Every pursuit of life is like an impassioned hymn, which inspires us to keep moving forward. Even if we encounter bumps, our hearts are still surging. Do you know that every time we give up in life, it is also a gurgling spring, which washes away the dust and melancholy in our hearts and inspires us to pursue again. I didn't give up my pursuit. Tao Yuanming gave up the struggle for official career and the intrigue of officialdom and pursued another realm of life. "Picking chrysanthemums under the east fence, you can see Nanshan leisurely." What an open mind and jealousy! From then on, there was another carefree hermit, like still water, driving a boat and enjoying nature.
I didn't give up my pursuit. Lu Xun abandoned medicine and joined literature. What he pursues is the "good medicine" to save the country and the people. Therefore, Lu Xun's lofty quality of "bowing down as a willing ox" has been admired by China people from generation to generation. Since then, there has been an admirable national hero on the calendar.
I didn't give up my pursuit. Desert exploration abandoned the bustling city and pursued the beauty and magic of Populus euphratica in the desert. Their footprints have written down historical memories.
Pursuit is poetry, giving up is rain. Every line of the poem needs to be moistened by drizzle, which makes it particularly smart and nutritious.
Pursuit is floating clouds, giving up is floating clouds. Beauty in the sky is not only chardonnay, but also white clouds. How romantic and poetic it is to dye clouds with rosy clouds! Our life is just a beautiful long outline woven by these white clouds and patches in Xia Hong.
Giving up doesn't mean losing. Giving up requires a broad vision and an open mind. To give up is to undergo the baptism of wind and rain and pursue goodbye to the rainbow. Because the sky is bluer after the storm.
Xiang Yu, the overlord of the Western Chu Dynasty, gave up the opportunity to defeat Liu Bang again and again, and lost his country. The brave man on the Wujiang River who triumphed and fought bravely with a halberd will go down in history forever. He lost his beloved war horse Wu Sui and his beloved wife Yu Ji. The hero standing at the end of the fierce wind and cloud is so heroic at this time. He lost his beauty and his motherland, and he got the most sincere words from his beloved: "You will always be the greatest hero in my heart." He really gave up, and what he pursued was a "hero" spirit that the world lamented. It is more beautiful to give up on Xiang Yu.
Pursuit is a ship, giving up is a sail, and only a ship that knows how to give up in time can go further.
Pursuit is the moon, giving up is the star. Only the night when the stars accompany the moon is more harmonious and romantic.
Pursuit is an impassioned song in life. A song that inspires us to keep moving forward. Giving up is a gurgling spring that washes away the dust and melancholy in our hearts. I think giving up is also a kind of beauty.
Chapter 2 Believe in yourself
Believing in yourself is a kind of faith. It is not like a dream, but like a piece of loose snow. It is because of this belief that we will persist and be confident forever. Listening to opinions is a kind of tolerance It is not a vast sky, but it is like a sea containing hundreds of rivers. It is precisely because of this tolerance that we will brainstorm and listen to good suggestions.
Isn't it? Believing in yourself does not mean being opinionated; Listening to opinions doesn't mean following suit.
There is no doubt that Emperor Taizong's ability to govern the country freely, but at the same time he accepted Wei Zhi's "Ten Thoughts" and did not have to "think hard instead of thinking".
The King of Qi also has the ability to manage all directions and state affairs, and he will not doubt his talent, but he also accepted Zou Ji's "teachable" and made "Yan Zhao, Han Wei are all equal".
No one will doubt themselves easily, but who can be as good at coaching and listening to others' opinions as their predecessors? Always think that "believing in yourself" and "listening to other people's opinions" are incompatible, always think that you can do anything, or always think that others are invincible. Why? Why can't we believe in ourselves, be confident and open a cigarette case full of friendship at the same time?
Believe in yourself, believe in the future, believe that the earth will fly tomorrow and believe that we will develop in the future.
Trust others, respect others, trust others to think of you, and respect their ideal choices.
Yes, in the journey of life, we will always encounter difficulties and setbacks. They are like roses, stinging your hands and mine. However, the wounds of the soul must be repaired by themselves, and the wounds of the hands must be bandaged by others. We believe that we will overcome difficulties, but we never deny the help of others. No one can live alone without the help of others.
So, don't be stubborn and extreme, and don't do whatever you want. Sometimes other people's advice is like good medicine. Although bitter, it can cure your disease. Sometimes, other people's advice is like poison. Its appearance may be delicious, but it can kill you. Therefore, we let people believe in themselves and treat others' opinions selectively, rationally and wisely. Ok, just bring it here; No, let it go, the spring breeze blows and blows, and the flowers bloom and fall. Can we care that much?
Believe in yourself, have you done it?
Listen to other people's opinions, okay?
Chapter III Details Decide Success or Failure
Throughout the ages, many people often fail because of small things, but some people succeed because of small things. Therefore, the details determine success or failure! Throughout history, we have to admit that people who pay attention to details are more capable of achieving great things.
"When others are present, don't sing by yourself, and don't tap with your fingers or kick with your feet; Don't interrupt when others are talking; Don't sit down while others are standing; Don't go by yourself when others stop; Don't read books or newspapers when you are with others. If it is really necessary to do the above things, you must also ask. Don't read other people's books or works without permission in advance, and don't get too close when writing letters ... "This is part of the" password "that President George Washington copied in his notebook when he was 14 years old. It can be said that this is some details, even very restrictive details, but Washington regards it as a necessary "vitamin" for growth. If he doesn't care about these little things and never cares about other people's feelings, it's hard to imagine that he will make America prosperous.
This is the great man who pays attention to details. If Washington didn't pay attention to details, he wouldn't be the founding president of the United States, let alone make the United States prosperous. It can be seen that attention to detail is the cornerstone for Washington to become president.
Lu Ruihua once said: "In China, there are many people who want to do great things, but few people are willing to do details. We don't lack great strategists, what we lack is excellent executors; We don't lack all kinds of rules and regulations, what we lack is the out-and-out executor of the rules and regulations; We must change the impetuous and superficial habits, advocate paying attention to details and doing small things in details. "
The famous wooden bucket theory holds that the amount of water in a wooden bucket depends on the shortest board. And the detail, in a sense, is the shortest board. During the Spring and Autumn Period, Zi Han was "not greedy for wealth"; In Qing Dynasty, Zhang Lianqing Boxing was inscribed with "Take a penny, I am not right"; Lin Zexu wrote a banner of "Controlling Anger" in class because he is easy to get angry. Mao Zedong, a heavy smoker, insisted on not smoking a cigarette during the Chongqing negotiations. ...
A drop of water can see the sun, and a glimpse can tell the whole leopard. Details are equivalent to test papers, which can measure a person's quality and realm. Everything you say and do may be a radical part of fate. Great men are great men, not born, but acquired. Laozi said: "Everything is difficult and easy; The major events in the world must be detailed. " If Lin Zexu didn't pay attention to his weaknesses, he wouldn't be a great man. If Mao Zedong doesn't pay attention to small things, he will make a big difference.
There are no small things in the world, and there are no details in the world. There is a folk song in England: a nail is missing, and a horseshoe is missing. I lost a horseshoe and a horse. Lost a horse, lost a general. Lost a general and lost a battle. Lost one battle and lost another. Losing a battle ruined a dynasty. It can be seen that if you don't pay attention to details, you may not be able to achieve great things.
Details are the cornerstone of success. Harvey. Firestone once said, "Success is the son of details". Michelangelo said, "In the field of art, details are God." Reese also said: "Taishan does not allow soil, so it can become big;" Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can be deep. "
Therefore, if you want to succeed, you must pay attention to details, because details determine success or failure!