To understand your composition correctly (1) xx, an international master of mathematics, had to choose mathematics because he knew nothing else; The famous painter xx also had to paint for other reasons. They didn't know anything else before, but now they are famous. What is the reason? They know themselves correctly, see their own advantages and disadvantages, and choose a brilliant life path that suits them. From this perspective, it is very important for a person to know himself correctly.
We have all read the stories of camels and sheep. Camels can eat leaves from high places, but sheep can't. Sheep can't go low and camels can't. This tells us that everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses. We should know ourselves correctly, see their strengths and weaknesses, and we should not be blinded by them, nor be arrogant or laugh at ourselves.
Nothing can be done except one thing, which looks terrible. How can a person's life fail so miserably? Actually, it is not. As long as you do one thing well, it is success.
Because this thing is what you are good at. Mark Twain, a world famous writer, was a businessman when he was young, but he lost everything and owed a lot of debts. Since then, he has contacted all walks of life, but all ended in failure. Later, when he found that he was good at writing, he gave full play to his writing skills and became a world-famous writer. Only by knowing yourself correctly, seeing your own advantages and not being troubled by your own shortcomings can you create your own beauty.
Li Bai, a great poet, has the grandiloquence of "God-given talent, let it be used". Everyone has advantages, and he will walk out of a wonderful life with his own advantages. But we must understand that we can't magnify the advantages and ignore the disadvantages. Always thinking about your own advantages and burying your own shortcomings will make you not know how to reflect, but will only be conceited, and the ending will only be like a tin can in pottery, eroded by wind and rain without a trace.
Knowing yourself correctly will make you not discouraged when you are surrounded by failure, and let the light of superiority illuminate your way forward; Only by knowing yourself correctly can you make your shortcomings become a sober agent when you are successfully lifted up, and keep a normal heart so that you will not be left behind by success. Only by knowing yourself correctly can we treat life with a normal heart without magnifying our own advantages and disadvantages.
Don't let the advantages confuse you, don't let the shortcomings bother you, know yourself correctly and realize the transformation of life.
Understand your composition correctly (2) You may be a star, but people around you want you to be the moon; Maybe you are a grass, but people around you like you to be a tree; Maybe you are a stream, but people around you want you to be a river ... what should you do? Are you blindly catering to what others think of you? In fact, the wisest thing to do is to know what you are correctly, otherwise it will bring bad consequences.
Xiang Yu is a famous tragic hero in the history of China. He didn't know himself correctly. When he was young, he failed to study and gave up; Then I learned the sword, but failed and gave up. Hot Xiang Liang was furious, but Xiang Yu said that those things were not worth learning, and he had to learn the skills of ten thousand enemies. Xiang Liang had to teach Xiang Yu the art of war. Xiang Yu knew a little about the art of war, but refused to learn it again. Xiang Yu was too ambitious and unlearned, but he listened to others and wanted to be the overlord of Chu. He died in Wujiang River.
Facts have proved that if you don't know yourself correctly, you won't know what you are suitable for and what you are not suitable for. Only by knowing yourself correctly can you achieve yourself.
For example, Bill Gates of the United States studied law at Harvard University, but he realized that his interest was not in law, but he could better play his specialty in computers, so he worked for Microsoft without graduating from college and finally became the richest man in the world. If Bill Gates didn't know himself correctly, but listened to other people's opinions and continued to study law, there wouldn't be a well-known Bill Gates today.
If you can't be the moon, you can be a star, shining in your own constellation; If you can't be a big tree, be a grass and decorate the earth with your own green; If you can't be a river, be a stream and let yourself sing happily in the mountains.
Only by knowing yourself correctly. Knowing what you should and shouldn't do, and choosing the right growth path, can you become a person who is beneficial to the people, realize your life value and make yourself really happy!
Have a correct understanding of your composition (3) "There are few moon stars, blackbirds fly south and circle the tree three times. Which branches can we rely on? " This is a line from Cao Mengde's poem "Short Song".
Why don't we ask ourselves, "What can we rely on?" Ask yourself what is right for you, find your own position, and find your own belonging.
Fierce and strong, the eagle flies fast and swoops down from Jiu Feng to catch its prey. This is its viability and its attached branches. It is also predictable that the cowardly crows blindly imitate the eagle, get twice the result with half the effort and finally fall into the hands of shepherds. It is true that its spirit is commendable, but it forgets to consider its own advantages and disadvantages.
That's the way it is, and so are people.
Only by finding one's own position and finding the branches suitable for one's attachment can life reach the extreme.
Confucius, the forerunner of a generation, after traveling around the world, initially aimed at establishing a perfect society governing the country with "benevolence". He did not succeed in the end, but he was a very good teacher. Confucius' disciples spread all over the world, and he eventually became a great thinker and educator in China. It can be seen that only by finding your own branch can you realize the meaning of life.
