take advantage of small things will generally suffer big losses when they grow up. So what kind of family environment will make children love to take advantage of small things?

First, parents love to take advantage of small things. Most of children's behaviors are learned from their parents. It can be said that children are the epitome of parents' personality in a sense, so if children's personality especially likes to take advantage of petty advantages, parents may also prefer to take advantage of petty advantages. If parents always educate their children with the idea that mosquito legs are also meat in daily life, and let them covet petty advantages, or if they don't stop and guide them correctly when they see that their children are taking advantage, their character will develop in the direction of taking advantage. Moreover, if parents usually take advantage of others and even shoplift, children will learn from their parents. Therefore, parents have an unshirkable responsibility if they are still taking advantage of petty gains.

Second, children with difficult family conditions Some children have poor family conditions after birth. If you see that the children around you are superior to yourself, and you are often not satisfied materially, it is likely that you will have the psychology of taking advantage of small things. The reason why children sometimes have this kind of psychology is also the pressure from peers, forcing children to use some illegal means to get what they want, so as to be on par with their friends around them. If the family conditions provided by parents are difficult and tense, children may take advantage of small things. At first, it may just be petty theft, but after a long time, children will begin to habitually take things that don't belong to them for themselves after they feel the joy of getting something for nothing.