Student exercise: Is it sweet?
"Zhuangzi Xu Wugui" said that "dogs don't take good barking as kindness, and people don't take good words as kindness." I quite agree with this view. As the saying goes, "Advice is most unpleasant to the ear"!
From the day I can speak, every time I go out with my parents and meet an acquaintance, my parents will say, "Why don't you call me uncle (aunt)?" In the first few years, I was praised for doing what my parents said, and the louder I spoke, the better I praised. In the next few years, I felt quite embarrassed. I feel like a puppy. If the master tells me to scream, I will scream, and I can get the bones to eat. So when I was about 13 years old, I went against my parents' requirements and greeted my guests. In the past two or three years, when my parents don't force me to say hello, I occasionally greet people I know steadily.
Looking back on this incident, it is not difficult to find that greeting people who don't want to communicate enthusiastically is often beneficial, while greeting people who are friendly to themselves is often not exciting.
In the African battlefield of World War II, the German army headed for the glory of the African battlefield under Rommel's leadership. In the war between Africa and the British army, the Germans beat the British army to nowhere to hide several times, and the secret weapon of the Germans was Rommel's spy-secret reconnaissance troops, which kept the British army under the control of the Germans. English people are not stupid. They pulled out the nails not long after the glory of the Germans, and they knew the German movements like the back of their hands. After that, the balance of victory slowly fell to the British side. Is the unexpected victory of the British army because the gods they worship are more spiritual? The answer is obviouslyno. To the surprise of the British army, they are more effective virus spies than the German nails. According to the information released after the war, the sweeter the mouth of the meritorious spies in the British army is in front of the German high-level, the more they talk, the more they love to establish a stable relationship with German leaders. From a formal point of view, these made German high-level officials confused by the sweet words of these spies, greatly reduced their vigilance against these "friends" and made these spies easily acquire the Germans.
Speaking of this, if someone will say that this is just above me and the battlefield, it is another matter under the battlefield, then he is completely wrong.
In my fourth grade Chinese class, two people spoke actively. One is Huang and the other is Kang. Huang Bikang speaks more positively. The students in the class often think that Huang is a great man. Later, Mr. Wu, who taught Chinese, quietly told me that Kang X was really good in the class, and Huang X was nothing. He said "one-stop", and he copied it correctly. Speaking of which, I have the cheek to boast. In the fourth grade, Kang and I sat together. Once, the teacher asked us to ask a question about a passage in a text (like writing about Huang Jiguang's suicide bombing bunker). I quietly said a question to Kang, and Kang said to me, "Stand up and say." When I was introverted, Kang stood up and raised his hand. He got up and said my question loudly. As a result, the teacher said, "Well, Kang X's question is very good."
Isn't it true that "dogs don't take good barking as good, and people don't take good words as good" in the officialdom of China today? When you are a big official, there are always a lot of people who are kind, and you have to clap your white horse when you are a big official. They are full of tricks: red envelopes, big meals, and a string of mouth-watering promises. What is their purpose? Not just to climb higher?
In short, "dogs don't take good barking as good, and people don't take good words as good." A really good dog can only howl a few times when the bad guys come, and then use its eighteen claws and a JASON ZHANG's mouth. A really good man will only give lectures in green mountains and green waters, and show his cards when necessary.
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