Under the education of China, students pay attention to the test sites, not the knowledge itself; Teachers pay attention to students' grades, not their conduct; Schools pay attention to the enrollment rate and employment rate, but not to the cultivation of students' comprehensive ability.

So why are these problems?

First, China is short of educational resources, with many students and few good schools. Not every student can be admitted to a first-class good school, and can only be admitted through examination. The standard of assessment is merit-based, so a large number of students study hard at the cold window and get grades.

Some people say that from primary school to university, a young man can do nothing but memorize the knowledge in textbooks. His judgment or personal initiative has never been practiced. For him, education is nothing more than rote learning and absolute obedience.

Because of this, many people will have a psychological gap after graduation. They used to think that everything would be fine if they went to college, but the future was bright. Later, it was found that their theoretical knowledge at school was far from what they experienced at the meeting. How to guide children correctly?

1, learn to appreciate children. Explore the hidden bright spots of children and stimulate their potential. Research shows that if children hear more praise based on process, they will not give up so easily when facing challenges.

2. Don't hit your child too hard, protect your child's self-esteem and learn to respect your child. While protecting children's self-esteem, let children correctly understand the relationship between the two. When you treat your children, make them your friends.

Never get along with children in a strict state. Parents who get along with their children as friends will help them bear a lot of pressure and psychology. If you really love children, you should be less discouraged, more appreciative and aggressive in education? Never teach happy children.

3. Learn to communicate. Let children actively communicate with their parents when they encounter something. The best way to educate children is to set an example. In the process of education, we must encourage children to have better imagination and creativity in time, so that children will become bolder and more confident.