Peggy Yang comes from an ordinary family of four in Taiwan Province Province.

When she was very young, she had an abnormal obsession and feeling about music, as if it was a world worth exploring, full of unspeakable secrets. After she began to learn the piano, she didn't want to come down as soon as she sat on the piano bench.

Because of her talent and hard work, at the age of five, she won the first prize in the Taiwan Province Children's Piano Competition-this is just the beginning. She was either the champion or the runner-up in later competitions.

People are always not satisfied with what they have and want more.

In order to let Peggy learn the piano better, her parents sold everything and moved to France, which made Peggy feel great pressure: I can't fail. What will they do if I fail?

After arriving in France, Peggy went in and out of the elegant French campus environment every day, while her parents worked hard in Chinese restaurants and laundry rooms to earn a meager salary. The strong contrast made her more stressed.

She studied harder and more selflessly, and her father seriously asked her to work harder.

She started smoking.

In her sophomore year, Peggy took part in the international Chopin piano competition.

Before the game, the expectation that her parents could only win but not lose made her almost tremble. She smoked hard and tried to calm herself down. After winning the prize, my father's face was a twisted expression of crying and laughing, and finally he burst into tears: they needed her success too much.

Feeling at a loss, Peggy met Leon.

If Peggy's first gift from God in this life is her musical talent, then Leon is the second.

Unfortunately, everything has changed because of my parents.

Parents said that Peggy's success was bought by them with great sacrifices, and her marriage was up to them.

Parents feel that they have suffered too much for Peggy, and it is unreasonable for her not to marry a rich man.

Peggy gave up Leon, and the result was: "From now on, I don't care if I live or die."

Under her father's arrangement, Peggy married a wealthy businessman.

Even though she is often abused by domestic violence, her father still forbids her to divorce. She said sadly that if she didn't get a divorce, she would commit suicide, and her father reluctantly agreed.

After the divorce, Peggy went to America.

In America, my father said, "You have been sensible since childhood, and you know that you love us." She married William, and they have known each other for a long time and have no feelings. Three years later, William left home for his lover.

In order to reduce the pressure and humiliation, she smokes more crazily, sometimes two or three boxes a day, and she also drinks heartily. She growled and broke things in an empty room. ......

When she was 42, she often felt chest tightness. After going to the hospital for examination, the doctor told her: lung cancer, advanced stage.

Hearing the result, she felt an unexpected calm, as if she knew it was destiny takes a hand.

Looking back on this life, what else is true except music and Lyon? If she could live again, she would be desperate to be with Leon, even if she hurt her parents.

Can Peggy's tragedy be avoided?

This is not easy for her, because her parents' strict discipline has made her accustomed to obedience. Even if she knew they were wrong, it was hard to resist. Subconsciously, "resistance" is a crime.

After reading this story, I feel very sad. If my parents hadn't put all their eggs in one basket to go to France, their lives would be completely different.

A musical genius, because of her parents, hurried through a brilliant and depressing life. Before she died, she told her story, hoping that parents all over the world could learn from her story.

Emma Foster was born into a bank family, and her brother graduated from Harvard Medical School and worked as a professor at Cornell University. My sister graduated from Wellesley College and worked as a violinist in Boston Symphony Orchestra.

She is the youngest child in the family, smart and beautiful, and is loved by thousands of people.

What a perfect home!

Everything changed because of an unexpected discovery when I was 7 years old.

On the second day of Christmas, there was a big party at home, and many celebrities were very excited.

Emma has nothing to do but wander around. When she was sitting alone in a corner of the banquet hall, she suddenly found a jeweler secretly pinching her mother's leg. Emma almost jumped with fear, but her mother looked as if nothing had happened.

From that day on, she changed completely, willful and mean. When I saw my mother sad and embarrassed again and again because of her, my heart was full of revenge.

/kloc-when she was 0/2 years old, Emma discovered a big secret: her sister was actually gay;

/kloc-When she was 0/5 years old, Emma heard from her brother who had drunk too much and hit people that he hated this family, and that grandma committed suicide because of grandpa's emotional changes.

