A: The difference between "marriage" and "marriage" is that "marriage" means that a woman marries a man's house and takes the man's house as her home, as opposed to "marriage". For example: get married, marry a daughter. "Marry" means: a man greets a woman to get married, that is, "a man gets married". For example: marry a wife.

The word "marry" is explained in the encyclopedia: a woman marries, as opposed to "marry". The explanation of Shuo Wen Jie Zi is: married people have a family. A woman's home is a woman's home. Marry according to your own family. Go home to your husband's house. In other words, when a woman grows up, she needs to find the right man to get married and start a family. A woman goes out from her parents' house to her in-laws' house, which is called "marriage" and comes back when she arrives at her in-laws' house. For example: getting married, marrying a daughter, etc.

Related words: marriage, marriage, transfer, grafting, remarriage, etc. Send words: complain about others, marry others, marry men and women, marry women when they are older, marry chickens with chickens and so on.

Allusion: Marriage means that a woman goes to a man's house and takes the man's house as her home. Therefore, there is an old saying that "men take women as their rooms and women take men as their homes".

When a woman gets married, she will go home. In the Book of Songs, there is a saying that "the son returns home", which is what it means. According to the book "Ancient Society" written by American sociologist Morgan, human marriage begins with group marriage, then partner marriage, and then pairing marriage, that is, monogamy. Group marriage means that the man goes to live with the woman. For example, Shun, a legendary figure in the pre-Qin period in China, went to live in the home of Empress Hubei, which is a concrete example. Partnership is brother monogamy or sister monogamy.

In the Book of Songs, there are: the chanting of father and mother is characterized by it. The economic relations in this period are characterized by family property rights, which are generally owned by women or men and women respectively. When the pairing marriage system appeared, women no longer owned property rights, but all belonged to men. At that time, men hunted; Livestock breeders are also men.

Therefore, it is naturally men who own prey and livestock. Livestock is the main content of property in the late clan society. Women have no property economic rights and are naturally homeless. They take the man's family as their home, so they go back to China when they get married. The sound of home and marriage is similar, which is the reason. (A Preliminary Study on the Interpretation of Ancient Books-Selected Academic Papers of Huang Xianfan, page 464, Guangxi Normal University Press, July 2004).

The word "marriage" is interpreted as: marriage is both a cognitive word and a pictophonetic word. From the female, from the take, take also sound. China's traditional explanation is to take the woman over and get married, that is, "a man marries a woman".

The interpretation of Shuo Wen Jie Zi is: "Marry", that is, marry a wife. Marry his daughter as his wife. Classics are more fake than marriage. From women. Take the sound.

Related words: get married, get married, get married, get married and so on. Related words: weddings, funerals, seeking virtuous men, being married by honest media, preventing wives from remarrying, etc.

The etymological evolution of the word "marriage";

"Marriage" means that a man greets a woman to get married. In Oracle Bone Inscriptions, the "female" from which "married" is on the left side of "Qu", and the seal script of Shuowen is on the lower side of "Qu". Oracle Bone Inscriptions with the word "marry" is the same as the word "smell", which is the shape of a woman's voice. It is said that in ancient times, weddings were held at dusk. Because of the poor light, we must rely on hearing. The word "take" above originally meant that the enemy's left ear was cut off in ancient times in order to report merit, which extended the meaning of "get, lift and take". Here, we should just explain. Combined with the word "female" below, it means "bringing a woman". At the same time, it is also a pictophonetic character of "from women, taking sound". When Xiao Zhuan standardized strokes, the word "ear" was out of shape.

Lishu (a giant monument in the Han Dynasty) wrote Xiao Zhuan (Xiao Zhuqu) and Li Zhunv (Li Shunv) as "women". Therefore, it is divorced from ancient Chinese characters.

The above is the difference between "marriage" and "marriage".

China people's present view of marriage is based on feudal thought, but until now, it has not been divorced from feudal marriage thought.

It is believed that "marriage" means that when a man gets married, the population introduced from the woman's family increases at the same time to facilitate reproduction, so it is called "marrying a wife and having children". This view has the connotation drawn from the outside world, so it is called "De". Therefore, the word "marriage" takes "and" female "as its essence, which fully expresses the basic meaning of the ancient people's" passing on women from other families "and fully embodies the deep-rooted family concept of the ancient people in China.

On the contrary, there are also women in the woman's family who "marry" out. The original intention of marriage is to move from one place to another and reproduce, and at the same time, it also has the meaning that women leave their families and re-enter another family life. Literally, "marriage" takes "home" and "daughter", which means the essence of leaving one's home and re-entering a new family. For example, grafting means moving from one plant to another to grow until it blooms and bears fruit. Therefore, people in China think that women are like twigs on plants. When she moves to another plant to blossom and bear fruit, the shoots of this plant are no longer part of the original vegetation, because the married party belongs to this plant just like the grafted plant. This is "married people, spilled water", which is no longer ours.

