Parents reading 1 book in class is a ray of warm sunshine in that cold winter day; In hot summer, books are a cool breeze.
I am very lucky to read "Parents' Classroom". I have always believed that every child who comes to us is the best gift from God. But it is difficult to have a unified standard for parents' instinctive love. Living with children and raising them is a challenging and exhausting process. Love alone is not enough. For every child, all mothers are good mothers, but growing up with children requires wisdom and endurance, sunshine and an open mind.
First of all, through the countless experiences of parents' education in the book, I can see that excellent children worry teachers because parents pay attention to the cultivation of children's fine character in details. In the process of children's growth, we should pay attention to their emotional intelligence education and quality education, so that the exam-oriented education and quality education are not contradictory. This is worth studying and thinking by teachers and parents.
Secondly, I learned that the cultivation of children's good study habits will continue and expand with parents' words and deeds and silent companionship, and will accompany children from primary school, junior high school, high school to university, and finally go to society, so that children can benefit for life. From children's unconscious learning to doing, to children's conscious learning to do, this is a sign of children's self-growth. As the saying goes, "the knower is not as good as the good, and the good is unhappy." Education is not just a principle, but a trickle of parents' love, which always moistens children's growing hearts and is in tune with them.
Finally, it inspires us and our parents to understand that children are a unique existence, not your private property, and they do not belong to you and me. After all, they belong to this country and this society. Don't blindly compare with others because of vanity, otherwise it will affect the healthy and all-round growth of children. Parents should not be eager for quick success. They should treat schools and children with an educational vision and psychology, wait for their children to grow up bit by bit, be more patient and caring, let them lay a good foundation in all aspects, and let them naturally form good habits such as reading, enjoying learning, loving groups and being kind to others. We often study: learn textbooks well and surpass them; Based on the classroom, beyond the classroom; Respect teachers and surpass them; It is more important for us to learn from our parents and surpass them! In a utilitarian society, between exam-oriented education, we should not "torture" children together, but actively use teachers to accompany them, enlighten their wisdom of struggling with their heads down, cultivate their feelings of looking up at the sky, and shape their sunny and open mind!
Books are a ray of warm sunshine in the cold winter; Books are a breeze on a hot summer day; Books are mellow tea, which is memorable; Books are sacred steps that lead people to the highest throne. I like reading, and I am willing to grow up with my favorite books!
I remember there is an article in the book called "Beauty is alive", which is very practical. This article also gave me great enlightenment, let me understand that at any time, profound knowledge, good cultivation, broad mind and a loving heart can make a person live a beautiful life! This "parent class" not only made me learn a lot of knowledge and truth, but also my parents fell in love with this book, and they were deeply attracted. Every night, my parents and I will take some time to sit in bed and read this book together. That happy atmosphere surrounds us! This book not only brings us endless knowledge power, but also brings us happiness and family harmony!
Books, sunshine, warm me; Books, cool breeze, cool me; Books, fragrant teas, are so mellow; Books are stairs, so sacred! I love reading! I love books! I love parent class!
I used to be a sailor and didn't go home for months after I set sail. Although I have been to many places and seen many different customs, what impressed me most was my missing my family in the vast sea, which also made my family extremely important in my heart. My daughter's arrival is a great surprise. As a new father, I resolutely gave up drifting at sea and returned to my family, because I didn't want to miss any moment of my daughter's growth.
When my daughter grew from an infant elf to a slim figure, as a father, she undertook more than just taking care of her and accompanying her. The education and training the day after tomorrow made me a little at a loss, especially after I entered primary school, my daughter became like a car with one foot on the accelerator, making rapid progress and sometimes even occasionally disagreeing. She is no longer the little girl who can only be spoiled in front of her parents. I have my own circle of friends and my own small world, so that as a father, I can't adapt to such rapid changes, but "Parents' Classroom" is a buffer to resolve conflicts, which makes me realize that growth is not only a daughter's own business, but parents should also grow up on the road of being parents!
Parents are the best teachers for their children, but often parents really put themselves in the role of teachers and tell their children in a similar way that they can't do this. When they can't do it, it often causes children's resistance, because parents firmly believe that they are right, and all this is for the good of their children, and they don't have a deep understanding of their children's ideas. I used to have this idea, but after reading "Don't turn teaching into command" in this issue of "Parents' Classroom", I think parents are the best teachers for children. They will not arbitrarily give their children any orders and requirements that they think are correct, but set an example and prove it with practical actions, which is often more convincing than using words to declare. Similarly, what children understand through their own understanding is far more profound than what their parents mean.
