Talking about the farthest distance of 1 is an eternal topic. Some people think that the distance of space is the farthest distance; Some people think that spiritual distance is the farthest distance; Some people think that the farthest distance is the distance between people's hearts. But I don't think there is the furthest distance in the world!
Distance is not an obstacle to communication between people. A Shandong man chose a military school after the college entrance examination, and he made contributions to the people. When he was in junior high school, his family changed and his parents divorced. He was afraid that his mother would be lonely, so he chose to live with her. School is about to start, and mother and son will be separated at this time! At the last dinner, the mother pinned her heavy love for her son on the rich dishes. My son is going to Qinghai, a far place, but he firmly believes that distance is not a problem, and he can't love his mother. As long as he and his mother care about each other, distance will also become a bridge to communicate love.
The distance between life and death. Some people think that the distance between life and death is an eternal difference. But I just want to say that it's not distance. Although the dead man will be isolated from the world, the spirit he left behind will last forever. For example, President Mao Zedong has left us forever, but his spirit of innovation, struggle, planning and strategy has always influenced us. Realism and optimism in his poems and essays have always been what modern literary writers want to learn. Although he has left us forever, as a new generation of successors, we still respect him especially, because President Mao Zedong will live in our hearts forever!
The furthest distance in the world does not exist, because as long as we care about each other, distance will be a bridge to communicate love. The distance between hearts is not terrible, but it leaves a space to stretch our hearts. And the distance between people also needs to be gradually adjusted. Crossing this distance, the farthest distance will no longer exist!
Talking about the farthest distance in argumentation 2 Seeing this topic, I thought of a story in Liu Yiqing's Shi Shuo Xin Yu Hui Yu Pian:
At the beginning, Emperor Jin and Yuan had a whim and wanted to take an examination of Jin Mingdi Si Mashao as the prince. So he called Si Mashao to his bed and asked him, "Which is farther away, Chang 'an or the sun?" He thought for a moment and replied, "The sun. I have heard of people from Chang' an, but I have never heard of people from the sun. " Emperor Jin Yuan was greatly surprised: "The child's answer is really unexpected." Later, Emperor Jin Yuan mentioned this to his ministers in the court and asked Si Mashao, "Which is farther away, the sun or Chang 'an?" Si Mashao said without hesitation, "Chang 'an. You can see the sun when you look up, but you can't see Chang 'an when you look around. "
As a man with scientific common sense, he certainly knows that the distance from the sun is much greater than that from Chang 'an. So he answered "the sun" in his first answer. But his second answer is more philosophical-Chang 'an seems to be closer to him than the sun. In fact, in his mind, Chang 'an is an important city, and its position is much heavier than that of the sun, so he will say that the sun is near and Chang 'an is far away.
In fact, there is no such thing as "the farthest distance". The farthest distance is the gap between things and hearts (including the gap between hearts, of course).
There is a story in Zhuangzi's Theory of Everything: once Zhuangzi slept and suddenly had a strange dream. In the dream, Zhuangzi became a beautiful butterfly. It flies east and west, dancing among the flowers in the grass. If you want to say happiness, it is really very happy! The butterfly that Zhuangzi turned into just kept flying around, completely forgetting that he was Zhuangzi. It was having fun and suddenly woke up. Only when Zhuangzi saw that he was still lying in bed did he know that the butterfly was not himself, but a human being and Zhuangzi. But Zhuangzi suddenly felt that this was not necessarily right: he might be a butterfly! It's a dream, to be Zhuangzi's dream! Then I thought, I'm afraid it's wrong: I'm obviously Zhuangzi, and I must have been dreaming just now! In this way, Zhuangzi thinks like this for a while, thinks like that for a while, thinks and thinks, always wondering whether he is Zhuangzi or a butterfly. Just like Zhuang Zhou's dream butterfly, man and butterfly are two unrelated things. They look very different. But in Zhuang Zhou's mind, things and I have reached the point of interdependence. As Taoism says, "Everything is me, and I am everything". In this way, two distant things, through heart-to-heart communication, finally drew an equal sign. Even Zhuang Zhou doesn't know if he is Zhuang Zhou or a butterfly. In fact, at this time, there is no difference between Zhuang Zhou and Butterfly, and the distance between them no longer exists.
