Long years, vast sea of people, the road of life is full of obstacles. Such as life difficulties, failure in college entrance examination, job-hopping failure, hopeless promotion, poor health, no access to loans, blocked work, unreasonable control and so on. Whether you like it or not, setbacks may come at any time.

How to treat setbacks and how to face them?

Heroes have suffered many hardships since ancient times. In history, many people with lofty ideals have made extraordinary achievements in the struggle against setbacks. After being imprisoned, Sima Qian angrily wrote a book and wrote the famous Historical Records, which was praised by Lu Xun as "a historian's swan song, leaving Sao without rhyme". Beethoven, a musician, suffered unspeakable setbacks in his life. He lost his mother at the age of seventeen, was deaf at the age of thirty-two, and then fell into the pain of lovelorn. What a blow to a musician! But Beethoven was not depressed or discouraged. He wrote in a letter: "I want to hold my destiny. It wants me to give in, which is absolutely impossible. " He has always lived tenaciously and worked hard to become an immortal musician in the world.

Although setbacks bring pain to people, they can often temper people's will and stimulate their fighting spirit; It can make people learn to think, adjust their behavior, achieve their goals in a better way and achieve brilliant career. Scientist beveridge said: "People's best work is often done in adversity." Therefore, it can be said that frustration is a special environment for cultivating talents.

Of course, setbacks do not spontaneously create talents, and not all people who experience setbacks can make a difference. French writer Balzac said: "frustration is like a stone, which is a stumbling block to the weak and makes you shy;" For the strong, it is a stepping stone to make you stand higher. "Only those who hold lofty goals in life, set lofty ideals in life, consciously temper themselves in setbacks, rise up in setbacks, and pursue in setbacks can hope to become strong in life.

Su Bao faced with setbacks, different people have different philosophies, and some people adopt the methods of absorption, decomposition and digestion. "Since ancient times, it has been difficult to be talented." Many people at home and abroad have been in adversity, constantly striving for self-improvement, and embarked on the road to success in the storm. Sima Qian was jailed and humiliated to complete his masterpiece Historical Records. Milton, an English poet, was blind, but he became a world-famous writer ... In a sense, frustration is a successful midwife. In the face of setbacks, some people take an attitude of repression or even compromise, complaining blindly that the world is difficult and their fate is not good. When they encounter difficulties, they become depressed and will never recover. Some people take detours when they encounter difficulties and retreat when they encounter setbacks. They could have gritted their teeth and survived, but they gave up halfway. They could have grasped their destiny and faced the difficulties directly, but ended up in passivity, making setbacks a "foot-binding rope" on the road of life. Frustration is a powerful life experience, and huge waves can be magnificent! Catastrophes can sharpen people's hearts, great sorrow can cleanse them, and great shame can clarify them. In the process of fighting against fate, although everyone has difficulties, it can promote maturity. "Don't be surprised when you suddenly change your face, but suddenly add it without anger." Dare to face the test of setbacks and face difficulties with the attitude of a fighter, and you will show infinite charm and value, and you will gradually become strong. In the face of difficulties and obstacles, you will no longer shrink back, be depressed, be confused and be vulnerable, thus reducing or even avoiding greater setbacks. Being kind to setbacks is a kind of being kind to life and being kind to life.