Most of the housework at home is done by the children's mothers. My children and I are getting more and more naked and don't want to do anything! Seeing this situation, I gradually helped my mother wash dishes and clean the kitchen after work. Unconsciously, the children gradually joined in, tidying up the furniture and mopping the floor to brush the cups; The children also realize that home belongs to all of us. We should share the housework and be responsible. We can take labor as a pleasure, get happiness from it, give home a beauty, give people roses, and have a fragrance in our hands. This is the protagonist mentioned in the parents' class.
It is mentioned in the article that when a child is young, she knows nothing about the world and needs to be coached by her parents. However, as the child grows up, she needs friends and parents to respect and listen to her. When the child wanted to share it with his parents, they ignored her because of their busy work. After a long time, the child will not communicate with her parents, and her small self-esteem will be hurt, which may not be compensated by any great patience in the future.
Thanks to the "parent class", I can reflect on it in time. As a tree to shelter my daughter, this is my' nutrition'. No child is born sensible, and no parents are born educated. The child is stumbling on her growth road, and the parents are groping on the way to accompany her. However, this is life, it will not be smooth sailing, but there is no lack of fun.
My son went to primary school, and we subscribed to "Parents' Classroom" on the recommendation of our teacher. Since we received the first book, the contents in it have deeply attracted us.
"Concern" makes timely and accurate comments according to social hotspots, which is thought-provoking; Celebrity Tutoring and Essays on Teaching Children have brought us successful experiences and benefited a lot. "Home-school communication" guides parents how to communicate well with school teachers, and home-school cooperation helps them understand their children; "Overseas Window" and "Appreciation of American Literature" broaden their horizons and learn from each other's strengths; "Parents' Taboo" and "Children's Voice" let parents know about their children, walk into their hearts and care for them; "Good Prescription for Teaching Children" and "Expert Lecture Hall" enable parents to correctly educate and guide their children while learning theoretical knowledge and combining the practical experience of other parents.
The two serial articles in "Parents' Classroom", "Where are the Weaknesses to Make Up", touched me a lot. In the article, the father showed his daughter's growing process from childhood to childhood, from a naughty little girl to an excellent teenager who went abroad to study independently at the age of 15. Through every word, every sentence and every bit of examples listed in the article, there is a father's care for his daughter and his good intentions for the growth of his children. After reading the article, I sincerely admire the excellent performance of the girl, but also admire and feel ashamed of this father. My son has just entered the first grade, and some problems are the same as this girl. At first, I was very anxious and uneasy. After reading the article, I can calm down and think about how to help my son adapt to study and school life. At the beginning, my son was a little behind in verbal calculation. After I go home according to the teacher's request, I must do oral arithmetic exercises every day and record the time. I also practice oral arithmetic with my son randomly according to some scenes in my life. For example, I asked him how many pairs of chopsticks he needed for dinner. After he answered, I only gave him a part, and then asked him if he had enough and how many pairs he needed. If the answer is correct, I will kiss his little face and my son will happily set chopsticks. There are also Chinese Pinyin and English, and we will also practice and communicate in oral English at any time. Compared with the father in the article, my efforts and intentions are insignificant. If I can persevere like that father, it will also help my son's study and future growth.
The article "Finding a Learning Style Suitable for Children" also inspired me and achieved certain results. According to the article, every child is different from others, and we can find the most suitable method for children according to their characteristics, so as to achieve twice the result with half the effort. According to the tips in the article, I also analyzed my son's situation. First of all, he is a child who is easily influenced by the external environment, so try to give him a quiet environment when studying. In addition, my son prefers singing, and he learns while listening. He learned it several times and felt that he was an auditory preference. So I used his time on the way to and from school every day (20 minutes one way) to put recordings of English, ancient poems or stories in the car. He likes listening to them very much. In the past winter vacation, we often listened to "Thirty-six strategies to get ahead", and each story lasted at least seven or eight minutes. Now my son can imitate and tell several short stories vividly.
Parents' class has brought me a lot of insights and more knowledge about teaching children to learn. Parents want their children to be excellent, so that their classes can accompany me and my son to grow up together.
Parents' feelings after reading in class 4 Parents are their children's first teachers, and every parent attaches great importance to their children's education. What should we do in the process of education? How come? This matter has been bothering me for a long time. Like all parents in the world, I want to train my son into a talent, but in real life, there are many times when I don't know how to solve it. Read "Parents' Classroom" again-after being an invisible parent, it gives me great inspiration in educating my children.