Chaplin, a generation of comedy master, always became the laughing stock of others because of his poor looks when he was young. However, this has just become an advantage in his comedy career, and all the silent comedy films he starred in have reached the realm of silence over sound. I have to say that his "poor" appearance contributed to his "good" performance.
Bill, the richest man in the world? Gates was originally a student of a famous foreign university. However, when he felt that the content taught in the university was not suitable for him, he resolutely left the school and engaged in his favorite computer design work, and finally accumulated unparalleled wealth in the world.
Society is developing, but the truth has not changed. Only by finding your own position and finding the right branch can life shine.
The crow's spirit of daring to struggle and being willing to learn is commendable, but it can't recognize its own strength, can't do what it can, and is doomed to failure.
"Three turns around the tree, what branches can you rely on?" Go around the tree three times, not the branches!
People not only need the spirit of courage to struggle, but also should recognize themselves. Only when you have both can you succeed.
With self-knowledge and hard work, the light is just around the corner. After hard work, you will find that "three turns around the tree, this branch is reliable"!
Have a correct understanding of your composition (4) Since ancient times, no one is perfect. Only by learning to look at yourself comprehensively can we make progress and improve.
We believe that we can't just focus on our own advantages and deliberately hide our mistakes, so we will be complacent and self-righteous and naturally will not make progress. Just like some students think they are the best after seeing their own advantages and some achievements, they don't accept others' suggestions and opinions with an open mind, and they won't remind you if they don't correct them several times. You will stay on what you have achieved, make no progress, and finally fall behind others like a "tortoise and rabbit race". So I think: we should pay more attention to our own shortcomings and mistakes, accept others' suggestions and opinions with an open mind, and correct them in time. Only in this way can we make rapid progress.
We must be careful when looking for our own problems and mistakes. Because both problems and mistakes appear unconsciously, we must find the root of the problem. Of course, we should not just find problems and mistakes without dealing with them, but "find them early and treat them early" It is necessary to come up with countermeasures that can play a fundamental role in prevention and control in time and stick to your own measures for a long time in order to successfully and accurately diagnose and treat problems and mistakes.
Dealing with problems and mistakes with the right medicine will inevitably encounter some difficulties. When you encounter difficulties, you should take the initiative to ask others, that is, people often say "don't be ashamed to ask." Some students will be embarrassed to ask others and hide their questions in their hearts. With the accumulation of problems, their interest in learning will be less and less, which will eventually lead to a decline in their grades. Therefore, we should hold an open mind and sincerely ask each other for learning methods, learning skills and other experiences.
When parents teach you knowledge, learning methods and the truth of being a man, we should also listen patiently. We should not be satisfied with what we seem to understand, but should "get to the bottom of it" and "know what we know, don't know what we don't know, and know what we are". I think as long as we look at ourselves comprehensively and thoroughly through the above methods and seriously correct our shortcomings and deficiencies, we will make progress and progress.
In short, only when people realize their own problems and mistakes, look at themselves in an all-round way and accept others' opinions with an open mind can they become real "people" and pillars of society when they grow up!
Know yourself correctly (5) The eagle flies in the sky, the cheetah gallops on the grassland and the fish swims in the water. Everything in nature has its own place. I have read the story of a chicken and a duckling: when the chicken was catching insects on the shore, it happened to see the duckling catching fish in the water to eat. Then the chicken said, "Why can ducklings catch fish in the water?" And I can only catch bugs on the shore to eat? I also want to play in the water. The duckling heard the chicken's words and quickly persuaded the chicken to say, "You can't swim, so don't go into the water, or your life will be in danger." The duckling said that and swam away. But the chicken thought the duckling was scaring it, so she jumped into the water with a splash without thinking, but the chicken sank as soon as it touched the water. At this time, the chicken was anxious like an ant on hot bricks calling for help. Fortunately, the duckling heard the chicken's cry and swam to save the chicken ashore. The chicken narrowly escaped.
This story tells us that people are different and have their own strengths. You may not be able to do what others can do. When we see the advantages of others, we should find our own shortcomings, not envy others, and do what we can't do for our own face, which is likely to get hurt.
A correct understanding of oneself is a necessary condition for survival in this world. The fastest cheetah on the grassland, because of a falcon's words, climbed up the snow-capped mountains blindly and finally died. As a cheetah, he should know that he is best at running speed, not height. If you give up your roots and pursue the destination, you will bring your own destruction!
Know yourself correctly and don't need to listen to other people's comments. Others' understanding of you is only one-sided, and only you know yourself best. When someone laughs at our incompetence in one aspect, we don't need to prove anything to them at all-we should use our strengths to realize the greatest value in life.
The success of great men depends not only on their efforts, but also on their correct understanding of themselves. Although God has not given each of us the same fate, since God has given us a gift, let it work! . As long as we can know ourselves correctly, we will be able to compose our own wonderful music!