In The Book of Songs Nan Zhou Hanguang, the woodcutter looks up at his beloved girl, just like looking up at a tree with a wrong salary, so he has to hide his admiration in his heart. This relationship did not impress the girl, but it was treasured in history and is still vivid for more than two thousand years.
Primitive book of songs
Nanshan tree is so big and tall that you can't enjoy the cool under it.
There are women on the Han River who want to pursue the impossible.
The Hanshui River is so vast that it is impossible to cross it.
The river is so long that it is impossible to take a raft.
If you miss your salary, you can make it clear.
The girl is getting married, so feed the horse quickly.
The Hanshui River is so vast that it is impossible to cross it.
The river is so long that it is impossible to take a raft.
Skip the wrong salary and say (lóu).
The girl is getting married, so feed the foal quickly.
The Hanshui River is so vast that it is impossible to cross it.
The river is so long that it is impossible to take a raft.
Baidu translation (slightly modified):
The trees in Nanshan are so tall and big that there is no reason not to stop.
The beautiful girl in Hanshui wants to pursue the impossible.
The Han River is too vast to cross.
The river is so long that it is impossible to cross it by raft.
Mixed firewood and grass, cut vines with a knife.
The girl is getting married. Feed the horse before going out.
The Han River is too vast to cross.
The river is so long that it is impossible to cross it by raft.
The firewood and grass are mixed, and the knife cuts the Artemisia layer by layer. .
The girl is getting married and won't leave until she feeds the foal.
The Han River is too vast to cross.
The river is so long that it is impossible to cross it by raft.
If the main techniques of The Book of Songs are summarized as three words "Fu Bi Xing", in this poem, we first take the arbor and the wrong salary as "Xing", which leads to "prodigal girl" and "son". Then, the width and length of the Han River are used to describe how unattainable men (woodcutter) love girls.
It is China's view of marriage since ancient times. The Red Age was severely criticized for breaking capitalism. In recent years, people have gradually come back to the taste and think that there is still some truth.
At this year's Spring Festival Gala, we have a golden married old scientist couple performing on stage. The two old people are classmates of Peking University. When I asked the old man the secret of their marriage, he first mentioned that they shared the same values and respected each other.
This is also the modern understanding of "mutual suitability", that is, the same values, mutual respect, and social cognitive convergence. Only when the two sides are similar in growth environment, social cognition and education level. , can form the convergence of the three views, so as not to hurt each other in the long years of life, resulting in two people's life tragedies.
Therefore, every sincere love is precious, but not every love can last forever. The reason is that people in love or marriage have different social cognition, which is the main reason why love can't last long. Others are excuses.
Cinderella Cinderella's story is so popular because it satisfies the desire of many bottom girls to be a gentleman, not love itself. So some people say that the ending of fairy tales is that the prince and princess live happily ever after, but the ending of life is not necessarily the case.
In the movie Roman Holiday, the reporter fell in love with this naive, smart and beautiful girl, but after learning that she was a princess, she quietly retired. And the princess also knows her mission, so although she is afraid, she still chooses to return to her position. When I was a child, I felt sorry for them both. Now that I think about it, it would be a pity if they were together.
Therefore, the woodcutter knows that his love for a beautiful girl is like plants and vines and tall trees. He can only look up, admire and be disappointed. That road, just as he can't cross the wide Han River and swim the long river, is an unattainable thing in his life.
In ancient times, a suitable match mainly meant that both sides had the same family background and status, so that your suitable match (the stone lion at the door) and his suitable match (half door) were at the same level. The modern interpretation of this word after the return is consistent with the three views and the background is similar.
There is an earth-shattering love story in Tang Xianzu's works, namely Peony Pavilion. Tang Xianzu, by the mouth of the hero, spoke a passage like this:
Somehow, the living can die and the dead can live. People who are born but can't be born and die, and those who die but can't be resurrected, are not affectionate.
But come to think of it, Du Liniang is the daughter of the satrap, and everyone is very educated, while Liu Mengmei is a scholar with great spirit and great potential. Is the consistency of two people's academic qualifications and literacy the basis of ignorance? Otherwise, why didn't Tang Xianzu arrange for Du Liniang to be a peasant girl who cut wood and cooked? No matter how good the matchmaker was, Master Wang arranged for Zhang Sheng and Miss Cui Yingying to fall in love.
By the way, the Peony Pavilion, a Kunqu opera, is really the most beautiful opera I have ever seen, without one. Especially after listening to Mr. Bai Xianyong's explanation and the live interpretation of the Kunqu Opera Peony Pavilion, I found that the delicate beauty of the lines and colors presented by the seemingly simple scenery, costumes, sleeves and catwalks was dazzling and intoxicating.
However, laymen really just watch the fun.
Just like love. People who have never experienced the love of loving each other, respecting each other, caring and knowing each other can only say sweet words that are neither salty nor light, but can't deeply understand what a wonderful feeling it is to live with their confidants and peers in this world.