Educating children is really a great learning. Some people say that education is entertaining and makes children learn easily. It is every child's nature to love to play. Parents should accompany their children to understand and abide by the rules of the game while they are playing the game. They can't change the rules of the game according to their own ideas, which makes the game change. Teach children to lose and let go in the game, at the same time actively absorb the reasons for failure and continue to participate in children's games. Parents should not only ask their children to study well, but also develop in all aspects. Parents should let go of their children's hands and feet, don't worry about their mistakes, let them do what they can, and don't deprive them of exercise opportunities and stifle their ability to solve problems. Therefore, in daily life, let children do what they can, cultivate their sense of independence, and let children actively try to solve problems instead of passively waiting for their parents to help him solve them. Our parents should give their children the greatest encouragement and support in this process, so as to give them endless strength, and children will face and solve problems more actively in future actions.
Third, every child is the shadow of his parents. Every time I see my children's shortcomings, I get angry, but thinking about it also affects them with our parents' own usual habits. My father and I are usually busy with work. When I get home, I will play with my mobile phone and watch TV. Let the children watch TV with us and don't like reading. Today, after reading "Parents' Classroom", I know that if parents want their children to love reading, first of all, parents should form the habit of loving reading and teach by example. I will try not to look at my mobile phone when I get home, especially in front of my children. I will start from myself and pass on the quiet reading atmosphere at home to my children, so that they can form a good habit of loving reading.
Thanks to "Parents' Classroom", I understand that as a parent, I can't just satisfy my children's food, clothing, housing and transportation. It is more important to understand children's spiritual needs, communicate with them more and guide them with correct language. We should learn to observe children's changes carefully, understand children's real thoughts, communicate with children on an equal footing, and be good friends with our sons. Come on, let's work together to cultivate children into excellent, kind and loving babies.
Parents' feelings after reading in class 5 From the birth of children to school, every parent, as a beginner, gropes for progress in the process of children's growth. Like all parents, I have the ideal of "wishing my children success", but how to educate them is very confused and even difficult. Fortunately, "Parents' Classroom" extended a helping hand to me, just like a spring breeze blowing away my confusion and confusion in educating children.
"Parents' Classroom" tells me: "Parents study hard and their children make progress every day. "She told us in persuasive language that parents should grow up with their children. There is love like a lighthouse between the lines. From then on, I fell in love with her.
"Parents' Classroom" tells me that children's spiritual enlightenment begins with family education, and "parents are the children's first teachers" is like this. In the family, the mother's protagonist is very important. From the birth of the child, even in the mother's body, the mother will sow the seeds of language in the child's heart. When seeds take root in children's hearts, the intimate relationship between parents and children can't be cut off. Therefore, making language and personality warm, vivid and emotional, and going deep into children's hearts will promote the sound development of children's minds, rather than mechanical language. Until now, I am very glad that if I was angry at that time, would my children be as good as they are today without parents' classes? ...
I regard "Parents' Classroom" as my social university, guiding light for educating children. It enlightened all parents, lit up a bright light for our vague understanding, and benefited me a lot.
Parents of Class 6 feel that reading a good book can affect a person for a lifetime. Parents' class is really a good book. Reading this book has great inspiration, influence and guidance for my children's educational methods. As a parent, I have to face the problem of educating my children almost every day, and I often don't know how to solve it. After studying, I gradually changed many thoughts and behavior habits that affect children's development, and also found many good ways to solve family education problems.
What I teach my son most is commands and lessons, demanding this and that, but I don't want to listen to his needs. After reading "Parents' Classroom", I really felt the needs of children and found the shortcomings of our family today.
I often have too much impatience with children's naughty, willful and various problems in learning. After reading "Parents' Classroom", I understand that "parents study hard and children make progress every day"; I understand that every child has her bright spot, and parents should be good at exploring it. We should have enough patience to communicate with children. We should not only educate and criticize the child with the attitude of parents, but also make friends with him to influence and educate her.
After consideration, the following conclusions are drawn:
First, increase parent-child interaction.
Go out to socialize as little as possible, take time to play ball with my son, make assembled toys and other things he likes. The whole family has dinner together at least once a week, and he can talk about the interesting things that happened at the dinner table.
Second, strengthen the family learning atmosphere.
Let children spend more time doing some useful reading in class to stimulate their interest in knowledge. At the same time, we should also start from ourselves and read more books. The learning atmosphere at home is good, and children will learn with Zen mind.
Third, strengthen communication with children.
We should understand our son's psychology and really grasp his needs. Once the children's learning attitude and grades fluctuate, we should not blindly blame them, but calmly and carefully ask the reasons.
Fourth, cultivate learning consciousness.
