In real life, many people are uncomfortable when they see the advantages of others. In his opinion, no one should have advantages except himself, so is he really perfect? We know that only a sane person can appreciate the beauty of others. After years of wasted time, these people suddenly looked up and found that people at the same starting point ran to the front, their inner peace was broken, their self-balance was lost, their emotions were ruled by impetuousness and anxiety, and they gradually lost themselves, so they had the appearance of "little people often share weal and woe". Because I can't calm down when I do anything, I finally get nothing, which aggravates the imbalance of my mentality. In the loss and complaint, the garden of the soul is barren and overgrown with weeds, and it is in no mood and unable to appreciate the beauty of others.

I have seen two pictures in the newspaper. On the left is the Millennium mummy, and on the right is the prototype of the deceased copied by scientists with the latest scientific and technological means. This is a beautiful young girl. Her hair is like clouds, her skin is moist, and her delicate face is written with youth and beauty, especially her bright eyes, like stars in the night. Looking at these two images, people are deeply moved, and even beautiful faces will be changed by time. At the same time, I thought of another thing. I remember when I was working as a counter in a savings office, one day I saw an old man with sequelae of stroke, with his head tilted and stumbling to withdraw money. He didn't have much money, but he did it over and over again. After he left, it was pointed out that he was the father and mother of this land. I can't help feeling sad when I look at the back of this old man with mobility difficulties. I thought he also had the momentum of all-powerful, but now he is just an old man who has lived for half his life. No matter how beautiful a person is, no matter how brilliant his career is, it is also a matter of an instant. Life is too short to succeed. After understanding this truth, do we have more love, sympathy and tolerance for our colleagues and friends? Should we appreciate their beauty or success more than demanding, blessing more than jealousy?

In fact, it is a very happy thing for a person to learn to appreciate the beauty of others. We can see from Zhang San his great ambition to serve the public, from Li Si his shrewdness in business and financial management, from Wang Wu his perseverance and superhuman wisdom, and learn from them what is beneficial to us. As Confucius said, "A threesome must have a teacher, so we must choose one who is good and follow it." Learn from others' strengths, do what you can, and you will find your place through unremitting efforts. One day, you will become the scenery of others, and you can enlighten others and enrich your life. Learn to appreciate the beauty of others. In real life, it's like being in a beautiful big garden, full of green grass and flowers, full of joy, full of love and tolerance, no longer demanding others, less anxiety and irritability, and you will feel that the world is beautiful everywhere.

People often talk about "confidence". Parents say that people should have confidence, and teachers also say that they should have confidence and keep cheering for us. However, it may not be so easy to cheer up a person with extreme inferiority and get him back into study and work. The problem is that I don't realize my potential and appreciate myself well.

Looking around the world, no one's life has been smooth sailing since ancient times. No matter celebrities or ordinary people, they all have their own peaks and valleys. People who feel inferior always complain and never know how many treasures are hidden in the valley, which is extremely sad. And those celebrities will have a good attitude at any time, maybe outsiders will comfort them, but the most important thing is that they can maximize their potential in their own valley, so as to appreciate themselves and achieve a good result in the valley. This is the winner's ability.

Helen Keller, a famous American writer, went blind at the age of one and a half, which was the low point in her life. But she didn't give up life. With the attitude of teacher and self-appreciation, she struggled into the middle school and then entered Harvard University, a famous American university. Started her writing career. Without her self-appreciation mentality, if she gives up halfway, I'm afraid the name of Keller will be little known!

The ancients said, "You can't carve rotten wood." At the beginning of the Zhou Dynasty, when the dragon and the white-fronted tiger were called "three evils of righteousness", they must be dead wood in people's eyes! However, at the beginning of the week, he did "three evils in one" and found Lu Yun, making him turn over a new leaf. I'm afraid at this time, dead wood will also become good material. At the beginning of the week, there was also a self-appreciation mentality.

Self-appreciation is actually a manifestation of self-confidence. As long as you have firm self-confidence, you can find your own advantages and achieve the effect of self-appreciation. However, there must be a degree of self-appreciation. Excessive self-appreciation means conceit. Ma Su of the Three Kingdoms was so conceited that he was beheaded because of the fall of the street pavilion. Such self-appreciation is extremely harmful. Therefore, excessive self-appreciation will ruin your life, while smart self-appreciation will bring up thousands of talents in Qian Qian.