Yes, in the face of failure, we should "make a comeback". When we encounter setbacks, we should not be angry, but smile and overcome setbacks. On the other hand, failure is not necessarily bad luck for us, but it may be a strange stone to temper our will! As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success.
Who can fail in this world? Who is the ever-victorious general?
As we all know, Einstein made many important discoveries in his life. But how many people know how many difficulties and setbacks he has experienced, and even failed? When he was a child, he was considered a silly boy. Later, no one found the shadow of genius in him for a long time. After numerous setbacks and failures, he became a great scientist. Why did he succeed? Because he smiled and regarded failure as a stepping stone to success. With this mentality, we should enjoy failure, build confidence and meet success.
"Letters from Fu Lei" said: "People's lives are ups and downs in high tides and low tides, but only mediocre people can live as calm as stagnant water." As long as the climax is not too tense and the low tide is not too decadent. Everyone has his own life path. This path is not full of sunshine, full of poetry and painting, and often encounters swamps or thorny paths. If someone falls, it will never be the same again. Some people, despite repeated defeats, have repeatedly lost and fought, and finally their lives are dazzling.
We should try to keep a balance of mind. Therefore, before doing one thing, we should first think about the following questions: 1. Why are you doing this? 2. What is the purpose of this? 3. What if I fail? What about victory? As long as these three questions are clarified, there will be a 99% success rate in this matter. Some people may ask: What about 1%? I can tell you for sure that if you have figured out the first three questions, then you have failed because you have no confidence and do it with your heart.
If you fail, you should learn to smile. If you face it with a smile, the power of a smile can overcome everything. Suppose two women are quarreling in the street, and woman A begins to swear. Female B just stood smiling and said a few words occasionally. Who do you think is right? Woman B: Why? Because she smiled, there were more people watching. Twenty minutes later, people talked about it one after another, saying: Female armor has no morality, no cultivation and poor quality. Female B has a good upbringing and accomplishment. As a result, woman A blushed and withdrew from the crowd. In fact, they don't know that the whole thing is a woman. A is right. The power of a smile is like this. Of course, this is just talk, and it is not approved for use in real life. His article is very popular with readers. Of course, some people object. One day, when he was walking in the park, he happened to meet a colleague who opposed him. The man proudly raised his head and said loudly, "I never give way to fools." But after hearing this, the scholar bowed deeply to the man, made way and said with a smile, "But I am just the opposite." As a result, the man quickly left the park. This is a smile.
Failure is the most basic taste of life. People who are afraid of failure are weak. Failure is nothing to be afraid of. What is really terrible is that we lack the courage to love failure. Let's face up to failure.
Of course, we won't get nothing after failure, we will experience the most essential things in life from failure. Failure makes us feel the hardships and twists and turns of life, and also realize his tragic. Moreover, failure and success are opposites, and it is difficult for people who have never experienced failure to enjoy the true happiness of success. The road of life is actually an alternating process of failure and success. We should learn from failure, learn from success and experience the philosophy of life from life. We should find our own starting point in work or study, pursue, explore and struggle, and embark on a brilliant life with our own characteristics.
Smile, smile at life, and life will give you a brighter smile.