Being single may be more free,
But freedom also has a synonym called loneliness.
Because people don't always like being alone;
Sometimes good things need to be shared,
Sometimes you need comfort when you are sad.
The reason why single aristocrats appear is because
Economic independence, personality independence, emotional independence.
What is independence?
Independence is a need, not a dependence.
Independent people need the opposite sex and don't depend on it.
Before becoming a lover, she should be friends first.
She appeared in your life after becoming your friend,
It is possible to know you, know you and know your strengths.
And have a good impression on you, further develop feelings,
Become lovers and objects.
The colors in the world are not only white and black,
There is a long gray area between black and white.
As long as you get along with each other, you can find each other's advantages and have a good impression.
This is a natural process of emotional development.
Love at first sight and love from beginning to end are unrealistic.
What we need is not this kind of unrealistic and illusory feelings.
Some people describe dating the opposite sex,
It's like picking stones at the seaside. Everyone will pick the one they like.
Once you find a stone you like, take it home.
Treat it well, because it is your only stone.
And remember, don't go to the seaside from now on.
Always believe,
I found the biggest, most beautiful and most suitable for me.
The most important thing about dating the opposite sex is not how good he is.
It's how good he is to you.
If a person has good conditions, a hundred points,
But this percentage, he only gives you 30 to 40 points, or 120 points;
On the other hand, the other party may only have 70 or 80 points.
But he treats you wholeheartedly,
So which one should you choose?
In fact, everyone's conditions are the same.
No matter how good you are, others are better than you.
You can't be the best person,
But you can be each other's best people.
Every boy would say:
Although I am not the best man in the world, I am the most suitable man for you in the world.
Conversely, girls are the same, which is something that everyone can do.
The most important thing about feelings is to be good to you.
It's not how good he is.
But if a person is already excellent,
I really love you,
Then you can really trust him with your life.
Now women think that the only condition for marriage,
It should be whether you love him or not, whether he loves you or not,
Is it true for you,
Will there be pressure and happiness with him?
Not what he has!
True love on earth is hard to come by.
In a person's life,
It's hard to find one
Someone you really love, someone you can spend your life with.
If you're afraid of expression,
Or afraid of what might happen,
Miss the true love that may only happen once in a lifetime,
That would be a shame,
So be sure to take the initiative and speak your mind.
If a boy
I look down on that girl because she offered to be nice to him.
Then the boy is not a boy, but an animal.
Besides, happiness is more important than face.
If you can sacrifice your face for a lifetime of happiness,
It is very worthwhile to speak your mind bravely.
Don't hide your heart.
Never say that fate has not arrived, in fact, fate is everywhere.
But it is fleeting. If fate is not grasped in time,
Then there is no "share".
Most women pay more attention to the spiritual aspect of their feelings.
Men tend to be materialistic
Besides being considerate to girls,
Learn to be responsible for girls,
Caring and considerate for all the girls in the world,
All for a girl.
Besides,
The resolute Muna can't please girls,
So learn to sweet talk to girls and say more nice things.
Men, love of sex;
Women, sex for love.
A relaxed and happy relationship is easy to maintain for a long time!
An unsustainable and painful relationship won't last long.
There should be a choice after this.
We are all ordinary people,
What you want is ordinary happy love.
For all feelings, the process is far more important than the result.
Why? Because all feelings are fruitless.
What is the result? Get married?
Are you happy after you get married?
It can be seen that we don't judge its value feelings by the results of feelings.
Nor does it judge its value by the length of time.
For feelings, everything that happens exists,
Everything that ever existed is valuable.
Every paragraph, every minute, every second of feelings in the world.
Are worth cherishing.
Marriage is the biggest gamble in life.
In this infinite time,
We want to show each other the ugliest side.
The difference between marriage and love lies in:
Love may take two hours to dress up,
Be considerate of each other, be cheerful and finish the task easily.
However, marriage can't keep a high profile at any time.
So, marriage is a big bet,
It needs full preparation, careful planning and complete trust.
Then go gambling. Even so, you may still lose.
So if you know yourself before gambling,
I don't want to. I don't love him very much. I don't want to spend my life with him.
Then this bet is doomed to lose.
Never.
Marry for any reason other than love
The value of feelings
It's not what you can get from each other,
On the one hand, it is a feeling of being dependent and needed.
Someone depends on me, needs me,
I'm satisfied.
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In the face of feelings, we should adopt the three noes policy:
The first one is not in a hurry: don't get married in a hurry.
Although getting married is a wonderful thing, don't worry.
What should be yours is yours.
Second, don't be afraid: don't be afraid to pay.
Maintaining a good relationship requires a lifetime of hard work from each other.
You can't get a good relationship,
You can only find one person you love,
Come to * * * to manage, create and complete a beautiful relationship.
If you are not determined to be a good man, you will not get a good woman.
No bad man in the world will have a good woman,
Bad men only have poor women;
Similarly, no bad woman will have a good man.
Besides, there is another one in the relationship.
Work hard with us and want to be a good person.
This cooperative relationship has a great chance of success.
The key is whether you are willing to work hard and pay.
The third is not to give up.
When you are hit, frustrated or hurt,
When you feel discouraged and disappointed,
There is someone who will always be on your side unconditionally.
Support you, encourage you, comfort you,
Let you stand up and face the world again.
This kind of power can't be given to us by our closest parents.
Even the best friends can't give it to us,
Only the beloved partner found in the journey of life,
Give it to us.
In fact, love is the only truly precious thing in life;
And the only thing really worth pursuing.
As long as you have a lover,
You have motivation,
You can face the world.