In fact, the above-mentioned concept of "marriage" of China people is a specious thought and the embodiment of idealism. Biologically speaking, human "marriage" is nothing more than reproduction, and blood relationship is the continuation of parents' blood relationship, that is, marriage. According to the objective scientific point of view, "marriage" and "marriage" have the same meaning, that is, marriage and reproduction. Just because of social factors, there are too many interests to be weighed, which leads to the above misunderstanding and even the two families turn against each other. Whether you are married or not, you are all members of family of origin. Because biological consanguinity exists objectively, you can't say that "married people are all spilled water", which is inhuman and unscientific.

China people's present view of marriage is based on feudal thought, but until now, it has not been divorced from feudal marriage thought.

It is believed that "marriage" means that when a man gets married, the population introduced from the woman's family increases at the same time to facilitate reproduction, so it is called "marrying a wife and having children". This view has the connotation drawn from the outside world, so it is called "De". Therefore, the word "marriage" takes "and" female "as its essence, which fully expresses the basic meaning of the ancient people's" passing on women from other families "and fully embodies the deep-rooted family concept of the ancient people in China.

On the contrary, there are also women in the woman's family who "marry" out. The original intention of marriage is to move from one place to another and reproduce, and at the same time, it also has the meaning that women leave their families and re-enter another family life. Literally, "marriage" takes "home" and "daughter", which means the essence of leaving one's home and re-entering a new family. For example, grafting means moving from one plant to another to grow until it blooms and bears fruit. Therefore, people in China think that women are like twigs on plants. When she moves to another plant to blossom and bear fruit, the shoots of this plant are no longer part of the original vegetation, because the married party belongs to this plant just like the grafted plant. This is "married people, spilled water", which is no longer ours.

In fact, the above-mentioned concept of "marriage" of China people is a specious thought and the embodiment of idealism. Biologically speaking, human "marriage" is nothing more than reproduction, and blood relationship is the continuation of parents' blood relationship, that is, marriage. According to the objective scientific point of view, "marriage" and "marriage" have the same meaning, that is, marriage and reproduction. Just because of social factors, there are too many interests to be weighed, which leads to the above misunderstanding and even the two families turn against each other. Whether you are married or not, you are all members of family of origin. Because biological consanguinity exists objectively, you can't say that "married people are all spilled water", which is inhuman and unscientific.

Marriage, as opposed to marriage. It means that women get married. Shuo Wen Jie Zi says: "Women are suitable for people", and Yi Xu Gua notes "boudoir", that is, married women return to their parents' homes. There is such a record in the Book of Rites in mourning: "All women with a doctorate or above are married, and every husband is suitable for others." It seems that in ancient times, the words marriage and fitness were graded. In the upper class, women should be married, and women in the middle and lower classes can only be married.

Marriage, as opposed to marriage. Refers to the marriage of women, that is, the marriage of men. Shuowen Jiezi is said to be a wife, and Jiyun is interpreted as a "businesswoman" and a matchmaker. There is no hierarchy in the word marriage.

From marriage and marriage, we can also see the historical phenomenon that men are superior to women in the old society of China.

This topic is very interesting, in fact, it contains rich knowledge of ancient Chinese. What's the difference between "marriage" and "marriage"? Why do you usually say "men marry women" instead of "women marry men"? In fact, we have to start with the origin of these two words.

In fact, now everyone knows the difference. "Marry" and "marry" are relative words. Girls get married and men get married.

Looking up the Modern Chinese Dictionary, one of the meanings of "marriage" is "women get married." The basic meaning of "marriage" is: "Take the woman over and get married. Such as marriage and marriage. "

Then the problem is coming, and it is also marriage. Why do men and women say different things? Please look down-

1, the word "marry" comes from the word "home".

In ancient Chinese, when "home" is used as a verb, it can mean "getting married, starting a family, starting a family". For example, it is used in Qu Yuan's "Songs of Chu Li Sao":

Shao Kang is not married, but Er Yao, who has more than one family, is not married.

2. "Home" means "getting married and starting a family", which is mostly used by women.

This statement can be found in Shuo Wen Jie Zi and Kangxi Dictionary. Such as "Shuo Wen Jie Zi":

From this explanation, we can know that the ancient "marriage" also used "home", so the girl's marriage is also called "return". In the Book of Songs, there is a well-known chapter "My son returns home", which describes the marriage of girls.