Some people say: "the universe that is still expanding and unable to detect the boundary is the farthest distance"; Some people say: "the farthest distance is the eternal difference between life and death"; Some people even say, "The furthest distance is when I stand in front of you, but you don't know my mind." I want to say, "Neither!" If you care about the universe, the infinite universe is in your heart; If you care about the deceased, you may fantasize that he/she is by your side. What is the distance? Or can you understand a person? Even if he/she doesn't understand you, he/she will understand sooner or later. How can it be the farthest distance? I think: the farthest distance is the gap between heart and heart.
The gap between heart and heart is not that one party does not understand the other, but that they do not understand each other. For example, if you are thinking of someone in your heart, you can understand his/her heart, but he/she can't understand yours. This is not the farthest distance in the world. I can't understand you, and neither can you understand me. Two people don't have any * * * language in common (or two people just know each other and know nothing about each other). Even if such two people stand face to face, their hearts are full of indifference. If these two people unconsciously have a topic in chat (or their hearts are gradually connected), the distance will gradually shorten. Finally, the distance may disappear. In fact, there is no so-called "farthest distance" in nature itself, and the distance is in your heart.
At that time, Cai Yong cried that Dong Zhuo had offended Stuart Wang Yun and was arrested and imprisoned. Cai Yong knows that the chance of survival this time is slim. He took out the precious symphony piano and began to play. Cai Wenji learned from the piano that his father had died, and his insides were torn. Cai Yong didn't tell Wenxi about his death in advance, but with the unique telepathy between father and daughter, she still heard it. There is no distance between them, so there is no secret to hide.
In short, the distance is variable. There is no furthest distance, only the gap between hearts. The farthest distance is the distance between the object and the heart. As long as the hearts are connected, the distance will naturally disappear.
On the farthest distance 3 There is no furthest distance in the world, but it takes a long time to close your heart before it becomes a distance. -inscription
According to legend, in this long history, the "farthest distance" caused the deepest damage to an old horse. This horse is a peerless swift horse, and its owner is a snobbish businessman, but he simply doesn't understand that the real benefits are in front of him. In order to maximize the benefits, he cruelly made the horse carry heavy items year after year, climbing mountains and mountains, and was black and blue all over. Merchants still refuse to let go. One day, a man named Bole suddenly met an old horse, and he knew at a glance that it was a peerless horse. He couldn't help walking up to the horse and touching its sideburns, only to find that the horse was covered with scars. Bole sighed and lamented that a beautiful horse was treated like this, wasting its most promising time. Ma seems to understand that Bole is the one who really knows himself. He only regrets not meeting Bole earlier. Tears as big as beans swirled in his eyes, hissed in the sky and then died.
It can be seen that the furthest distance in the world is that you don't know me when I am right in front of you.
Hey! Isn't this sentence always around us? -"Mom, can you stop nagging! I grew up in front of you for so many years, but you don't know me at all! " After that, you slammed the door and glared at the sky, but tears ran down your cheeks and wet your skirt, wondering if she was your real mother. And your mother, left in the room, staring at the door you slammed out, at a loss. This is probably the deepest distance we feel at present! However, you never understood your mother. When you were born, it was your mother who suffered the pain of childbirth; When you are sick, it is your mother who cares about you; You just slammed the door, and the most painful thing is your mother ... Obviously, she is the most important person in the other party. Obviously, her mother gave us the most selfless love in the world, but she finally got the most indifferent response.
In front of relatives, what about neighbors? Buildings in this city have mushroomed. The iron wall has long isolated the friendship between neighbors. Neighbors face to face, passing by, with a look of indifference on their faces Some people live in the same building as their neighbors, but they never know each other and no one knows them. How can we remember his name? Perhaps, you think that this is just a passer-by in your life that is not worthy of attention; Perhaps, you think that strangeness is the farthest distance between our hearts. But times are developing so fast that you can finish your career and life without going out alone. Is the fate of mankind doomed to die alone?
No, when I saw the "most beautiful mother" catch the falling baby with both hands; When I saw the "most beautiful driver" press the alarm and the door button at the last moment of his life, it was; When I saw the earthquake and strangers helped each other. . . . . . . My eyes were moist, and I told myself that I was actually very close to that "stranger" ...
Suddenly one day, my mother became ill and was admitted to the emergency ward. You watched her sleep soundly, and suddenly you found that her mother was always by your side, very close. You look at her aging face and deeply regret your ignorance. In fact, two hearts were tied together like kites and threads from the beginning, but it was mother who let go of the thread in her hand in order to let you fly freely.
There is no furthest distance in the world. When you open your heart to communicate with the outside world, you will understand that you have looked for her thousands of times, and suddenly look back, happiness and happiness are already around you. From then on, all the remoteness can no longer be called distance. ...