How far can a wife's derailed marriage go? In fact, many people want to ask: how long can such a marriage last? I believe that many people in the real society are troubled by this problem. With the progress of the times, the probability of derailment is also rising. If you haven't heard of it before, maybe you will know who is cheating next door that day. When you never think that your relationship will be derailed, you will find that two people who once loved each other don't know why, they are no longer close to each other, and even have an emotional crisis. In this relationship, there is a third party, pulling the emotion between you. However, for the marriage that was found to be derailed, the other party chose to forgive, and both of them agreed to start over. So how long can the repaired marriage last, just like putting a time bomb between two people, it will explode carelessly. I don't know. No one knows what will happen later. It will detonate the bomb. Therefore, if we want to use a specific time to say how long the marriage can last after the derailment, it is really unclear. The marriage after the derailment is better, which is closely related to each other's personality and the degree of fit when they get along. If they like to quarrel, argue with each other and can't tolerate each other, even if they are together, they won't last long, and they will still make the same mistakes.
First of all, you should calmly face your wife's affair, don't beat and scold, and then think calmly. It is more important to find out why his wife cheated. Sometimes the wife's infidelity is not the woman's unilateral reason, but the man is also responsible, whether he doesn't care enough about her, or ignores his wife's needs, and so on. Don't rush to divorce when you know that your wife is having an affair. Do you want to continue this marriage after you find out the reason for the affair? If you can forgive and accept your wife's affair, correct your mistakes and be tolerant of the mistakes made by your wife. This matter is over, so don't mention it again. If you really can't accept your wife's affair, being together is torture. If you find out that your wife is having an affair, what is the wisest thing to do? In addition to self-improvement, you also need to use external forces to rebuild your attractiveness. You blocked your wife's contact with a third party, especially asking her relatives and friends for help. The authorities are obsessed with outsiders. After being persuaded by relatives and friends, your wife must know how to weigh the interests. Once your wife changes her mind, open your heart and really accept her. You shouldn't let your wife's affair get in the way of your marriage. Think of it as a wrong journey, you have already passed it. As long as you don't look back, happiness is ahead. When you come out, this marriage will be more mature.
Changes after the wife cheated 1. Change of dress: If a woman is still immersed in the romance in the early stage of love after an affair, she usually pays great attention to her image. In other words, women are the most beautiful when they cheat. They pay great attention to their own modeling and will dress themselves more charming and beautiful than usual. I'll start buying myself new clothes and wearing fragrant perfume. If his wife has such a big change in dress, then the husband should pay attention, which is a common real phenomenon after women cheat.
2. Changes in the relationship between characters: If the woman is derailed, the contradiction between husband and wife will increase day by day. If such contradictions occur, most of them are caused by women. They began to be dissatisfied with their husbands, complaining and arguing with them about minor issues. A few women who cheat will also have small contradictions and frictions, like their husbands asking for a divorce. Because I had an affair, I wouldn't care about the pain in my husband's heart, and I wouldn't forget Zeng Jin's vows of eternal love with her husband.
3. Changes in emotional dependence: If a woman is not cheating, if she is a husband and often has conflicts with her wife, most women will vent their tears and let her husband marry her. When a woman has an affair with her husband, she won't cry easily, but she will ignore her husband relatively. I hope it doesn't matter to either of them A woman who cheats will never cry so easily because of her husband's accusation. Because in their hearts, they have a new love, but they don't have a husband, but they are thinking about other men.
If the man is not very strong and belongs to the weak type, it is still possible to forgive his wife. He wants a complete family. Although I knew that the other party had done something wrong, I finally chose to forgive because of factors such as feelings and family. Generally speaking, as long as the woman doesn't make such mistakes again, she can survive this marriage.