What is the "hot and cold water" effect?
There are three glasses of water, one cup of warm water, one cup of cold water and one cup of hot water. Put your hand in cold water first, and then in warm water, it will feel very hot. In the same experiment, first put your hand in hot water, then put it in warm water, and then feel that the water is cold. The same cup of warm water has two different feelings, which is the "cold and hot water" effect. The so-called cold and hot water effect is that people's psychological influence on the perception of things, and then affect the judgment of things. That is, when your psychology begins to change, your perception and your behavior will also change. In life, we can use this effect to deal with interpersonal relationships.
The application of cold and hot water effect in love
Love a person, don't be too strong, learn to leave your feelings blank. Let it be cold, cold and cold, let it be hot. In the early days of love, both of them fell into a state of continuous warming. Love at this time is sweet and beautiful, and it is hot and intense. However, when the relationship enters a stable period. Between two people, there will always be a person who will start thinking about the bad of this love again. It is difficult to feel the existence of love in strong love. People often feel the preciousness of existence when they lose it. If you want a long-term relationship between two people, you may wish to make rational use of the "cold and hot water effect".
Application of cold and hot water effect
In school education, the "cold and hot water effect" still plays a role. We often encounter this situation. For example, the teacher left some homework for students to make better use of knowledge, but wanted to leave an extra composition of 1000 words. In order to avoid causing students' resistance, the teacher first asked the students to leave two 3000-word compositions, and the students all complained bitterly. In this case, the teacher immediately said to leave a paper of 1000 words, and the students would even gladly accept the extra homework, meaning to let the students feel the "cold water" first, and then bring the "warm water", which the students gladly accepted.