When I saw this sentence, I was like a bolt from the blue and my head was blank. I just repeat, repeat, repeat this sentence.
That's a good friend of mine. I complained to her that day, and she said this to me. I told her that everything I told others was true, but others didn't want to pay attention to me. I am also sincerely good for them! Her words made me seem to understand a lot. She is like a philosopher! Yes, this sentence has been used by me all my life.
Yes, some people speak directly and hit the nail on the head, and don't want to beat around the bush; Some people tell others the truth wisely; And some people, full of good words, don't want to tell others the truth, for fear that others will be hurt and offended.
I am the first and the second. I will tell others the truth, and I think others will accept it, because when I get the truth from others, I will accept it with an attitude. I must correct those shortcomings and reflect on myself. I know the truth is really unpleasant sometimes, but after all, advice is hard to listen to, and you have to accept it if it doesn't sound good, otherwise how can you correct your shortcomings, right?
It is this attitude that makes me unpopular. Is it wrong to tell the truth? Is this bad for others? Isn't that what a good man should do?
Oh, if you still think so, then you may not have learned to be a man. Yes, change it. You don't have to be nice to them in the future, as long as you know. Why tell others and make others hate it? Just be yourself. Many times, this is often the performance of a "good man". Even if "good guy" needs double quotation marks.
Refer to it and adopt it.