But father is Emma's inner hope. She worshipped her father since she was a child, and he took good care of her.

After discovering that her mother was cheating, Emma always believed that her father was innocent, and everything she did was to win over her father.

But when 17 years old, she was surprised to find that her father had a lover outside and gave birth to a boy.

The last glimmer of hope disappeared, and her trust in this family was completely destroyed. Lying trembling in bed, she seemed to understand the behavior of her brothers and sisters: they should have known everything.

From then on, her behavior became even weirder: she wore clothes with holes, cut her hair like a boy and dyed it purple or blue.

There is always an impulse of revenge and resistance in her heart, and cynicism is to the extreme.

But she knows very well that under her rebellious mask, she is a very soft person who is most afraid of being hurt.

After a failed love, she found that no one could be trusted in this life. She wanted to avoid all the people who made her miserable and desperate, and the monastery became the only place she wanted to go.

This is her last revenge on her parents.

Emma died of breast cancer when she was 33.

A perfect home, three smart children, completely changed by their parents' behavior.

Hellinger said that a happy family relationship is like this: husband and wife stand side by side; Children stand in the middle position in front of their parents, forming a stable isosceles triangle relationship.

If it weren't for Emma's last words, her parents might never know that the root of her rebellion was their disagreement.

Some people say that the greatest gift parents give their children is mutual love, but many people always think it is an expensive toy.

Henry Stewart, the former executioner of the federal court in new york, felt more and more guilty, even though it was his job.

During his tenure, he ended 237 lives, all aged between 20 and 30, and they all committed first-degree murder.

Every time, he comforted himself by saying: I am not a judge, I am not sentenced to death, I am just a tool to carry out orders.

However, in the face of those fresh lives, how can he be indifferent? Everyone's eyes will have a deep fear of death, despair and regret for themselves at that moment. Most of them whispered that they should ask God for forgiveness. Some people left with expressions of extreme fear, and some people lost consciousness because of nervousness before being injected with venom. ......

What impressed him most was a 2 1 year-old young man named Stephen Miller: blond, tall and handsome, with all the youth and elegance at the peak of his life.

From being taken into the executive room to the last moment of his life, he always smiled, with no fear or regret in his eyes. When he saw Henry, he nodded politely.

Miller grew up in a single-parent family, and his mother had little time to accompany him because of her busy work. He grew up with countless nannies.

The hardships of life always make my mother feel bad. She often accuses and humiliates the shy and introverted Miller.

In the whole process of growing up, Miller never experienced affection and love, but he never left him for a moment.

At the age of 2 1, Miller was already a tall man, but his mother humiliated him as she did when she was a child. In a rage, he killed her.

When the police arrested him, he showed the same shallow smile as when he saw Henry.

He seems to be saying that this is what he wants. No matter what the cost, a life that has never loved does not know how to cherish itself.

This is a copy of a story from Desperate Housewives. There is a sentence behind the story that is worth pondering: a monster is always made by another monster.

Among the teenagers who commit crimes, the wrong family education is a very important reason.

These young lives, after experiencing the misfortune and pain of childhood, have to bear these unfortunate consequences and be taken away. Violent crime is hard evidence of the extreme lack of love in life.

Being a parent is an important matter related to the future of children, family and country. I hope that one day, "pre-job training" can also become a necessity for the profession of "parents", no matter what diploma TA holds.

When Cheng Yi was a graduate student in psychology in new york, his thesis was entitled Confession. In order to collect all kinds of last words, she consulted a lot of materials, but almost all of them belonged to celebrities.

It suddenly occurred to her: Why not collect the last words of real people in the city as first-hand information?

Through life, who can have no story? At the end of life, maybe they want to get it off their chest.

Contributors include nuclear bomb experts, CEOs of Fortune 500 companies, Hollywood actresses and so on.

At the last moment of life, what people say should be the most true: no one lied when he died.

I hope these anonymous letters can inspire the living. I also hope that every parent will light up their children's hearts with love.