My son drags his homework and has a poor sense of learning. We will take a step-by-step approach to improve this: first, we will discuss and reach an agreement with him. As long as he can accomplish his study task consciously and excellently, we will allow him to put forward appropriate additional conditions. With the improvement of his consciousness, the additional conditions will gradually decrease until the conditions do not allow him to study consciously.
Five, the cultivation of self-care potential and labor habits
I intend to gradually cultivate his self-care potential and work habits, and form a sense of serving others and participating in housework. I'll ask him to tidy up his room and be a little assistant while his parents are cleaning.
Sixth, pay attention to character education.
Good behavior habits are an important part of children's education. With the growth of children, the world outlook and morality are gradually formed. We should start from daily life and cultivate children to be independent, confident, responsible and caring. Practice is better than precept. Give up your seat to the elderly by bus, unite and be friendly with classmates, respect teachers, care for small animals, admit mistakes frankly, solve problems by yourself, and shape children's good character of honesty, openness, love, self-reliance and self-reliance in the future. Only parents who don't know how to teach, and no children who don't teach well. We believe that with the joint efforts and careful watering of parents and teachers, our children will be able to thrive and become useful pillars of the country and society! "Parents' Classroom" taught me how to be a qualified parent, how to love and appreciate children, and how to make her a confident, happy and enterprising child with wisdom and love.
After reading "Parent Classroom", children have just entered the world of "parent classroom" with the recommendation of teachers and friends. With the sensitivity of my profession, I know it is not easy to be a qualified parent, so I opened a parent class in September. In my reading, there are many bad phenomena in my son's life, such as delayed homework, inattention in eating, unconvinced criticism, big temper and many reasons. When I finished reading it in one breath, I was relieved, because I understood where the child's shortcomings came from and how to correct them.
What impressed me most was the interview with Chai Xinjie, "paying attention to the formation of children's study habits" and "guiding children to enhance self-control". Teacher Chai gave us many practical methods with her own personal experience and experience, such as giving children the concept of time, teaching them to keep a diary, making an agreement with them, and letting them grasp their remaining time. Many things are neglected in my daily life. Teacher Chai gave me a good inspiration. However, some of the phenomena mentioned in the article "Guiding children to enhance self-control" are very similar to my son, so I think it is very practical. I remember when the school started in September, the child was not used to writing homework, and wanted to play when he came home from school. He was reminded that when writing homework, he had to say that the conditions were like fighting, and he was reluctant to correct his poor pinyin, even tears fell out, and he dawdled for almost 2-3 hours every day. Later, an agreement was implemented: save the word "award" and play games or watch cartoons on weekends. If you can finish your written homework before eating, you can get a "reward", if your schoolbag is neat, you can also get a "reward", if your homework posture is correct, you can get a "reward" and so on. Improve and encourage children to develop good habits from details. After a month of persistence, children can go home and finish their homework voluntarily, or they can finish some homework at school. They can take the initiative to let me check, consciously rewrite bad words, and basically develop the study habit of going home to do homework.
Next, I am faced with the cultivation of interest in learning. Reading is the best teacher. It is my idea to let books grow with children, which coincides with the educational concept of parents in class. On weekends, I will organize bookcases with my children, sometimes borrow books from the library, and insist on telling stories every day. There will be books where children hang out. My son can choose books. He often likes popular science books, but refuses fairy tales, especially stories with bad endings. In view of this, when telling stories at night, he chose to insert some different types of fairy tales to expose children to different worlds. This shows that the child's mind is still very young, hoping to inspire him through stories. Reading is to prepare for writing, so I try to let my children say "articles". Children in grade one can't read many words, so it's impossible to write. So I asked my child to say something interesting and meaningful in life, and my mother came to be his assistant, wrote down his thoughts, and an eloquent little article came out. The children were interested in writing letters and sending them to their good friends in kindergarten, so we started sending letters. "Parents' Classroom" tells me that parents' guidance and companionship are very important for children's growth, especially those in lower grades.
Precious things always grow up slowly. This is a very touching and beautiful article in "Parents' Class in September". The author describes the deep concern for children from the narrative perspective of the second person. "Are you happy, son?" Are you happy? Are you grateful? "Between the lines, the mother's understanding, care and deep love for her children are integrated, but she does not lose the timely education and requirements for her children, and also makes her understand that she should learn to cherish everything around her. This article touched me. Yes, parents should learn to tell their children what they have done for their children, and let them know that we should not only take, but also learn to give, learn to be grateful and learn to appreciate ourselves, because precious things always grow slowly.
Children's education still has a long way to go. We are all "freshmen". Let parents accompany us in class to be a qualified parent!
First of all, I thank the school and teachers for giving me this opportunity to play and discuss here!
