Confucius once said that "a little tolerance leads to great mischief", which was originally good. Because he only teaches people to endure small things, of course, it is to weigh the weight to achieve big plans and endure small events. If the other person wants your big plan to fail, that's no small matter. As long as there is human blood, you must have had enough. Although Confucius said so, his old gentleman often trembled with anger for a little thing. For example, when he saw Ji, the rich man of Lu, making good use of the Bagua Palm, which only the son of heaven could use, at home, he said angrily, "This is intolerable! What can't be tolerated! " On another occasion, Qi sent someone to send a female artist to Ji's family. Ji Huan Zi went crazy and was locked up for three days. There happened to be a sacrifice, and the meat was forgotten to Confucius, so Confucius had to run away from the bullfight and even quit the official. It can be seen that Confucius is still a place of cultivation.

In the Five Dynasties, Feng Dao compared himself with Confucius, and his patience and self-cultivation seemed to be more advanced than Confucius. It is said that when he was prime minister, someone led a donkey in the street and wrote the word "Feng Dao" on a piece of cloth and hung it on the donkey's face. This is obviously making fun of him, and he ignored it when he saw it. A friend told him that he could no longer play dumb, so he had to answer, "I didn't know there were many people with the same name in the world." Is that me, Feng Dao? " I think someone found a donkey and looked for its owner. "

As the saying goes, "the prime minister likes punting in his stomach." A narrow belly is intolerable and unworthy of being a prime minister. Legend has it that there was a prime minister named Lou Deyi in the Tang Dynasty. He made his brother the acting governor of the state, and he was leaving soon. He said to his younger brother, "I have no talent. I am the Prime Minister. Now you are the governor of another state. My family is so rich that people should be jealous. What do you want? " The younger brother said, "From now on, if someone spits on my face, I dare not make a sound, so I have to clean it myself, lest my brother worry." The teacher said, "That's what I'm worried about. People want to spit in your face because they are angry with you. If you wipe the spit off your face now, it will make people more angry. If you don't wipe your face, it will do it by itself. Why not pretend to smile! " The younger brother said, "I am sincerely instructed by my brother." This is the story of Mr Lou's self-discipline. This story vividly depicts the psychology of putting up with humiliation in order to be an official.

My family, Mr. Baisha, is a great scholar in Ming Dynasty. He wrote a forbearing motto: "seven emotions are born, and anger is a play." Public anger increases, but patience is right. When anger gets angry, endure water. Endure it, the more you endure, the more excited you are. After forbearance, it is Zhang Zhengyi. Don't make a great plan, but it is helpful. If you can't bear it, you will be defeated! " He wanted to learn from Zhang Gong's forbearance, but it was a pity that he never became prime minister. Like Lou Dede and Feng Dao, he ruled the country with forbearance. He can only learn the art of Zhang Gong and govern his family with forbearance. From home to the country, it is inseparable from a forbearance. Once we tolerate some things, the Chinese nation is the greatest nation in the world.

This word forbearance is really our only national quintessence. Forbearance philosophy: Taoism was first invented, but it never applied for patent registration. Laozi's indisputable principle lies in his tolerance. He said: "The husband does not dispute, and the world cannot compete with him." This is just his sophistry. Taoism often refers to Huangdi and Laozi as "the learning of Huang Lao", which is actually wrong. If the historical facts about the Yellow Emperor are reliable, then at the beginning of the founding of the People's Republic of China, the Yellow Emperor overcame everything with resistance and struggle. He drove Chiyou away, foreign invasion was eliminated, and he began to sort out his internal affairs and build a decent country. Lao Tzu advocates indisputable, weak. Not only did he never inherit the orthodoxy of the Yellow Emperor, but he was not worthy to be a descendant of the Yellow Emperor.

Since Buddhist philosophy spread to China, Laozi's philosophy has gained another helper.

According to legend, Sakyamuni was once a fairy with a bun, who often practiced Zen and couldn't sit still under a tree. A bird came, treated him as wood and laid eggs in his bun. When he was meditating, he realized that there was a bird's egg on his head. He thought, if I get up and walk, the bird will not come again, the egg will go bad, and he will settle down again until the egg is laid and the bird flies away. Although this story is not necessarily true, Buddhists are much more patient than us Taoists. During the Six Dynasties, Taoism and Buddhism were the most powerful, and it was during this period that China was the most unlucky nation. After the ravages of the five lakes, sixteen countries and the northern dynasties, the poor little court in the north and the south is still in a corner, suffering for the country and living a happy life. Although the Song Dynasty seems to have the greatest influence of Confucianism, in fact, most Taoists are wearing Confucian hats, but they are just wearing Buddhist and Taoist linings. They are talkative and have no real time. "The discussion is pending, and the soldiers have crossed the river" has become the laughing stock of the ages. During this period, the ethnic groups in China were also the most unlucky, and the north was always in the hands of different ethnic groups. As a result, the small court in the south gave in, gave in, and retreated to Hailia Mountain in Guangzhou, where the little emperor was buried in the sea. The Taoist school number of the Ming Dynasty was Zhongxing. The so-called Confucianism is the product of Buddhism and Taoism, that is, negative philosophy, lazy philosophy and philosophy of not seeking progress. Although a scholar named Wang Yangming breathed a sigh of relief, the last stream of Wang Xue degenerated into crazy Zen. The Ming Dynasty died, and the Chinese nation was unlucky for another 300 years. Although I don't have to blame the unfortunate invasion of foreign countries in the past two thousand years on Taoist Buddhists or even Taoist priests with Confucian nicknames. However, these three schools have been immersed in the blood of the Chinese nation for a long time, and the more diligent and profound they are in endurance training, the more unbreakable they are. Therefore, this great nation, which is the most tolerant of all things in the world, has become the most suitable nation to be insulted and invaded.

A philosopher regarded as Mohism said, "Seeing humiliation without humiliation is a struggle to save the world." Endure everything and advocate peace. What a great pacifist! I remember a passage in "Miao Shi Xiang Cong Hua" by Zhang Peiren, a Confucian scholar in Qing Dynasty: forbearance is a universal treasure in the world. If you argue with others about right and wrong, writing a word of forbearance will save a lot of breath. If you sleep with a beautiful woman, how much spirit do you have? ..... Where there are all kinds of promising things in the world, you can only bear them if you think about them. If you want to run away, you should whip your hand, which will save you a lot of trouble. But there is real danger in restraint, which is another word for harmony. Patience with peace is like cutting water with a knife. Harmony, everyone thinks it's a storm, I think it's a spring breeze, everyone thinks it's a raging wave, and I think it's a flat ground, called harmony ear. This is like saying that patience and peace are inseparable. No wonder China people are the greatest people in the world. They can tolerate everything. At the same time, it is the greatest peace-loving nation in the world.