Quoting "White Tiger Tong" in Shuowen Jiezi Note is even more explicit:

This note clearly states that a woman's adult marriage is called "home" and her husband's home is called "home".

The word "marriage" is a special word developed on the basis of "home"

Because "home" has many meanings and is widely used, the word "marriage" is added next to it, which is specially used to mean "women get married". Moreover, in ancient times, when a woman married a scholar-bureaucrat, it was called "marriage"; in Shu Ren, it was called "fitness"; now it is called "marriage".

1, the word "marry" was originally "take"

"Take" is to know the word. From, from the ear. Oracle Bone Inscriptions glyph. Ears on the left and hands on the right (again). Together, you cut your ears by hand. In ancient times, we fought by cutting off the head or left ear of the enemy's body as a contribution. Later, the word "take" was extended to mean "capture, obtain and welcome".

2. Because it means "welcome", it is also used for adult men to welcome their wives "home". So in ancient times, "take" was "marry", which could mean "marry" (see Chinese dictionary).

The word "Qu" is used in "Poem on the Qifeng Nanshan":

In Water Margin, Wu Dalang met his younger brother Song Wu and told him about his troubles after marriage. He also used the word "take":

3. Because the word "take" has many meanings and wide applications, a special word, namely "marry", was later developed.

"Han Dian": "Marriage" is a combination of meaning and sound, and from female, from taking, taking is also a sound. Original intention: When a man gets married, he will take a woman to get married.

Therefore, "Shuo Wen Jie Zi" notes: Marry a wife and take a daughter.

Through the above analysis, I understand the difference between "marriage" and "marriage" and why it is usually said that "men marry women" instead of "women marry men". In fact, this follows the cultural origin of ancient Chinese.

References:

Shuo Wen Jie Zi, Bai Hu Tong, Han Dian, Kangxi Dictionary, etc.

I declare with a rigorous attitude that my interpretation is only a personal interpretation, and I have not studied the relevant sources in depth.

The ancient people read the word "marriage" from right to left, so "family" comes first and "woman" comes last. In fact, the proportion of "female" is smaller than "home". Let's take a look at the first idiom that comes to mind-marry a chicken and follow it, and marry a dog and follow it. It can be seen that the word "marriage" reflects the discrimination and disrespect for women in ancient feudal society and the low family status.

The word "marriage" is an up-and-down structure. The ancients read it from top to bottom, so "take" comes first and "female" comes last. What does "take" mean? In ancient times, there was a saying that "get married first, then start a career", so "take" means seeking "fame and fortune". In order to achieve "fame and fortune", you need a woman. It still sounds disrespectful to women, but it is much stronger than the word "marriage". This at least thinks that women are good wives and can help men's careers. The ratio of "take" to "female" becomes 50/50. Let's take a look at the first idiom that comes to mind-the Ming media is marrying, which sounds more respectful to women than the word "marry".

Combined with the background of ancient feudal society, the above contents are objectively interpreted in a literal sense. Modern society advocates equality between men and women, especially in marriage. Both words are about marriage, "marriage" is from the perspective of women, and "marriage" is from the perspective of men.

China people's present view of marriage is based on feudal thought, but until now, it has not been divorced from feudal marriage thought.

It is considered that "marriage" refers to the increase in the population introduced from the woman's family while the man is married, so it is called "marrying a wife and having children". This view has the connotation of drawing from the outside world, so it is called "acquisition". Therefore, the word "marriage" takes "take" and women as its essence, which fully expresses the basic meaning of "his family introduced women to reproduce" and fully embodies the deep-rooted family concept of ancient China people.

On the contrary, there are also women in the woman's family who "marry" out. The original intention of marriage is to move from one place to another and reproduce, and at the same time, it also has the meaning that women leave their families and re-enter another family life. Literally, "marriage" takes "home" and "daughter", which means the essence of leaving one's home and re-entering a new family. For example, grafting means moving from one plant to another to grow until it blooms and bears fruit. Therefore, people in China think that women are like twigs on plants. When she moves to another plant to blossom and bear fruit, the shoots of this plant are no longer part of the original vegetation, because the married party belongs to this plant just like the grafted plant. This is "married people, spilled water", which is no longer ours.

In fact, the above-mentioned concept of "marriage" of China people is a specious thought and the embodiment of idealism. Biologically speaking, human "marriage" is nothing more than reproduction, and blood relationship is the continuation of parents' blood relationship, that is, marriage. According to the objective scientific point of view, "marriage" and "marriage" have the same meaning, that is, marriage and reproduction. Just because of social factors, there are too many interests to be weighed, which leads to the above misunderstanding and even the two families turn against each other. Whether you are married or not, you are all members of family of origin. Because biological consanguinity exists objectively, you can't say that "married people are all spilled water", which is inhuman and unscientific.