After reading Yang Lan's paper "Don't put all your strength on children" in "Parents' Classroom", I was deeply touched! The article said: "Whether you are a busy parent all the year round or a mother who can spend more time with your children, the most important thing is to let your children see that you are a person who fully enjoys life! "As a mother, we should live a full and happy life and let our children know that this is the way to realize the value and happiness of life! Parents are children's first teachers, and whether children grow up healthily has a direct and huge relationship with parents. Here I admit that I am not a qualified mother. In the future, I will learn from the mother in the article, try my best to control my emotions and minimize the harm to my children!
The normal and healthy development of children is the goal and yearning of every parent. Let's learn to change ourselves and our children with the most enthusiastic and full mentality, and let them become talents. Thanks to the book "Parents' Classroom" for giving me experience and inspiration on how to educate children. I will grow up with my children and this book! Thank you.
As a mother, I feel happy and know the great responsibility. How can we educate our children well? I have no experience. I can only try to educate my children according to some memories of how my parents educated me at that time and some parenting methods that my colleagues and friends usually exchanged. I always feel that I have my own characteristics and I am not very satisfied. After reading the magazine "Parents' Classroom", I felt the same way and gained a lot.
As the saying goes, "parents are children's first teachers", and it is very important to set an example. Nowadays, every family generally has a child, who is deeply loved by grandparents, and doting is very common. The education of spoiled children basically falls on their parents' shoulders. Parents' words and deeds will affect their children. Children are good at imitation, and children will learn from their parents' words and deeds. Once I sent my children to kindergarten in the morning. In order to hurry, I didn't take my children to the zebra crossing because there were no passing cars on both sides. After crossing the road, the child asked me, "Mom, why don't you take me to the zebra crossing?" My face turned red at once, and I quickly apologized to the child: "Mom is wrong this time, so I must obey the traffic rules next time." When telling children about safety knowledge at ordinary times, say "red light, green light, yellow light, please wait" and "crossing the road should take the zebra crossing". Children memorize everything their parents taught them, but when they see that their parents don't do what they say, they will ask why. As parents, set a good example for children. Teach children to judge things correctly and guide them to grow up healthily. For the healthy growth of children, as parents, we must create a good growth environment for children, establish correct words and deeds, and set a proud example for children.
Some time ago, the educational method of "tiger mother and wolf father" was circulated. Children need to rely on high pressure to become talents, and parents' prestige is established by yelling, beating and keeping a straight face. I think that's just an example, not a common educational method. In the stage of basic education, we should emphasize students' free exploration, active learning and healthy growth. Parents win respect through equal interaction with their children and understanding and respecting their children. Parents talk face to face with their children and look directly at each other, which can especially make their children feel an equal family atmosphere. When the child is talking, parents had better listen attentively, and don't interrupt the child's topic casually, so that the child can feel that the parents are amiable and trustworthy. If a child feels that his parents are like friends, he will talk about everything and be free. In an equal and relaxed environment, children will develop a lively, cheerful, confident and innovative healthy personality.
My parents' reading experience is 10. At the request of my son, I subscribed to "Parents' Classroom". I just thought it was fun at first, but then I got hooked.
This book is a masterpiece of contemporary family education. If our methods of educating children can play a role of 10%, then the role of parents' classroom is 100%. I did what I said above, and my son has really changed a lot. He changed from a child who didn't like reading to a child who had to read for several hours every day. Parents are at ease and children are happy.
This book also comes with food, education and life tips to make our life safer and more intimate. The overseas window allows us to know more about the prescriptions of foreign godchildren, so that our education can be compared with foreign education, learn from its advantages and correct its shortcomings.
Parents' Classroom is a book that allows us to find light in the dark: parents' taboos, essays to teach children, and prescriptions to teach children. ...
The "parent classroom" is a good teacher and friend for every parent. I hope parents and friends will read it carefully. I think every article is a true Jin Meiyu, which is worth learning and learning from. I like open-book articles very much, which are always enlightening, such as "Give every grass time to blossom". Every parent wants his children to succeed, which is followed by strict education. At an innocent age, children actually have their own hobbies. Do we parents really understand the needs and characteristics of children and guide them in a targeted manner? In the face of all kinds of special classes and learning remedial classes, have we really analyzed what children need? As adults, we use our so-called foresight to pave the way for our children. Are they happy? When children strive for opportunities to prove their worth for themselves, do we face them calmly and objectively? Is it to deny children or to close the distance between us and children? I think I need to reflect.
With reasonable methods, children's lives are also happy, and parents don't care much about their children, which is also worry-free.