China people's present view of marriage is based on feudal thought, but until now, it has not been divorced from feudal marriage thought.

It is considered that "marriage" refers to the increase in the population introduced from the woman's family while the man is married, so it is called "marrying a wife and having children". This view has the connotation of drawing from the outside world, so it is called "acquisition". Therefore, the word "marriage" takes "take" and women as its essence, which fully expresses the basic meaning of "his family introduced women to reproduce" and fully embodies the deep-rooted family concept of ancient China people.

On the contrary, there are also women in the woman's family who "marry" out. The original intention of marriage is to move from one place to another and reproduce, and at the same time, it also has the meaning that women leave their families and re-enter another family life. Literally, "marriage" takes "home" and "daughter", which means the essence of leaving one's home and re-entering a new family. For example, grafting means moving from one plant to another to grow until it blooms and bears fruit. Therefore, people in China think that women are like twigs on plants. When she moves to another plant to blossom and bear fruit, the shoots of this plant are no longer part of the original vegetation, because the married party belongs to this plant just like the grafted plant. This is "married people, spilled water", which is no longer ours.

In fact, the above-mentioned concept of "marriage" of China people is a specious thought and the embodiment of idealism. Biologically speaking, human "marriage" is nothing more than reproduction, and blood relationship is the continuation of parents' blood relationship, that is, marriage. According to the objective scientific point of view, "marriage" and "marriage" have the same meaning, that is, marriage and reproduction. Just because of social factors, there are too many interests to be weighed, which leads to the above misunderstanding and even the two families turn against each other. Whether you are married or not, you are all members of family of origin. Because biological consanguinity exists objectively, you can't say that "married people are all spilled water", which is inhuman and unscientific.

As the old saying goes, the older a man is, the older a woman is. It means that men don't marry and have children, that is, "there are three kinds of unfilial, and none of them is great." Women who don't marry will be gossiped.

Why do you say "men marry women" instead of "women marry men"? What is the difference between "getting married" and "getting married"? I think there are mainly the following points:

There are actually two original intentions of marriage: one is that the woman marries, that is, marries or marries her daughter. The second is to pass on bad things to others, such as passing on the crisis and blaming others.

Marriage means that after marriage, the woman lives in the man's house and takes the man's house as her home. As the old saying goes, "Men take women as their rooms and women take men as their homes". As the saying goes, "Marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog", which means "the water spilled by a married daughter".

The word "marriage" reflects the traditional culture of ancient China.

The original intention of marriage is that men bring women to their own homes to get married, that is, marry, marry, marry and so on. The definition of Shuowen is: marry a wife.

When a woman marries, she returns home, which means the so-called "children return to their hometown" in the Book of Songs.

Men get married when they get married, and women get married when they get married. One marries and the other marries, with the former leading and the latter passive. Men can "get married" or "get divorced", which reflects the patriarchal ideology of China traditional culture.

Human marriage has experienced group marriage, partnership marriage and pairing marriage, that is, monogamy, which is influenced by economic relations. The so-called economic base determines the superstructure.

Group marriage and partnership marriage are the forms of marriage in primitive society. Men go to live with women, because in this period, family property rights are generally owned by women, so it is called matriarchal society.

The matriarchal society evolved into a paternal society. Due to the difference of physique, heavy physical activities such as hunting, farming and raising livestock are undertaken by men, who have economic property rights, so monogamous pairing marriage system has emerged.

Women have no property economic rights and are naturally homeless, so they can only take the man's family as their home, so they return to China immediately after marriage. When men have economic strength, women become subservient to men like commodities.

In the new era, there is no strict difference between "marriage" and "marriage", both refer to marriage.

Because of various factors, "women marry men" has also been heard from time to time, and some men will also be married by women and become "profiteers".

Therefore, the difference between "marriage" and "marriage" is the result of the continuous evolution of human society.

Marriage is to leave the home where you live and form a new home with other men; Marriage is to take women from other families back to their own homes and form a new family.

In ancient times, marriage mostly meant that women married the man's family and formed a new family. In modern society, men also come to the woman's house to form a new family. This kind of behavior is generally not called marriage, but calling home. Door-to-door son-in-law is more common in present life. Either because the woman's family doesn't want her daughter to get married or because the man's family is poor, there are many reasons anyway.

Generally speaking, in today's society, it is mainstream for men to marry women, and it is orthodox to marry women to go home. Men who come to you will be laughed at and discriminated against more or less! Either way, I think as long as the family is harmonious, both sides will be happy. Isn't this the original intention of our family?